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However curly the wild cut is,you can never indoctrinate it.

As we celebrate Father’s Day 16th June 2024.

My message to fellow men;

Truth might hurt you, but take it or leave it,but it’s home.

-If you know you were brought up by single mother,start the journey of looking for your father dead or alive.There is no where in the bible of a child without leanage referred to as “son of Sarah or Ndutta wife to Abraham”
The bible only recorgonise orphans and widows.

A man will never be complete without knowing who his dad is.

Don’t listen to your mother or aunts saying “dad was bad”.

Just know who he is and walk away if you don’t want to associate with him.

Aman can not be a man without a manly figure around him.Never.

A man can only turn to a man by veins converted by the blood and spirit of his father, whether dead,away, or alive.

If you think I am misleading you,ngoja upate bibi,your wife and children will do the same to you.

Start today, 16 -6-2024

Look for your uncles and aunts,they will tell you the truth.

If your father is dead, go see his tomb side like obama did and go back to 🇺🇸.

At 35,calling 40 year old step dad” father” is disrespectful to you and your children.

How do you feel amongst men? Someone comes and calls you “wanjiru or atieno." Were you there in church yesterday ?” And you’re a man.

Dont fear or listen to anyone.

Your children will one day realize that their great grandparents were kambas or Egyptians and not kisii or Luos as their stepfather has been,they will hate you.

*Writer* is ;

•Masculinity teacher

•Man of God

•Risk and insurance guru.

•Fearless

•Philanthropist

•Caregiver

•Man was born and raised in South nyanza, who only reported to God directly.

Men,

Licking a woman's perineum is like:
Jumpstarting an old rickety car that has faulty battery terminals.

Why not dump the old car and buy a new car instead?

For how long will you suffer?

Are you waiting to suffer tongue cancer or throat candidiasis?

Men

Reminder

You must answer this question today;

You woke up one day to work as usual ,on your way,you’re hit by boda boda Rider.

You’re rushed to kenyatta National Hospital .

He has stayed in HDU for 6 months.

You are the only breadwinner.

No school fees,no food,no rent,babe has gone berserk.

You lose your job because you’re now on wheelchair.

Upcountry: You dont have a house or even a cow and not in good terms with your siblings. Babe separated you from them. You only supported your inlaws when you had money.

Where will you start?

a) From concubines you used to entertain in drinking joints?

b) church where you tithe and call pastor dad?

c) From your mother and father, you abandoned upcountry?

d) from villagers you called witches, and you believed can thwart your destiny.

e) From your siblings, children whom you said will spoil your children because they can’t speak English like yours?

Think about it deeply. Nothing is new and permanent under the sun,sh*t happens.

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Men

You must never take matters into your own hands

This is the 21st century, and there is law.

If you slap your cheating wife and she dies, you will be in for murder

If you deliberately refuse to take your children to school and provide for their needs, you'll be sued under the children act

If you get drunk and mistakenly fight your friend, assault is awaiting to court

We are men

Maybe you have not realised

Prison is the only setback for a man as death is his end

A lot of men dreams are caught in prison walls and unaccompanied in graves

No one cares for a man, not the government, that overtakes him, not his family that fails and kills his passion, not his friends that ruins his life then later inherit his wife even before his burial

Men, let us learn not from the pain on our own skin nor the regret that I wish I knew but from the truth and experience of other men

You are the master of your life

Every decision you make, you must always think twice

You are a man

No one will remind you to take care of yourself except for mwalimu

Once a woman hit 30 and realises she messed up in life,men doesn’t want her with her 3 children from different men,she looks for simps(luo men) to settle with.

Jean Gogo

Men

A Reminder

Once you marry single mother,just know you’re 4th in the hierarchy.

1)Her child comes first.

2)herself

3)baby daddy

4)you and others

If you think am lying to you,shout at her child tonight or just punk Liam on the buttocks if you wont sleep at police cell.

Jaribu tu uniletee information kesho. Go and tell Jayden “kijana soma kwa bidii ,nitakupiga ukicheza”

And any day you can be dragged under the bus.

Is like buying land with grave yard on it.

Do you think even if you pay 100,000 dollars,you can bar next of kin of the deceased from Men
Reminder wrap up

Once you marry single mother,just know you’re 4th in the hierarchy.

1)Her child comes first.

2)herself

3)baby daddy

4)you and others

If you think am lying to you,shout at her child tonight or just punk Liam on the buttocks if you wont sleep at police cell.

Jaribu tu uniletee information kesho. Go and tell Jayden “kijana soma kwa bidii ,nitakupiga ukicheza”

And any day you can be dragged under the bus.

Is like buying land with grave yard on it.

Do you think even if you pay 100,000 dollars,you can bar Men
Reminder wrap up

Once you marry single mother,just know you’re 4th in the hierarchy.

1)Her child comes first.

2)herself

3)baby daddy

4)you and others

If you think am Men
Reminder wrap up

Once you marry single mother,just know you’re 4th in the hierarchy.

1)Her child comes first.

2)herself

3)baby daddy

4)you and others

If you think am lying to you,shout at
Jaribu tu uniletee information kesho. Go and tell Jayden “kijana soma kwa bidii ,nitakupiga ukicheza”

And any day you can be dragged under the bus.

Is like buying land with grave yard on it.

Do you think even if you pay 100,000 dollars,you can bar next of kin of the deceased from conducting yearly anniversaries?

Think.Women never respect men who marry them with kids.

See you

Think.Women never respect men who marry them with kids.

See you

Think.Women never respect men who marry them with kids.

See you

Men

Your wife is not your friend or relative.

Your money is her relative and lover.

Your mother inlaw is elien to you,you should not even have her number on your phone book.

One day when things go south,your own mother and father you hate today will come to give you uji and medicine.

For heaven’s sake,take care of your parents before your wife.

Wait until you get sick or lose money,the name babe will change to owuor or johana.

Before you send pastor something,send your parents.

Your parents come first.

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Men

Things you dont need to charge women with

1- her tears

2-her happiness

3-Her allegiance in religion (church)

4) Her mourning in bed

5) her sweet texts and good nights

6)Truth about her ex

Men

Its a wrap up.

I will tell you the truth about me and solely from my heart and God is my witness.

1) men fight for women,not me mwalimu.

2) men take women they love back to school,not me.

3) men ask women after s*x “babe did you enjoy,is my dick ok? - me i dont ,I only cm and focus into my pleasure.

4) men call women babe,honey- i call them milka or jacinta.

See you soon inshaallah

Bye

Men

1)Let her not be taller than you

2)Let her not be mascular than you

3)Let her not be educated than you

4)Let her not come from a rich family than yours

5)Let not be informed than you(you must be able to trick your wife easily)

Ukipata mechanical or electrical problem on your car,sasa bibi ndio anaku guide where exhaust and water is,my brother you’re over.

6) Be always a head of her on everything.politics,law,social life etc

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Men

Her mother is her treasure.

Find out how her mother treated her father.

If her mother lives in town and father upcountry,discard the relationship it wont work for you where her father failed.

Women follow their mothers footsteps.

Background check is 98%

Her family very important than her body count.

Find out why all her sisters dont stay in marriage and you think yours will.

Women follow pattern.

Don’t forget bro

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