Intentional Marriage With Mabel Onwuemele

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Keep me burning for you Lord till I meet you face to face😥😥

Hey you...

Stop getting sad over Small things. Stop getting emotional over things you can't control. It's time for you to be happy again.You deserve happiness.Yes You!You deserve all the Happiness in the World. Don't be too hard on yourself Honey.God will not forsake you.
Enjoy your weekend and have a beautiful Sunday Service.

6 months is enough for a man to know if he wants to marry you. Stop wasting your time on unproductive relationships.

A LITTLE STORY ABOUT SHOWING KINDNESS

In 1994, I was a young teenage girl out of secondary school but from a very poor home where the daily bread never seemed to go round. I finished my secondary school in 1994 but furthering my education looked like a tall dream.

My parents were struggling to survive in the Agbor and I was in Lagos running helter skelter, trying to look for means of going to school. The only family I had in Lagos was my uncle.

I had just gained admission that year to do a predegree program since the university system refused to admit me for law and I needed money desperately for my registration. Had lost two direct admissions due to paucity of funds.So I wasn't gonna let this slip away.

Before I came to Lagos,I was an ardent member of Assemblies of God church but as I got to Lagos,I was invited to Foursquare Gospel Church Gbagada under the leadership of late Reverend Olakulehin and Pastors Nasiru and Lawal.Right from the first day I attended the church, I fell in love with the choir. Music was another escape for my pain and deprivation.

Mr Domingo is a member of Welfare at Foursquare Gospel Church where I worshipped at the time.
I approached Mr Domingo one day and narrated my predicament to him.To my uttermost surprise, he just dipped his hand into his pocket and gave me wads of naira notes that should be up to 20k that year.
It was a lot of money in those days which was enough to take to school for fees and registration and also take care of my needs. Mr Domingo assured me that he'd always render assistance towards my education, and it looked like there was finally a light at the end of the tunnel for me being the first child among nine children. (Yet to understand till date,why poor people give birth to many children)

One day, after a Sunday service, I ran the greet the Father I know in Lagos,and he said to me "let me introduce you to my wife so that she can also be of help to you whenever I'm not available".You're a very intelligent and focused young girl.You need all the encouragement to pull through.

I felt it was a good idea.
The day I was to meet his wife,I was so happy,I felt real joy because,if the man is this nice,that means i have a second mummy in the wife. The thought of being an adopted daughter to this beautiful family so engulfed me that i forgot it was 4 oclock in the morning and i was already getting dressed. I got to the gate and knocked. The gateman opened for me and confirmed that madam was inside. He said he was told to tell me to wait.

I waited right there at the gate house but she didn't show up. I was already getting tired because I trekked some distance before getting to their house.
I went to the gateman again and said "please, help me remind madam again that the girl her husband told her about is here"
"She knows and she still insists that you wait", he responded.
I had no choice despite the stress, the hunger pangs and the scourging sun .So asked the gate man if I could sit at the back . The yard seemed cool. He obliged me because I was sitting outside the gate house for hours and the sun was dealing with my skin. At the back,I saw yams and onions in their fifties. I was happy just watching the foodstuffs because at least she would spare some food for me to take to school.
I was so lost in my thoughts that I didn't notice she was already standing at the door.
Her voice brought me back to reality
She walked out holding a red wine in a beautiful glass cup. She looked me over condescendingly from head to toe and said
"Hey, we are not a charity organization. The church welfare is there. If you need anything you can always go to them."

Oh my God!Did i hear her right or was i day dreaming?I was so embarrassed. I cried from Gbagada estate to Oworonshoki where I lived. I had no money on me and I thought I was going to get at least some transport fare to go back home. People stared at me and wondered what could make a young girl cry helplessly and hopelessly on the road as I continued to cry uncontrollably.My tears lasted for days,weeks and months.

With the help of my friends Deborah and Hannah Akiri,who told their mum what happened, I was able to go back to school with foodstuffs. Oh those girls treated me like their own blood sister.

I packed my bags and travelled back to Agbor. I explained all I was going through to my Dad in tears. He has always supported me because he believed i will bring succour to him and the entire family. Oh how i miss him.He suffered and suffered and died.My father never lived to see the salvation he hoped for through me.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.Back to my story. My Dad was able to borrow fifteen thousand naira from papa Ajabor that lived at mariere street Agbor. Learnt he's late now.(May his gentle and kind soul rest in perfect peace). This man was always borrowing my Dad money each time he needed money.I remember he borrowed him my waec money too but he never collected the money back because according to him,I was very intelligent and focused.That was his personal gift to me.I never disappointed papa Ajabor because I made all my papers at one sitting.

However,I went back to school and read like no man's business. I studied round the clock. I was angry with the way the world treated me. I was angry that life was so unfair to me.I was angry that my Dad was not educated. I was angry that I was underprivileged. I made up my mind never to be poor in life. I hated poverty with so much passion.I made a promise to myself that I will be relevant in life.I Was too focussed to succeed that I never had a boyfriend throughout secondary school or as a university undergraduate.I buried myself in God and my books.

I didn't tell Mr Domingo any of this. When I got back to Lagos again and he asked if I met his wife, I said yes I did. But I never narrated what transpired. He still dipped his hands in his pocket and gave me some cash but that was the last time I ever collected money from him.

I met my husband shortly after I finished my predegree program.
He proposed to me the very first day he met me and travelled back from Lagos immediately. Shortly after our miraculous meeting, he got a job with Diya fatimilehin and company.
Even if it took me a year and seven months before I gave him my consent,he started, paying my school fees from year one before I knew it, we were married and he took up the responsibility of everything concerning my schooling.

I'm doing this in order to thank Mr Domingo wherever he is now, for all he did in my life and to let him know I've replicated the same kindness to many other young girls around me who are out of school.

I may not be a billonaire extraordinaire but , I've been using my Ngo to bring smiles to the faces of people around the World.
Women of Purpose development foundation was birthed just to give back to society. You,Mr Domingo is one of the reasons behind WOPDF which I registered to remember your kindness and the kindness of my community in Agbor to give back to society that gave me.

Whatever position you find yourself in life, please help, show love and support.
I would like you all to please share this post because I'd love for it to get to Mr Domingo wherever he is. I want him to know that the little girl he helped years back is now bigger and better and hasn't forgotten his kind deed.

As for Mrs Domingo,Thank you for how you treated me as a young and helpless teenager who was powerless and Hungry for change. You gave me the hunger for success. You gave me the unquenchable fire to succeed.Was I angry before now ,Yes but not anymore. I am grateful to you because the anger I felt transformed me to what I am today.Thank you for everything. I love you still Big Mummy.

The moment you change your perception, is the moment you rewrite the chemistry of your body👀💃

''I do not fix problems. I fix my thinking. Then problems fix themselves.'' Louise Hay.
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It all starts from the thinking!!!

Nothing means anything, except the meaning you give to it. 🤨🤔

So never assume❌ your partner knows the reason for you saying ''Nothing'' when asked why you are silent or moody😔😟

Marriage is about Communication not Assumption.💯💯💯

“Your Monday morning thoughts set the tone for your whole week.
📌📌📌Say boldly:-
''Am having a Productive Week''
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See yourself getting stronger, and living a fulfilling, happier and healthier life.''

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Our Monday will result to a Money💰Day and not Mourning Day, we experience easy ex*****on of our goals as we await an executive Blessing 😇💸💷

Cheers to a New Week

When everything seem to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.

Sometimes when you're in a dark place you think you've been buried, but you've actually been planted and made stronger.

One phrase that got me through many difficult times in my life was: God's delays are not God's denials.

Today forgive yourself.That you made a mistake does not make you a mistake.
You are More.

The day shall bring nothing but blessings

Peace, Love and Raspberries
Your Love Doctor 💊
Mabel Onwuemele

Good things come to those who believe. Better things come to those who are patient. The best comes to those who don't give up.

It's another day to show God how grateful you are for the gift of life he has given you. Happy Sunday!

Happy Sunday
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