Wed&—Love, Life, & Everything In Between

Janna and Claudius built their garden wedding at Singapore's oldest church around one priority: unhurried time with their 190 guests. Florals led by family, hand fans on every chair, a string quartet, and a day they pieced together themselves with no planner. Every detail came from something they genuinely loved.

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What's the one part of your day you'd protect above everything else?

As Carrie walked down the aisle with her dad, her mum watched from her seat. Carrie carried orchids, which share her mum’s name, as her way of having both her parents walk her down the aisle.

The flowers you carry on your wedding day can do more than look pretty.

In our latest article, we share how to talk to your florist when you want your bouquet to mean something. Featuring Noelle of and Liz of .

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What flower would you carry, and who would you carry it for?

Most couples book the planner first. Carrie and Syl booked the florist.

Before they had a planner, they had Noelle of . The reason was simple: the heart of their wedding feeling came from a holiday memory in Italy, and that feeling lived in the flowers, the colours, and the way the room would look. So they booked the person who could bring that to life. Once the floral direction was set, every other decision became easier.

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Which vendor would you book first if you started with the feeling?
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Carrie and Syl didn't start their wedding planning with a colour palette or checklist. They started with a feeling: Italy.

They had spent their second anniversary there, and the memory stuck. Golden light. Warmth. Time slowing down. They wanted their wedding to feel like that too, so they built it at Capella Singapore with four-metre-tall trees, real grapes on golden linens, and deep red florals in layers.

Their three anchor words: rooted, romantic, abundant. Every decision was made against those three, from Carrie's orchid bouquet (chosen because they reminded her of her mother, Mei Lan) to the White Tea favours packaged custom by the hotel.

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What's the one feeling you'd want your wedding to have? Tell us in the comments!

The ballroom gives you a blank canvas. The restaurant already has a point of view.

For couples who know what they want, that existing identity can do a lot of the work for you. The aesthetic is already considered, the food is the main event, and you are not building an atmosphere from scratch. The question is not whether a restaurant can hold your guests. It is whether it reflects something honest about who you are and how you like to gather.

Charmaine and Theodore visited four restaurants in a single Saturday afternoon and had their answer by the end of the day. That efficiency came from knowing their criteria before they walked in. We have written up the full framework, including what to look for, what to ask, and how to think about the practical mechanics (minimum spends, timing, menu flexibility).

Plus, input from !

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Would a restaurant wedding feel right for you, or does the blank canvas of a ballroom appeal more? Tell us in the comments.

What if you both proposed?

Charmaine and Theodore did exactly that. Just two people who knew where things were headed and each chose to say so in their own way. What they ended up with was two very personal proposals: hers, a puzzle trail built from shared memory; his, a Bill (she's a lawyer)!

We explore why mutual proposals are becoming more common, and the practical questions worth thinking through if you're considering it. Link in bio.

Would you want to be the one to ask, the one to receive, or both? 👇

Before you open a budget spreadsheet, ask a different question: what would we be most disappointed not to have?

That is where Charmaine and Theodore started. Before any vendor conversation, before any venue visit, they asked themselves what this day was actually for. Theodore puts it simply: "We decided on the things that were meaningful to us and only spent on those things." No bridal boutique, no live band, no cake, no stationery. Both wore Uniqlo. What they did spend on: a restaurant whose food philosophy matched Charmaine's values, a photographer they already trusted, a videographer referred, and florals that carried a personal story. All these were properly funded because nothing else was competing for the budget.

Their total spend came in under $5,000 with 7 guests at . Link in bio for their wedding feature and their approach to planning their wedding.

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What would be on your "what we actually care about" list? Tell us in the comments.

Most couples planning a Japan wedding start with the venue. Joi & Lily-Rose started with their planner, 18 months before the wedding.

Tokyo venues run on precision. Back-to-back weekend bookings, each following a well-rehearsed sequence. If your vision involves anything outside that format with a different ceremony structure, an international celebrant, live instruments, the venue conversation has to happen very early, and with someone who already has relationships on the ground.

had been doing site visits and building those connections in Tokyo before Lily and Joi even came to her. When one of the after-party venue turned out to prohibit brass instruments (no saxophone, no live jazz), Jenny had already been running a second venue search in parallel. The couple never had to worry about it.

We break this down fully in our latest article. Link in bio.

Have you ever started planning something big and realised you were already behind? Tell us in the comments.

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