02/08/2026
I have a friend who is trying to stop smoking ci******es. But today he is still smoking three or four ci******es a day.
Now his wife is pregnant. One day, he was smoking a cigarette and while walking with me, he said that he should stop this habit even now that he has a child. He told a very interesting story.
When I was a child, my father smoked a cigarette in front of me at a wedding. Even though I am 34 years old, it still bothers me.
So if I smoke in front of my child, how bad it would be for the child. Also, he used to say that if he saw someone smoking, he would get really angry.
When I heard this story, I really thought that it was a track.
Because my father smokes ci******es in front of me. That's why smoking a cigarette had become normal for me. That's why I was also used to smoking a cigarette. But my friend's father was used to smoking ci******es without being seen.
We'll see later about finding the right and wrong in this story.
After this story between us, my thoughts fell on a different track. I rode the bike the rest of the way with this thought.
Man, I started to feel that we create our own world with the things we see and associate with each other. We each live in a world that is different from each other.
Just think about it, you know that you are in the world, you have only many memories of the things you have seen, heard, tasted, and smelled since the day you were born.
How many other things are there in this world that have not sunk into you in one way or another?
Then the world in the minds of people who have experienced more than me is even bigger. The world of a person who has not experienced as much as I have is much smaller than the world I feel.
If someone grows up in a room from the day they are born and has not seen the outside world, then only that room knows that the world is in that person's mind, right?
The track jumped out so much that I was shocked.
If the size of my world is determined by the things I have experienced. I thought that whether I like it or not, whether I am happy or sad, is a world that is created only for me.
Think about it, I have seen my father smoke ci******es so much that it is normal in my life. Therefore, I do not feel that bad when I see someone else smoking a cigarette.
But my friend feels that it is the biggest mistake in the world. The only thing that makes one person feel normal is the track we are on.
Man, what I finally thought was that each of us has a unique track. We have a track that is our own, formed by what we know and what we don't like.
If we see someone who does something that is not on our track, we say that they have gone off track. On the other hand, they tell me that they have gone off track.
Man, then everyone in this world is off track in one way or another. Religious leaders have their own track with what they have heard, seen, and experienced.
But man, what I finally thought was that when we see someone who is going off track, we never thought that they might have just said it, but that they might have heard or felt something else and seen it.
Therefore, we should think twice about everything that anyone says.
On the other hand, I also think that there is one truth to everything in this world, even though we feel that this is how it is with what we know and know.
What do you think?
