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What’s Ripley Syndrome ?

Have you ever watched Korean Movie titled “The Second Anna”, The Actress was Bae Suzy.

There is no actual academy definition of “Ripley Syndrome”, however, this was referred to “The Antisocial personality disorder”. It really exists in the society as people try to live in the fantasy lives of others while denying self’s reality. For example, they acted pitifully just to borrow cash from you in order to serve their needs living in a called “High-So” norm of life. Likewise, they never accept the fact or either deny the reality, but they believe what they’re doing is right and definitely satisfy themselves.

These group of people act fool, but they didn’t know they were trapped by the lies. They seem to be very ambitious trying to imitate others or to fit in the form of society.

The word Ripley was originally taken from the novel “The Talent Mr. Ripley, 1955, written by American Novelist Patricia Hayes. Talking about the main character in novel named Tom Ripley, was an orphan trying to impersonate others.

According to an article “Paradox in Human Society, Cited from TRUTH 8p – 11p, written by Jayoon Byun.
These are the characteristics who found in people who likely having Ripley Syndrome

1. There are more cases of having an alcoholic father than the average person
2. Usually they are very intelligent or very low in terms of human intelligence
3. Language intelligences is far higher than body intelligence
4. Lies are repeated as a defense against re-experimenting
5. There are very low in self-esteem, damaged by self-love
6. They were sexually abused as a child

Ripley syndrome was not a well-known study indeed, but in fact, because of the influence, material overwhelming exposure, past-trauma, people tend to execute to make them feel superior as they repeatedly think lies prevail reality.

People made a list of things which are meant to them for some reasons. if you’re not in the list , it shouldn’t be a big matter because it’s worth to know who they are.

If you’re having a bad day now. Here is for you, sweetie ✨

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ប៉ាខ្ញុំមិនដែលសម្តីផ្អែមម្តងណាទេ គាត់មិនសូវមានពេលឲ្យកូនៗទេ ព្រលឹមបាត់ ព្រលប់ចូល ។ គាត់មានពេលជួបមុខកូនៗតែពេលពិសារអាហារពេលល្ងាច ។ ខ្ញុំមិនចូលចិត្តស្តាប់គាត់រអ៊ូពេលកំពុងញាុំបាយទេ ។
ថ្ងៃកំណើតខ្ញុំ ក៏គាត់មិនចាំដែរ ប៉ាមិនដែលទិញកាដូឲ្យខ្ញុំថ្ងៃខួបកំណើតខ្ញុំទេ ។ ប៉ាកំណាញ់ណាស់ កូនចង់បានអ្វីមួយ ប៉ាមិនចង់ឲ្យទិញទេ ។
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ទោះប៉ាមិនដែលសម្តីផ្អែមល្ហែមដាក់កូន តែប៉ាបារម្មណ៍ និងខ្វល់ពីកូនគ្រប់ពេល ។

ប៉ាសួរពីខ្ញុំរឿងរៀននៅតុបាយ ព្រោះមានតែពេលនេះទេ ដែលពួកយើងជួបគ្នា ប៉ាយកកាតាបខ្ញុំទៅឆែក ថារៀនបានអីខ្លះ ពេលខ្លះប៉ាខលសួរគ្រូបន្ទុកថ្នាក់ដើម្បីតាមដានការរៀនសូត្រខ្ញុំ ។ ប៉ានិយាយច្រើនណាស់ ខ្ញុំស្តាប់ប៉ានិយាយរាល់ថ្ងៃ វាក្លាយជាប៉ារូលដែលខ្ញុំអាចសូត្របានទៅហើយ តែប៉ាចង់ឲ្យកូនល្អ ។ ថ្ងៃកំណើតខ្ញុំប៉ាមិនចាំទេ តែប៉ាហុចលុយឲ្យម៉ាក់ទិញនំនេក និងកាដូឲ្យខ្ញុំ ។ ប៉ាមិនចាំ ឬប៉ាធ្វើជាមិនចាំណ៎ ?

ប៉ាកំណាញ់ណាស់ ព្រោះប៉ាចង់ឲ្យកូនដឹងថាលុយពិបាករកណាស់ មិនមែនជប់បានៗទេ ទិញរបស់អ្វីមួយត្រូវដឹងថាវាបន្ទាន់ ឬ សំខាន់អត់ ពេលខ្លះប៉ាសុខចិត្តអត់ខ្លួនឯងឲ្យតែកូនបានចាយគ្រប់គ្រាន់ ។

ប៉ាមិនដែលនិយាយថាស្រលាញ់កូនទេ តែតាំងពីពេលដែលកូនមករៀនឆ្ងាយពីផ្ទះ មួយថ្ងៃប៉ាខលចង់ ១០ដង ។ សំនួរប៉ាដដែលៗ គឺ ញាុំបាយនៅ ? រៀនមិចហើយ ? លុយខែហ្នឹងចាយអស់នៅ ? មានឈឺអីអត់ ? ចេះថែរខ្លួនធំហើយមិនមែនក្មេងទេ ។ ខ្វាយខ្វល់ពីកូនណាស់ គិតពីកូនណាស់ ខ្លាចកូនឈឺ ខ្លាចកូនលំបាក ចង់ឲ្យកូនមានឯករាជ្យភាពដោយខ្លួនឯង តែប៉ាមិនសូវដែលបញ្ចេញអារម្មណ៍ទេ ព្រោះខ្លាចកូនទម្រើស ។

ប៉ាចិញ្ចឹមកូនៗបានល្អណាស់ ប៉ាហត់នឿយយ៉ាងណា ក៏មិនដែលប្រាប់កូនៗដែរ ឈឺក៏ទ្រាំ ពូកែលាក់ណាស់ ។ ប៉ា ! កូនដឹងថាប៉ារង់ចាំថ្ងៃដែលឃើញកូនមានអនាគតល្អ តែប៉ាត្រូវថែរក្សាសុខភាព កូនចង់មានវត្តមានប៉ាក្នុងថ្ងៃដែលកូនជោគជ័យ ។ កូនស្រលាញ់ប៉ា ❤️

សំណេរដោយ : LPR

Overthinker, most of the time, they're such a very sensitive object. They feel the slight different, and they sense the vibe that got into their head. Technically, they care other's feeling more than theirs, since they are afraid their word or action might internally attack someone's feeling. Overthinker plus insecurity, they're the terrible person who has least attractive to those who love them.

Not many people understand their unsaid thing, they rarely show or impress their thought toward surrounded people, but their lover or best friend. Take care them, because their heart could easily fragile or get demaged due to your careless. If you have a lover, who are insecured-overthinker , indeed, they need someone who are a good communicator, understanding, good at dealing with things, and warmth heart. They're not into cold-hearted, careless, or being harsh and suddenly ignore.

You might think they're hard to understand, difficult to bear with, and sometimes they have major trust issue and they never feel confident. but if you truely love them, use your heart to communicate with them to bring the best version of them. If you could win their heart since the first place, you're such a great human. you have the faith and trust to win their heart by connecting with their soft-hearted soul.

illustration : Twitter

រាល់ពេលឆ្លងថ្នល់

My ខួរ : 🛵🚙

Welcome September, I sit at the balcony and set my new month resolution. I do some reflection to the previous month I have spent so far. I have flaws, and somehow I didn't notice till someone told me. Hence, I write it down and overcome it in this month. I don't expect it would come so much better, but at least 1% better, and still growing and keeping on track in this progress.

Maybe, you think I'm such a complicated human, but to do this lead me to be a better version of myself. And this is how far I know how to sharp me.

Time flies, sometimes, we're too busy to notice it's that fast. Little happy moment should have been captured and appreciated more, for we never know if we had such a happy moment with our beloved person again or not.

Happy New Month, September !!!

Illustration : Facebook

The sound of rain is such a pleasure to hear.
I lay on the sofa, my eyes turn to see the drop of raining, at the same time the rain fall on the ground making the sound and it definitely could lesson my stress.

Mother of nature provide us 24 hours a day, and everyone has their own time but equal amount as others. You may look at them seeing how productive they are, you may notice them having a day with an income at early age, some have a trip with their family, some enjoy their life with independent finance, some are busy doing their own business etc. They're them, but you're yourself.

Use the amount of time you have per day wisely, it's okay to spend 24 hours a day sit on the sofa without doing anything as you feel too exhausted, for you did a great job and reward yourself to relax and care free. That's also count as wise using of time since It's your job to put yourself in a safe and peaceful box.

+++ Set your spirit free , Be easy on yourself

Illustration : SELF

Executing self-care isn't selfish at all. Self-care is one of practical steps to develop postive mind. There are a bunch of things to feed yourself with care by giving yourself a proper sleep, healthy food, an exciting gift, or even simple thing such as watching your favourite movie, listen to the song in your list or read your favourite manga....

these how you treat yourself nicely and you should do it frequently. However, When you find yourself step on the warning area, be quick to walk away.

As the time you think you start losing yourself cus' of toxic friend, stay apart. The moment you find yourself fall down due to unhealthy relationship, move on. Letting go of toxic friendship and relationship, unhealthy environment, noisy neighbourhood aren't also called selfish, but self-care or self-defense.

P.S Buy yourself skincare product doesn't mean you've practiced self-care.

Illustration : MWH

Happy Mother's Day to our gorgeous moms all around the world. A woman who could lead us to anywhere nobody could. A mother who plays different role as a chief, best friend, teacher, doctors, counsellor.....

Your unconditional love, caring, sacrifice to us couldn't completely describe through wording. Thank for bringing us see this world, a place full of pure love from bottom of heart.

We wish you have longevity, healthy, and wealthy with a tone of happiness ❤️

Portrait : [Eviomultimedia]