30/07/2026
Financial Literacy, Personal Habits and Beliefs: Why Financially Knowledgeable People Still Struggle with their Finances
Imagine two people living under similar circumstances. One earns N$30,000 a month but regularly borrows money before payday. The other earns only half as much, yet consistently pays their bills and saves part of their income. Imagine having that situation on repeat month after month, barring any health or family emergency that requires unexpected huge outlays of cash. Suppose both individuals have advanced financial knowledge. Why does one struggle while the other succeeds?. You see, financial literacy is often treated as the solution to financial problems, when in reality it is only one component. Knowledge tells us what to do but our habits, emotions and beliefs determine whether we actually do it.
We can talk about financial literacy and personal financial management principles, but at the very core of individual financial success is our habits, emotions and beliefs. Financial literacy is necessary but not sufficient. Even a seasoned finance professional or accountant with a deep understanding of financial concepts such as cash flow, income vs expenses, assets vs liabilities, time value of money, budgeting, expenditure tracking, will fail at a personal level not due to a lack of financial knowledge, but just because of some habits that impede their financial success. Some of these may be impulse buying or spending to get some relief from anxiety and stress, or spending because of status perceptions, some might be alcohol and substance abuse, or it may be extreme generosity.
Beyond our financial knowledge, there are some aspects of ourselves that have a powerful say in who we actually relate with money that most people are unaware of and that rarely get discussed. Whatever the case maybe, our habits, our beliefs about ourselves and how we perceive the world have a foundational impact on our financial success.
The Role of Habits
A habit is a behavior that occurs almost automatically and without conscious thought because it was acquired through lots of repetition. Impulse buying something that a lot of people do, but for some people, it has actually developed to become a habit. You go out with a list of the grocery items you want to buy, you something that catches your eyes, and then boom, on whim, you buy it. Habits develop over time, and once they develop they become difficult to let go of. Some spending habits that people have are:
🔹 Impulse buying: Prevents wealth accumulation through numerous small purchases.
🔹 Lifestyle inflation: Every salary increase immediately becomes higher spending.
🔹 Status spending: Purchasing to impress rather than create value.
🔹 Gambling: High probability of wealth destruction.
🔹 Excessive generosity: Giving beyond one's financial capacity.
🔹 Failure to track spending: Small expenses become significant over time.
🔹 Procrastination: Delayed investing reduces compound growth.
The Role of Emotions
An emotion can be defined as a state of feeling. As human beings we feel fear, anxiety, anger, regret, jealousy, sadness, or happiness, depending on our perception of an event, circumstances, engagement with other people or our own thoughts. Emotions and habits can be interlinked. Some people have a habit of going on shopping sprees when they have feelings of unworthiness, and they do this to make themselves feel good. Some people have a drink when they feel stressed and anxious. There are people who feel that they have to compete with other people, and whenever they feel that they’re being left behind and that somebody else is doing better than, they go out and try to match the person whom they perceive as their completion.
The Role of Addiction and Substance Abuse
This is a topic that is rarely discussed when it comes to financial literacy. Addiction imposes a heavy burden not only on the individual who is addicted, but on the people close to the individual as well, and that includes family, friends and workmates. It can cause a person to spend most or all of their money on feeding their addiction. In addition to money that was budgeted for entertainment, they also spend money that was meant for rent, school fees, fuel, and even money that was budgeted for mortgage payments. All this is to say that spending to feed the addiction replaces meaningful spending. This can place a heavy strain on an individual’s relationships and may damage their careers. In addition, for people who are not addicts but have a habit of substance abuse, their decisions making may not be that prudent, and this may negatively affect their finances or keep them from achieving their financial goals.
The Role of Beliefs and Identity
Identity refers to how we perceive ourselves, what we think and believe of ourselves and what we think and believe about or place in society. Some people believe that they are very intelligent. Some people believe that they deserve to be rich. Some people believe that they are entitled to certain things. Some people believe that they will never be rich or live a comfortable life. How we manage our finances is also partly a reflection our identity. Some of the beliefs that people may hold include:
🔹 "Money always disappears anyway."
🔹 "You only live once."
🔹 "Rich people are greedy."
🔹 "I deserve to treat myself because I work hard."
🔹 "People won't respect me unless I look successful."
🔹 "I'll start saving once I earn more."
People tend to behave consistently with the identity they have adopted. Someone who sees themselves as financially responsible is more likely to pause before making unnecessary purchases. Someone who believes they are "bad with money" often behaves in ways that reinforce that belief. In this way, our identity can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Behavioural Finance
This relationship between our financial knowledge, habits, emotions and identity is the subject of a field known as behavioural finance. Behavioural finance recognises that financial decisions are not always rational or based solely on facts and logic. Instead, they are often influenced by our emotions, cognitive biases, past experiences and deeply held beliefs. By understanding the psychological factors that shape our financial behaviour, we become better equipped to identify the patterns that hinder our financial progress and replace them with behaviours that support our long-term financial goals.
Conclusion
The main takeaway is this:
Whilst financial knowledge is essential, financial success is more about mastering ourselves. We have to understand ourselves and interrogate our habits, emotions, beliefs and identity and figure out how to manage them in a way that allows us to be financially healthy. A key framework could be this:
1. Increase your financial knowledge.
2. Build systems that make good decisions easier (budgets, automatic savings, expenditure tracking).
3. Identify the habits that repeatedly undermine your finances.
4. Understand the emotions that trigger those habits.
5. Challenge the beliefs that sustain them.
6. Develop an identity consistent with financial stewardship—for example, "I am someone who plans before spending" rather than "I am trying to save."
What this teaches is that wealth is not built solely by financial knowledge. It is built by disciplined habits, healthy emotions, constructive beliefs and a personal identity that consistently supports wise financial decisions.