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Respect your child’s instincts
Dear Parents,
With all this “Me Too” storm ... everywhere there’s the same discussion. Why do we let these incidents occur? Let’s think how we can protect our children? By children I mean both male and female child. Most important listen to them. I have often observed that a child is often hugged and kissed against her/his wish. We all, at sometime would have gone and pulled those cheeks. STOP! Children are humans! They also have likes/dislikes. They also have moods and emotions. Let us respect them. Ask a child “can I get a hug or a kiss?” If the answer is “no” respect it. It’s ok!
Secondly.... young parents feel that if the child doesn’t comply to the wish of the relative the child is labelled choosy or snooty. Please let them think what they want. It’s better than watching your child cringe and try to free her/himself from the unwanted hug.
Next time speak up for your child! Politely tell them that s/he isn’t in a mood. Respect your child’s ‘NO’ ! Even in their case ‘NO’ means ‘NO’ !

आप में से कितने लोग चाहेंगे कि ये पोस्ट हिंदी या गुजराती में हो ?

Udbhav is back! We are so humbled by the love and likes on the page that we have decided to spring back in action. Will keep on sharing ideas and thoughts for positive parenting and join hands with every person on this forum to give our children a safe and stress free future 🙏🏼

This is just what Udbhav feels a teacher should be... the foremost quality of an A+ teacher.

A man, an avid Gardener saw a small Butterfly laying few eggs in one of the pots in his garden.

Since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness.

The egg started to move and shake a little.

He was excited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes.

He spent hours watching the egg now.

The egg started to expand and develop cracks.

A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly.

The man's excitement knew no bounds.

He got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out.

He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to "HELP".

He went and got a tender forceps to help the egg break, a nip here, a nip there to help the struggling life and the pupa was out.

The man was ecstatic!

He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly like a beautiful butterfly, but alas that never happened.

The larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died!

Depressed the man went to his botanist friend and asked the reason.

His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle.

In his eagerness to help, the man destroyed a beautiful life!

Struggles help all of us, that's why a bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties!

As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments.

We don't want our kids to struggle like we did.

Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Dan Kindlon says that over-protected children are more likely to struggle in relationships and
with challenges.

We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable of helping themselves.

To quote clinical psychologist,
Dr. Wendy 's Moral:

"It is Our Job to prepare Our Children for the Road & Not prepare the Road for Our Children"

What a great idea!!

Hi Mothers!
Today's post is specially for all you lovely young mothers who are graduates and have kids who would join school in a year or two. Believe me with this, will start your journey of anxieties of assignments to be completed and projects to be done. Soon you will be running from pillar to post to find tuition or classes that would help your child excel in all s/he does. But there is an easier way to guide your child :)
I am so sure that one and all would agree when I say that 'a mother is the best teacher'. Udbhav opens its doors to all you young mothers. We will help you in building your confidence in using English language and how to teach your child. When a child sees a confident mother as a role model it charges him/her to give the best.
Believe me when I say that a 6 yr. old of Udbhav had written in a creative writing session that when he sat in the Time Machine and went into the future he saw, "There were no schools. All mothers were teachers."
Let us make his this dream come true. Udbhav is now offering English Language classes to you on Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays from 2:00p.m. to 3:00p.m. & 3:00p.m. to 4:00p.m.
Come Udbhav will help you be your child's teacher.
Nimisha Kane