Rucchi Hirrani

From being the guy of the girl gang to being a mother..I had never pictured my journey the way it has been. Life has been really kind to me and taught me stuff in an easy way and I owe this transformation to the universe. ♥️

So dear life, wish you a happy teacher's day!! 🌠🧿

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Embracing this powerful mantra today: 'I am on a journey, growing and evolving every day.' 🌱🚀
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Remember, every day is a chance to grow a little more, personally and professionally. 📈💼
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Do you resonate with this journey of constant evolution? 🔄
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How have you grown today? 💡
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Share your growth moments in the comment below! 🗣️🎉
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Rediscovering the power in these words: 'We support and uplift each other in our individual journeys.' 🌟

My husband and I, we're not just partners in life but also each other's cheerleaders 📣 in our personal quests.👫💕

No matter how tough the day gets 🌪️, we believe in celebrating 🎉 each other's achievements and picking each other up after failures.

Do you have someone who stands beside you 👥 in your journey towards personal growth and ambition? 🚀

Share your experience and tag them to spread the love! ❤️💫

I have been thinking for quite some time now, about setting my outcomes/goals/resolutions for 2023. But honestly, nothing hit my mind that would satisfy my soul and would be in sync with what I truly desire.

❌ Loosing Weight
❌ Making more Money
❌ Completing by 2nd Book
❌ Structuring my Business

Well, nothing just felt right. Why? Let me take you back to 2017 when I got married,
2017 - Anxiety of new married life (changes)
2018 - Struggle to keep my marriage going and welcomed Vihaa (changes)
2019 - Managed my Post Partum depression and worked on self-transformation (changes)
2020 - Set up my foot as a coach (changes)
2021 - Associated with Upgrad (changes)
2022 - Started my marketing funnel invested,earned and rebuilt my coaching model (changes)

I truly believe "Change is the only constant" and I have been living that for 6 years, so now is the time, I take a breath, appreciate the things I have learned on my way, and set up my new year resolution. I am Happy and Consistent with the new changes in my life which will ultimately take me closer to all my desired outcomes :

✔️Great Health
☑️Abundant Growth
✔️Financial Freedom
☑️Incredible Relationship
✔️Better Contribution

What are your 2023 Resolutions, let me know below in the comment section 😀

Every person crossing our path, has the capacity to teach us something in life, so Wishing you all a very Happy Teacher's Day, I am grateful to have crossed path with you. 😇

But, I will never forget or regret the lessons, life has taught me through all the , and that I have gone through. I have evolved to a person I am due to them. So, wishing my a very happy teacher's day 😍

"She is married to the family, she should our rituals/beliefs/customs etc..." 😒
the biggest scam in this marriage setup.

I come from joint family and I am staying with my in-laws, which means exposure to multiple customs and rituals. I have always everything that happens around me but being forced to obey or follow without having my belief in it, is unfair as I have grown up developing my own belief system. 🙏

Here, the partners have to really understand the difference and stand up for each other to avoid being uncomfortable by any forced rituals. This can only lead to drift between relations, rather respect each other and make things better. Remember you are married to each other take the ownership of your relationship and growth without hurting anyone's sentiment. 😇

I strongly feel, the more freedom you give in any relationship the more love grows fonder as its basic human need to feel free right? Share what do you feel about this??

Wishing you all a very happy Ganesh Chaturthi 🤗

Let me ask you to do something right now : Think and tell yourself 2 things that are not going great in your relationship...
Ok...did you think of 2 or more?? (caught you!😜)

We often know the in our relationship and we feel 10x intensity of those issues too, but let me give you signs to assure yourself that even with those red flags you are in the right place. 💯

Ask Yourself the following questions -->

1. Am I growing as person? 🤔
The most annoying thing for any human is to get stuck --- stuck in feelings, in illness, in career, in routine and so on. Everyone of us has the basic need to grow and feel better. Are you growing as an individual?

2. Am I growing in this relationship?🤔
Every relationship is beautiful in beginning but gets bitter over time, it is actually conscious efforts that saves a marriage. Are you growing as a couple, are you getting better and better every year, is your partner contributing to your growth?

3. Do I trust my partner?🤔
"Faith" is the glue to everything. Whether you communicate your deepest desire / fears or you understand your partner it needs your trust in the process. The more the trust the more clear communication will take place leading to understanding your needs at 1st place. So do you have more trust or more insecurities?

4. Am I Heard?🤔
You can be as expressive as you can be, but what if there is no one to hear you? I have heard my clients talk about how they feel lost when they share their needs but the partner just gives an ear for the sake of doing it and is not genuinely interested in understanding those. Ar you heard or ignored?

5. Do I get reciprocation in every possible way?🤔
Well, Well, Well, any relation'ship' will sail smoothly when the wind and the sail are in sync. It is not impossible but the fight gets tougher when fought alone right ? So you can love your partner immensely or express your affection outwardly but if they do not reciprocate to you, it hurts like hell. Do you feel like talking to the wall or you get reciprocation?

Answering each question will help you gain clarity and will inspire you to take actions for positive impact.

😍 We love going on dates - either talking over hot sipping coffee or fantasizing about the future over slurpy noodles or just binge-watching with PJs on, but we do. Our idea of date night might be different but we truly look forward to one. 💑

However, we wait for our entire work week to get over to find a suitable time and then come to a mutual date night idea that works for you and your partner. 💤 Let's act on work-life balance!

So this week, let us surprise our partner by planning a ❤️ Anything from a simple home-cooked meal to a fancy restaurant to board games to a movie to a long drive, surprise your spouse by doing something they would truly enjoy and reignite the romance between you.

I have planned something for mine, what have you ??? 😉