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In male-female relationships and dating, while many men just want to marry women who are younger than them, some choose older ones for some reasons. Continue reading this article on VKool site to know why you should start dating an older woman with its tips, benefits, pros and cons.

Dating An Older Woman: Tips, Benefits, Pros And Cons You Should Know

I. Why You Should Date An Older Woman

1. She Can Hold Conversations Better

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A woman older than you might have lived through more experiences in life, so she will be more capable to relay more interesting information naturally than younger ones.

Intelligent women also get wiser and more knowledgeable over time. Thus, this is a reason why she is more attractive to you than other younger women.



2. She Is Straight

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With age, women get to understand relationships better. They understand what they really want from a relationship. They can control their emotions and very straight.

Women are often more willing to talk and commit in order to stay in healthy relationships. Most importantly, an older woman is less likely to run or to be scared when things are difficult and completed.

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3. She Focuses On Her Careers

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Normally, woman who is older than you will have more experience in job. The more experience she has, the more success she may have. If she is successful in job, she will be more confident and more attractive to younger men like you.

In general, you just want to talk to excellent people. When they are women, the attraction levels will be higher and you will be easy to fall in love with one with good finance and a good job.

The younger man who has a s*xual encounter with an older woman will remember it as some of the best s*x of his life. The benefits will continue when the young man is ready for a relationship with a girl of his age. One result to having experienced s*x with a cougar is the attraction may end up becoming his "type." Once you're with a cougar, you'll be hard pressed to find a better tutor.

Here are ten reasons younger men say that their older lovers are s*xually superior to their younger lovers:

1. It's a numbers game. The age of a cougar age alone means many more years of experience with multiple partners. Before marriage, they may have had a few partners. After divorce, the notches on their bedposts may have gone up exponentially.

2. Older women have had lots of practice. Cougars have been in long term relationships and marriages, which have provided years of s*xual experience with one partner. Those memories are implanted into the older woman's brain, and whether good or bad have shaped her s*xual expertise.

3. Older women know what they want. Their self-awareness comes from years of experience and communicating with s*xual partners. They've tried different positions, techniques, and fetishes. They've self-pleasured themselves for many years, and aren't afraid of communicating the stuff that really gets them purring. If the girl doesn't know what she wants, it's hard for the man to figure it out. Cougars know exactly what they want and which buttons the guy needs to press.

4. Cougars have learned what men want ... and are eager to find out the specific desires of their current boyfriend. They've been taught by a variety of partners which positions and techniques turn men on. They ask questions and figure out what makes their man roar like the king of a lion's den. What they don't know, they will research in books, movies or on the Internet.

5. The older woman enjoys s*x as much as her younger male partner without hidden agendas. They don't have any delusions that they are going to hook this man into marriage and/or start a family. This takes the pressure off a man who just wants to have fun without obligations. This stress relief is a major reason s*x is great with an older woman who's not as needy or demanding.

6. Older women realize the importance of s*x in a relationship. She may have been in a marriage where s*x was withheld. She won't use s*x as a bargaining chip or to try to get something materialistic from the younger man. Cougars know the psychological and physical benefits to regular s*x.

7. It's flattering to the younger man that a hot older woman finds him desirable. It's a challenge to be with an attractive, s*xy older lady who is physically fit and keeps herself well groomed. She has the time to take care of herself since her children are older and less dependent.

8. Older women enjoy teaching their eager younger students. They know when to be dominant and submissive. The man senses this knowledge and power, which is very stimulating. The older woman will buy books, lingerie, s*x toys, candles and wine to set the mood.

9. Older women have confidence in their bodies and s*xual prowess. This is a huge turn on for men who may have been with young girls who are just learning the ropes. The younger girls may be self-conscious and uncomfortable talking dirty in bed. Older women are spontaneous and comfortable being naked.

10. Older women aren't afraid of communicating. The younger man will know exactly where he stands with her. She won't play mind games with her younger man by not answering her phone. She will approach a man in a bar and not wait for him to make the first move. She will indicate what she wants from the relationship. She will openly share her s*xual needs and desires. She isn't worried about losing the man if she expresses herself.

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Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore (who manage a 15-year age gap)

If you’re a college student, you might be tempted to prowl for dates in your Econ 101 class or at the bar your classmates frequent. There is another way, though: You could always try dating guys who are a bit older and out of school. It’s what I did all through college and I have no regrets. Why, you ask? Here are a few reasons.

1. You get to experience more than just the usual college bars.
Dating someone older will probably mean you get to get away from the same old bars that your classmates frequent – you get to experience so much more this way.

2. There’s something to the whole ‘women mature faster’ thing.
If you’re in a heteros*xual relationship, an age difference can be a good thing because, quite simply, women tend to grow up faster. If you’re frustrated with how immature all your guys seem, dating a guy who is out of school might be the right answer.

Are_we_dating3. You get a good sense of what ‘the real world’ is like.
Being with a guy who works full time will help you understand what you’re in for after graduation.

4. Your relationship won’t be a major topic of gossip.
Date a guy who people at your school don’t know and there will be far less drama from your peers.

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5. You might feel like you’re on the same timeline.
Everyone is different, but women tend to be ready to grow up and settle down at younger ages than men do. Again, everyone is different, but being with an older guy is a great way to up your chances of being on the same page.

6. You’ll have an interesting story about how you met.
As opposed to most college students who meet their SOs doing frat/sorority stuff, in class or at the local bar, you’ll have an interesting meet cute. Maybe you’ll find each other online, maybe at the grocery store, maybe your mom will set you up with him. Whatever the case may be, at least it’s different.

7. You have a built-in group of new friends.
You can keep your college friends but also hang out with his out-of-college friends. ‘Cause there’s no such thing as too many friends.

8. He probably has a nice apartment.
And by nice, I mean better than a dirty, crusty room in a frat house.

9. He can probably afford to do stuff.
Not saying you need to find a guy who can buy you things or whatever but it is nice to be with someone who isn’t a broke college dude and can afford to do things that are not free.

10. You’ll actually go on dates.
College guys are terrible at dating. Date an older dude and you’ll instantly realize how much more fun it is to go to an actual restaurant as opposed to just ordering pizza and “hanging out.”

The pitfalls
1Commitment
If you enter a relationship with a younger man and he has made it clear that it's just casual — don't ever expect it to be anything more. Many younger men are not interested in a long-term relationship yet. If you fall in love and he's just in it for s*x, you are going to get hurt.

2Money
A younger man may not have the financial stability that you are used to in men that you date. Be wary if he always wants you to pay for dinner or asks you to buy him things. Unless you are looking to be a "sugar mama," don't let yourself be used for money. Though in any relationship, you don't need to be on the exact same level economically or socially to make it work. As long as you communicate well and are on the same page about what you want out of the relationship, you have a shot at success.

3Stigma
Even if you aren't a predatory cougar -- that is, a woman who hunts down young men and has her way with them s*xually without any longer-term goal -- people may assume you are when they hear about your relationship. Therefore, be aware that some friends, family members and associates may judge you. But remember: If you and your partner are satisfied, don't allow yourself to get caught up in the gossip and stigma of being a cougar.

Get past the hang-ups
Women don't need to marry men just to survive economically anymore. Therefore if you are attracted to a younger man, don't be hung up on his age.

"For a long time we've been fed this idea that women should look for a man to take care of her, a man that is more educated, has a better job and makes more money," Sandra L Caron, a professor of family relations and human s*xuality at the University of Maine, told the New York Times. "That might be fine and dandy if you're in high school and have this fairytale Prince Charming. But when you look at adult women, most are self-sufficient and they don't have to look for that."

When looking for a partner (whether for a casual relationship or something more), keep your mind open as to what is the right type of guy for you. Let friends know you're okay with a younger guy in case they want to set you up -- and on online dating sites, expand the age range for potential matches. You may find happiness where you least expect it.

Believe me, the older woman-younger man relationship can be very satisfying and long-lasting. My husband is 14 years my junior, and we've been married for eight amazing years.

With the popularity of cougar dating sites, the prominence of TV shows like Cougar Town, and high-profile couples like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore (who manage a 15-year age gap), everyone is talking about the older woman-younger man relationship. Often "cougars" are portrayed as women over 35 who actively pursue younger men for s*xual conquests. However, sometimes it's a bit more than that. In fact, many women have found very satisfying relationships with men who are several years their junior.

If you are single and find yourself attracted to men who are much younger, go for it! However before diving in, consider both the benefits and the pitfalls.

The benefits
1Less baggage
The younger a man is, the less "baggage" he carries. If you are dating a man in his 20s rather than his 40s, you probably won't have decades of past relationships and other issues to deal with. You won't have to worry about his ex-wife and children — it will be all about the two of you.

2Ambition
Men in their late 20s/early 30s generally aren't as jaded as those that are older. They are driven by desires rather than constrained by obligations. Being around a younger man may actually help you set and reach your personal goals, because his ambition and energy inspire you.

3Willing to learn
You can't teach an old dog new tricks, but you can teach a puppy everything he needs to know. In the bedroom and beyond, younger men are more eager and willing to learn -- and it's refreshing to have someone appreciate the value of your life experiences. Additionally, younger men are normally not threatened by a woman's accomplishments -- they actually admire them.

4Attraction
Let's admit it — younger men normally look better than older ones. And physical attraction is a big part of a relationship. Younger men are in shape. They have stamina in the bedroom. And they look fabulous on your arm at a party.

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