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04/09/2026

From Defeatists to Winners.
Failing does not mean that you have abandoned your principles, simply that you made a poor choice in an important decision. Sometimes we think that those who seem to have the same goals as those we are working towards, have our best interest at heart. Sadly though, that is seldom the case. It pays for us to exercise discernment in order to judge well, perceive clearly and recognize the underlying motives of others. Many times when we know that we have chosen poorly, we clutch at self preservation as our redeeming light. This may only serve to isolate, stifle our growth or lead to even more insular choices. However, when we are finally led to look at what we have potentially reduce ourselves to, we develop the strength and determination to pull ourselves out of the quagmire in order to accomplish our mission. Our attitude to life changes dramatically from defeatists to winners.

31/08/2026

A country, no matter how limited its resources, should ensure that its ability to provide first-rate medical treatment to its people is of utmost priority. Health is no respecter of persons, the wealthy, poor, educated, ignorant, national or foreigner can all become patients of illness. Hence the need for a hospital which offers quality care. In the event that patients have to be airlifted across borders to another facility, let this not be a question of the effectiveness, efficiency or safety of the health practices of the facility at home, but rather let it reflects the preferences of the individual.

26/08/2026

Sometimes when we take action to an offense committed against us, the whole world turns against us. Even though the action taken was not done on the spur of the moment, but instead took decades in the making. When making impartial decisions, where we are not trying to get the approval of any particular side, we have to be prepared to stand alone for what we know is right. It is very easy for people to claim that they are standing on principles when they are benefitting from the situation in question. However, their true stance will be revealed by their reactions when the situation is difficult or inconvenient to them. People will always judge our reactions, it is the worldly thing to do. However, do not allow them to make you lose sight of what is right.

12/07/2026

Hijacking the Narrative
There are times when a person speaks/writes so compellingly on a current event that we find ourselves agreeing without hesitation. The narrative is usually so well laid out, with seemingly well established facts, that we are prone to show our wholehearted support. However, these types of speeches are what we need to be particularly mindful of as they may be concealing the truth. Close attention sometimes reveals that the person might be using current situations to hide a personal issue. In order to ensure that we understand the implications of the situation we have to delve into the information presented with an open mind, and verify that there is transparency of documentation. Beware of narratives that may just be smokescreens to hide the truth as these may put us in very vulnerable positions.

05/07/2026

Hearing the Unspoken
One of life’s most unsettling experiences comes about when a person not only listens to a loved one but hears what was not said. In such situations, the person may have said the opposite of what you are hearing. This may leave you troubled because you are expected to answer a need that was unspoken. The best way to deal with this situation is to do what you would have expected someone to do for you if you were in that situation. Sadly, at times we do not follow our hearts, and we are left wondering what would have been the result if we had done so.

03/06/2026

Does customer service provide customer
satisfaction?
Our experiences are more directly impacted by customer service than we care to admit. In the traditional hierarchy of work, service providers are our first line of contact. One of our greatest frustrations is to be given a time by a service provider for assessment of the situation at hand, but then he never shows up. What is even more exacerbating is when this behaviour repeats itself in multiple situations. Service providers demonstrate lack of awareness to the fact that customers actually reshuffle their activities to accommodate them. This can be seen in the lack of simple courtesy to inform customers that a scheduled date had been cancelled. This would have sufficed in most cases to allow the customer to reorganize her plans for the day. This area of work seems to be a weak link in providing customer satisfaction. It therefore requires systemic transformation so its function can be realized.

19/05/2026

What legacy are you leaving behind?
Everyone seems preoccupied in leaving behind a legacy that is based on the expectation of society. The question often asked is, “What have you done with your life to make a change in your community”. People therefore becomes more engaged in philanthropy and service activities in order to receive attention. Some receive career awards although others have achieved the same or even greater career milestones and have never been awarded. The impact of those who have not been awarded is no less significant to the building of the society. It is very commendable to make one’s contribution to the society but it is unspeakable when one seeks validation to the detriment of the immediate family. When children are deprived of support because one is busy building an image of oneself, your legacy would be reflected in their behaviour. Children are the cornerstones of society so the change in society can be seen through them. People should focus more on personal fulfillment and authenticity since these qualities cannot be embodied in an award, as no one knows your worth better than you do, but these qualities definitely shape the family.

14/05/2026

What’s a small change you’ve made that had a big impact on your life.
There might be some persons in your life that doubt everything that you do. They go so far as to dispute what you have done right. By not allowing them to overstep your boundaries, they resort to churlish behavior. At this point, it is important to know what you stand for, which will enable you to stand even taller in the decisions that you make. Never allow others to make you uncomfortable in the one place where you should be comfortable. Select only those with whom you can be yourself to be in your presence. Remember it may be impossible to change the world but you can make the change in deciding who you will allow in your space. This change could only result in you being a happier, more comfortable and independent person.

11/05/2026

A Tribute to Mothers
Mothers, simply put, are indescribably wonderful. They go beyond the role of nurturing. When we realize how much we sometimes take for granted, we then wish with all our hearts that it can be made possible for us to let them know of their immeasurable worth to us. Mothers do not just care for their children but for children within the circle of life. Her care never diminishes with age. Sometimes they are so undervalued, when in reality their value should have been demonstrated a hundredfold and more. Sadly, their unwavering support is sometimes not realized until it is too late. Let us make a concerted effort to ensure that we have fond memories of our mother rather than regrettable ones, by adhering to these simple words:
“Mother I thank you
for all that you have done!”

08/05/2026

The Spoken Word.
I started noticing the difference in communication, behavior and energy. I tried to engage in conversations, just to be able to pinpoint the existing problem. I have never done anything to that individual, or so I thought, so I never saw myself as the problem. Yet the coldness continued, it was so tangible. Any thought that I expressed, although positive, caring and loving in overture, was rebutted in a sterile, clinical way which left utter sadness in its wake. Finally the silence was broken. I learned that I was seen as uncaring based on what happened in the past. The words were like seeing a lighthouse on a dark stormy night. They were so illuminating. Sadly for me though, my actions in that given situation, had absolutely no bearing on anyone. Rather it was a reflection of my inadequacy at dealing with life at that particular period. Silence may be golden at times but the spoken word is a beacon in the darkness. When you don’t understand someone’s attitude towards you, encourage them to talk. Sometimes it is necessary to defend innocence in order to get peace.

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