15/09/2026
We like to know "how-tos", don't we?
After listening to the "theories" (e.g. Parenting principles), we tend to ask, "What can we do then?", hoping for practical tips that will "change the kids".
When I started my talk, I knew I said something that might not sit well with everyone.
"Rather than looking for how-tos, we should be asking ourselves: is my heart ready to be shepherded by God, and be transformed? We have listened to the biblical principles of parenting, now am I willing to evaluate MY habits and re-orient my perspectives? Because when we as parents are transformed, our family will be impacted as well. We need this perspective before we start discussing practical ways of parenting our children." 🙏
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Am grateful for the opportunity to share with fellow parents (and grandparents).
May God,in His grace, equip us and use us as faithful instruments to shepherd our children's hearts, so that amidst the challenges of this generation, they may grow to be faithful, and become a blessing to others.