07/05/2026
Expecting baby number two? If you and your partner are worrying about how your firstborn will adjust, try these three gentle tips before baby arrives.
First, look at their own baby photos together. It helps them understand that babies just sleep and cry, and aren't instant playmates!
Second, grab a doll and practice. Gently roleplay moments where you or your partner are busy with the baby and they have to wait.
Third, make a special 'feeding basket.' Fill it with new, quiet toys that they only get to play with when you are feeding the new baby.
You've got this. Follow for more gentle tips on growing your family!"
Growing your family is so beautiful, but it is entirely normal for both of you to worry about how your firstborn will handle sharing your attention. 🥺
The truth is, the sibling transition starts long before the new baby comes home! Setting gentle, realistic expectations as a family now saves so many tears later.
A bonus tip for you both to try today:
Ask your older child for their "expertise." Try asking, "What story do you think we should read to the baby first?" or "What should we teach the baby about bath time?"
Asking for their help makes them feel like a proud, capable big brother or sister, rather than a replaced child. ❤️
Which of the three tips in the video are you guys going to try first? Let us know in the comments! 👇
Don't forget to save this post for when you are nesting, and follow for more parenting tips as you grow your family! ✨