Erin Cunningham Bruce

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Meditation for peace 💜💜🫶🏼

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My little drugged up on Benadryl tik tok rant about why you might be successful at some things but not at relationships or being helped & supported. 💛💛💛

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i was thinking since I’m about to have my first birthday without my husband…that I’d choose to breathe today! i choose to walk 10,000 steps! I choose to do an extensive skincare routine. i choose to align myself with whatever I’m thankful for. I choose Pilates tonight followed by a cold plunge! i was thinking these things INSTEAD of curling up into a ball in my closet and never getting up!! 🙋🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Bfr. I know he’s watching and he’s so glad I’m choosing wellness every day. I know he’s so healthy and happy. And it gives me so much comfort. but this week has felt like a heavy wave that I’m riding. sometimes slipping under and catching myself and then floating above as quick as i can. choosing the best things constantly. honestly my overwhelming feeling is surprise that i can do what I’m doing. it’s shocking. And I’m so proud of myself and so thankful for the amazing amazing support I’ve had. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

70% of your over all well being is in direct correlation to the relationship you have with the person you are married to. and that’s on facts 🤩🤣

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there have been a few discoveries that have been really disappointing to me.

1) God wasn’t going to rescue me from pain

2) money has to be focused on to be made
(It’s not going to come from being a good person)

and the discovery i think will be painful for some women, is that you do have to be a certain way to empower a man to desire you forever

they’re not just epic and want you no matter who you are for no reason

epic men want epic women

epic men are men who control themselves

i don’t want a man who doesn’t control himself

and he doesn’t want a woman who doesn’t control herself either

being myself doesn’t mean i don’t keep myself in check

i really do keep myself in check
because relationship dynamics are what makes relationships work or not

it is work
but not relationship work
it’s ME WORK.

i have to stay in my lane for him to feel freedom to be all the man he is

epic men won’t assert themselves on women

tbey look for a woman who has the space

i promise you they do

xoxo

you can fight me on it
or you can believe me and get an epic man 🤣🥰🤷🏻‍♀️

whether you want to accept it or not, you are getting the mirrored back version of what you gave

you’re getting the product of the equation you walked out

you choose the person you match intellectually

(99% of cases, ok? don’t come at me) Hahhaa not serial killers

but you have experienced so far in your intimate life exactly what you have believed.

you have created in your dynamic with a man, what you have been.

i often hear women say “i can’t find a man”
or a story about there not being good men
or about how they shouldn’t have to change anything

that would be like saying “I’m in sales. and this is my strategy. i don’t make much money but i shouldn’t have to change my strategy because i am enough”

everything you do well, you tweek and master constantly

why would learning the art of being the woman an epic match man would want to be with for life require less mastery and tweeking than sales and money?

huh huh huh? you wrong 🤣

one tip:
1) don’t be his therapist
Wait, 2 tips:
2) let him decide things and function at his pace
(Don’t control or nag)

There’s so many things i naturally knew for some reason…that led me to being loved really well for a really long time

and even I constantly tweek and master the art of our relationship and do whatever i can to make it better

i change what I’m doing
what i say
How i act

based on things i learn

i would never think i shouidnt change to be loved well

as a matter of fact, even to be loved well by my kids, I’ve had to painfully expand over and over.

but that was my goal.
to love well and be loved well.

I’m not over here just being like “deal with me. I am who i am”.

i stay soft.
i Stay open and willing.
i stay determined and committed to keeping my man wanting to be in my energy.

i can help u 💋😘