BalVatika-Centre for Children's Mental Health and Wellbeing

क्या आप ऐसे माता-पिता हैं जिन्हें अपने बच्चे को खाना खिलाने में बहुत संघर्ष करना पड़ता है?

हो सकता है कि खाने के समय आपका बच्चा रोने लगे, गुस्सा करे, खाना देखकर मना कर दे, उल्टी जैसा महसूस करे या कभी-कभी सच में उल्टी भी कर दे। कुछ बच्चे तो सिर्फ एक ही तरह का खाना बार-बार खाना चाहते हैं और कुछ नया खाने से साफ मना कर देते हैं।

अक्सर हमें लगता है कि यह ज़िद या बदतमीज़ी है।

लेकिन कई बच्चों के साथ ऐसा इसलिए होता है क्योंकि उन्हें मुँह (oral) की संवेदनशीलता होती है।

कुछ बच्चों में हाइपर सेंसिटिविटी होती है — यानी खाने की कुछ बनावट (texture), स्वाद या तापमान उन्हें बहुत ज्यादा तेज़ महसूस होता है। ऐसे में वे खाना मुँह में रखते ही असहज हो सकते हैं या उल्टी जैसा महसूस कर सकते हैं।

कुछ बच्चों में हाइपो सेंसिटिविटी होती है — यानी उन्हें ज़्यादा तेज़ स्वाद या कुरकुरे खाने की ज़रूरत महसूस होती है, इसलिए वे केवल कुछ खास तरह के खाने को ही पसंद करते हैं।

ऐसे बच्चों के लिए खाना खाना एक तनावपूर्ण अनुभव बन सकता है।

उन्हें सबसे ज़्यादा ज़रूरत होती है समझ, धैर्य और धीरे-धीरे सही मार्गदर्शन की — न कि डाँट या ज़बरदस्ती की।

अगर आपका बच्चा खाने को लेकर संघर्ष करता है, तो याद रखें —
यह हमेशा ज़िद नहीं होती, कई बार यह संवेदी (sensory) समस्या भी हो सकती है।

आइए, बच्चों को समझने की कोशिश करें और खाने के समय को उनके लिए सुरक्षित और सहज अनुभव बनाएं।

अगर आप भी अपने बच्चे के खाने से जुड़ी ऐसी चुनौतियों का सामना कर रहे हैं, तो आप Balvatika में हमारे कंसल्टेंट की सहायता ले सकते हैं। सही मार्गदर्शन के साथ बच्चों को धीरे-धीरे खाने के साथ सहज बनाया जा सकता है।

Travelling with children with special needs can bring unique challenges, but with a little preparation and understanding, it can also become a meaningful and joyful experience. Sharing a few simple tips that may help parents make travel more comfortable for both themselves and their child. 🌿

🌈✨ BalVatika wishes you a very Happy Holi! ✨🌈
May this festival of colors fill every child’s heart with joy, emotional safety, confidence, and love. Let’s celebrate with kindness, respect boundaries, include every child, and create beautiful memories that nurture not just smiles—but strong and healthy minds. 💛🎨

Acknowledging the signs is the first step toward healing; mental health struggles often start quietly, but these red flags indicate it's time to prioritize your well-being.

1. Persistent low mood or feeling "empty" for more than two weeks.

2. Loss of interest in hobbies and activities you once enjoyed.

3. Chronic irritability or snapping at loved ones over minor issues.

4. Disturbed sleep patterns, whether sleeping too much or struggling with insomnia.

5. Constant fatigue and feeling physically drained despite resting.

6. Significant changes in appetite or using food as a coping mechanism.

7. Social withdrawal and a growing urge to isolate yourself from others.

8. Difficulty concentrating or experiencing a constant "brain fog."

9. Excessive guilt or blaming yourself for things beyond your control.

10. Intrusive thoughts or a persistent sense of overwhelming worry

Your mental health is a priority, not a luxury. Connect with Balvatika today and book your session for professional guidance and support.

It is natural for parents to want to believe their child is "just going through a phase." We often hesitate to seek help because of our own fears or the hope that they will simply "outgrow it." But the truth is, while behaviors might change, the emotional impact of untreated mental health struggles can last a lifetime. Taking the first step isn’t a sign of failure—it’s the ultimate act of protection.

Observe: Look beyond the "acting out."
Listen: Put your own feelings aside to hear theirs.
Act: Early intervention is the greatest gift you can give their future self.

Consult BalVATIKA for professional guidance and early intervention. It is the greatest gift you can give to their future self

's Mental Health Matters

In many parts of our society, we rarely speak about a child’s right to privacy.
As adults, we value our personal space. We close doors. We expect dignity. We protect our bodies from public exposure.

Yet with children, we sometimes:
• Ask them to urinate anywhere convenient
• Change their clothes in open spaces
• Pull down their clothing publicly
• Allow them to roam unclothed, assuming “they are too small to understand."

The assumption is often that they don’t know. But dignity does not begin at adulthood. It begins in childhood. Even if a child cannot articulate discomfort, the responsibility lies with adults to protect their privacy.
Privacy is not about shame. It is about bodily autonomy. It is about safety.
It is about teaching boundaries.

When we respect a child’s body:
✔ We model consent
✔ We strengthen body safety awareness
✔ We reduce vulnerability
✔ We build self-respect

Every child deserves the same privacy we expect for ourselves.
Let us consciously raise children who grow up knowing: “My body deserves respect.”

Creating awareness about privacy and body boundaries begins with informed adults. To learn how to gently teach children about privacy, body safety, and healthy boundaries, follow BalVatika for more insights and guidance.

Children's Mental Health Matters

We live in a culture that often encourages us to overdo it: too many toys, overly elaborate outfits, and non-stop structured activities. This overstimulation can leave children (and parents!) feeling overwhelmed rather than enriched.

What if the most valuable things we can give our children aren't things at all?

How can we shift from "overdoing" to "connecting"?
💙 Schedule "do nothing" time.
💚 Ditch the fancy, uncomfortable clothes for comfortable playwear.
💛 Focus on quality time over sensory overload.

Let’s focus on building emotional safety first.

's Mental Health Matters

Today at a restaurant, I noticed something concerning. Many children were sitting with their families — but their eyes were on mobile screens.

Phone while choosing food. Phone while waiting. Phone while eating.

They didn’t notice:
The crunch.
The aroma.
The spice.
The portion.
The joy of eating together.

Food is more than eating. It is connection. It is culture. It is conversation. When children eat distracted, they may slowly lose their natural ability to understand hunger, fullness, and taste. Over time, this can contribute to unhealthy or disturbed eating patterns.

Let’s bring back:
🍲 Screen-free meals
👨‍👩‍👧 Family conversations
🥗 Awareness of nutrition
🙏 Gratitude for food

Mindful eating is not a luxury — it is foundational for raising emotionally and physically healthy children. Small habits today shape lifelong relationships with food. Let’s eat together. Without screens.

If you are noticing similar patterns in your child — frequent screen use during meals, picky or distracted eating, lack of awareness of hunger or fullness — it may be time to gently intervene.

At BalVatika, we guide parents and children in developing mindful eating habits and healthy routines in a practical, child-friendly way. Sometimes a small shift in guidance creates a big change in lifelong habits.

You don’t have to navigate it alone.

Is it "Just a Phase" or a Sign of Autism? (Ages 0-5)

In the first few years, every child develops at their own pace. However, there are specific early signs that help us identify Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) sooner rather than later. Early support during these "magic years" can make a world of difference for a child's future. Here is what to look for.

1. The "Social Connection" Check: It’s not just about speaking words; it’s about sharing moments.

The "Point & Look": If a child sees a plane and points to make sure you see it too, that's Joint Attention. Children with ASD often point only to get things, not to share interest.
Games like Peek-a-boo: Does the child enjoy the "back-and-forth" of simple games? Or do they seem uninterested in social play?
Faces & Feelings: Does the child look at your face to see how you are feeling? Do they use gestures (like waving or nodding) to communicate?

2. Routines & Repetitions: Children love routine, but with ASD, that need for "sameness" is much more intense.

Hard Transitions: Does a small change (like taking a different route to school or using a different colored cup) lead to an extreme meltdown?
Special Interests: Does the child focus on parts of toys (like spinning the wheels of a car for hours) rather than playing with the toy as a whole?
Unique Movements: Watch for repetitive hand-flapping, rocking, or repeating the same sounds/phrases over and over.

3. Sensory World: How does the child react to the world around them?

Over-Sensitive: Do they scream at the sound of a vacuum or hair dryer? Do they hate the feel of certain clothes or tags?
Under-Sensitive: Do they seem not to feel pain when they fall? Do they seek out strange sensations, like sniffing objects or licking unusual textures (like carpets or walls)?

If you notice these signs, don't "wait and watch." Talk to a child specialist or a clinical psychologist. Identifying these needs early is the greatest gift you can give your child.


❤️

Today, as NIMHANS and ICMR mark an incredible 70 years of groundbreaking collaboration, I reflect on my journey and the privilege of contributing to this legacy.

From working as a Junior Research Fellow on the ICMR-funded project to pursuing my PhD thesis, "Identification and Intervention for Infant Mental Health through Developmental and Psychodynamic Approaches," I’ve been fortunate to be a part of work so close to my heart.

But none of this would have been possible without the guidance and unwavering support of my teachers, mentors, and especially my guide and joint guides. Your wisdom, patience, and belief in me have shaped my academic path and my outlook on life and research. You taught me to dig deeper, think bigger, and believe in the power of science to create meaningful change.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything you’ve done to guide me toward this moment. I am so proud to be part of this journey.