12/08/2026
I decided to make a different curry every week, bring it with other pre-cooked foods to my parents' house in Kamakura and share a meal with them.
Last month, my father spent three weeks in the hospital. Fortunately, he was able to return home afterward, but he now relies on long-term care services. The person who has the hardest time, however, is my 84-year-old mother, who lives with him and takes care of him every day.
I used to travel to Kamakura two or three times a week to help them between work commitments. It takes two and a half hours each way, but I often ended up arguing with my father or mother.
So I decided to visit only once a week and bring curry with me.
Buying ingredients and cooking at their house is quite exhausting. If I make the curry the day before at my kitchen, freeze it, and bring it with me, I don't have to worry about it spoiling in the summer heat.
I also bring frozen cooked rice and precooked udon noodles that only need to be reheated. That way, they can enjoy the curry on the day I visit and then use the leftovers to make curry udon the following day.
Curry is a wonderful dish. There are so many varieties—Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Sri Lankan, and many more—that it never becomes boring. Once I've decided to make curry, I no longer have to spend time wondering what to cook.
And of course, curry contains a wide variety of spices. Turmeric, in particular, is believed to have benefits for cognitive health and may help reduce the risk of dementia.
I think this is one of my best ideas. It allows me to spend time with my parents, helps reduce the burden of meal preparation a little and gives them something delicious to look forward to every week.