25/06/2026
Beyond “It’s OK to Cry” | Rethinking Men’s Mental Health
TLDW:
In this weekly reflection, I explore the limitations of current men’s mental health awareness campaigns and discuss why simply telling men, “It’s OK to cry” falls short without systemic support.
I examine how lifelong conditioning against emotional expression leaves many men without the vocabulary to identify their feelings, and how depression may manifests differently in men through such things as overworking, rage, and other atypical symptoms that are easy to miss, dismiss, or ignore as “just how they are.”
I share practical strategies for supporting men’s mental health, including focusing on function rather than feelings, normalizing maintenance over crisis management, building community spaces where men naturally open up, and improving emotional literacy.
I emphasize that the real challenge is creating a culture where meaning, competence, brotherhood, purpose, and emotional awareness coexist.