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STEPS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE

1. Don't joke with your husband stomach...... If you fail to feed him well another woman out there will use that advantage to have him

Don't avoid her food no matter how tasteless it may be...... Encourage her if possible teach her how to cook

2. S*X is a bound that keeps marriage..... Don't for any reason or reasons denied it to each other

3. If you have issues among you.... Don't be fast to involve a 3rd party

4. Woman, no matter how rich your husband may be...... Find something to be doing 2 good heads are better than one

5. If you want to have a better and happy family ....... Train your children's wall

6. Woman: don't wait for your husband to be providing all the family's need..... He will one day breakdown

7. Man; cary your wife along in your plans....... Her opinion could be the best

8. Fort finders don't make good homes ..... Have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect

9. The sooner you learn that (I'm right) destroys marriages ........ The better for you

10. Togetherness brings unity in marriage...... Formed a habit of eating and bathing together, it increases love among couples

11. Forgiveness a key to a successfully marriage..... Forgive each other no matter the offense

12. I'm SORRY should always be in your lips 💋........... It's just a word but very powerful

13. Don't for any reason keeps a secret among you.......... Trust each other for the good of your marriage

14. Family planning is not only contraceptives or controlling child birth........... Is all about planning together, families that plans together are a step to greatness

15. Always involve God in your family..... He's the answer and solutions to your family problems.
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"Pay attention to what people say out of anger, they've been dying to tell you that," emphasizes the idea that words spoken in anger often reveal underlying truths or feelings that have been suppressed.

Breaking Down the Quote

Anger as a Catalyst for Truth:
The quote suggests that when people are angry, they might express thoughts or emotions they have been holding back. Anger can act as a catalyst that pushes these hidden feelings to the surface, leading to statements that might not have been said otherwise.

Suppressed Feelings:
The phrase "they've been dying to tell you that" indicates that these thoughts or feelings have been simmering beneath the surface, waiting for an opportunity to be voiced. Anger provides that opportunity, often resulting in the expression of raw, unfiltered truth.

The Importance of Listening:
The quote encourages you to listen carefully to what is said during moments of anger. Rather than dismissing angry words as irrational or purely emotional, it suggests considering them as a possible reflection of deeper, unresolved issues or truths.

Insight into Relationships:
Paying attention to what is said in anger can offer valuable insights into the dynamics of a relationship. It may reveal frustrations, disappointments, or desires that have not been communicated effectively before, providing an opportunity to address and resolve underlying tensions.

Constructive Response:
While the quote highlights the importance of listening, it also implies the need for a constructive response. Understanding the root cause of someone's anger can help in addressing the issues at hand and improving communication within the relationship.

Visual Context
The image shows a person with a serious, perhaps slightly contemplative expression, which aligns well with the introspective and analytical tone of the quote. The expression suggests someone who is carefully considering what has been said, possibly reflecting on the deeper meaning behind the words. This reinforces the idea that paying attention to what is said in anger can lead to greater understanding.

Conclusion
In summary, the quote underscores the importance of paying attention to what people say when they are angry, as these moments can reveal suppressed truths or emotions. It encourages listening and reflection as a way to gain insight into relationships and to address underlying issues. The image complements this message by portraying someone who appears thoughtful and introspective, further emphasizing the value of considering the deeper meanings behind words spoken in anger.

A woman who allows people to taste her
food before buying it, ends up feeding the
whole community without selling
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Stop being so much excited when a man who has not had s3x with you treats you better than your husband or boyfriend. Sèxual expectation excites men alot. He can do anything to lày with you. When he succeed in laying with you, most of them will stop treating you how they were previously treating you and leave you begging for attention.

In a nutshell, this may also drive you insàne because you will find it hard to fathom how he went from a perfect man you thought was better than your boyfriend or husband to an unserious man. Those things you thought were love was just his hormons controlling him.

Men show love higher before sèx because of their hormones While women show higher after sèx.
But always remember that s3x is not love but it enhances relationship/ marriage.
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Dangers of marrying an ALREADY MADE man?

You see many girls are more interested in marrying boys who are doing well financially.

To them husband material is one with a good job, car and house.

Most of them do not realize that very few successful young men will bend for marriage.

They do not consider the dangers of marrying a man who’s life you have not contributed anything.

You just want to enter there and enjoy all the good things. What a shame !

Dangers of marrying already made men ;
1. They don’t change for any woman. If you found him taking alcohol, he will continue.

If you found him womanizing he will continue womanizing that comfort zone cannot be abolished by marriage.

2. You will have little say on what he has. When an already established man marries you, he doesn’t consider you as a person to value but a property to keep.

He will be counting you among the things he owns.

Many girls are treated like things and not humans because they love material things.
With his money he bought you, with his influence he married you instead of other girls so he chooses to treat the way he likes.

3. You will be eating crumbs.

Have you heard girls saying it’s better to cry in a Benz than smile on a bicycle?
Those are wives with cosmetic riches.
Broken inside but intact outside.
Hypertension kills them, they dies of depression.
They drive cars but they have no drive within them. No hope no faith.
They fail to step out of those abusive marriages because the day they will go is the day the cosmetic beauty will go.
They are just keeping up appearances.

4. Your efforts will never count.
You'll try in as much as the relationship goes on between both of you,but what you'll ever done will not be seen, because areas in his life counterpart that needed that was already fixed, before you came into picture.

5. You'll never demand his attention but earn.
My dear he may or may not have time for you, you'll always craving for a quality time together but to no avail except he see's genuine reasons why to spend time with you then you earned the attention.

6. He may has a very low libido. You'll encounter challenges of reaching cloud nine,of travelling to the moon on a long run and return with your two legs shaking while reaching your climax,if you as a young lady really want consider marrying a rich man,imagine with your high libido sister, alternatives will not solve that problems throughout your lifetime.

7. You'll have some girls to contain with.
When desperate ladies sense fragrance of money from either directions they'll always fly like bee's towards that route. You'll have to fight sweet, sexier and younger than you to keep him,Alot of them even without meeting his acquaintance will want to show their admiration even at your presence.

8. You'll always be insecure.
İnsecurities will arises in every line of an argument and he'll never change forcefully but willingly and if forcefully you'll be asked to choose between in or out of the house,been that you never wanted poverty of your father house to repeat second time

9. They hardly stay married.
Most of them hardly prioritize a woman, thereby don't care who stays or leave ''in as much as the money stays they called it more life'' most of them will never let you experience true love but more gadgets and brand new cars will be given to you as a medium of apology.

10. They may never admit they're wrong.
Simply soft words whispering to your ears I'm sorry would hardly be heard from them,no remorseful,no apologies, always right, because they knew your loyalty and sweet names calling stops where money stops because if really they were broke or poor you wouldn't be there and you're there because he's rich, famous and successful.

Marry a man who is just building himself up. A reasonable and sober man.

A vision driven man, when you build together, the chances of breaking apart will be very low.

Look for the brothers in Zion who are trying to put their lives together and build with them.

It’s good to marry a visionary Christian especially if he has shown love for you even though he has nothing yet.

There's no grass that's greener at the other side,every green grass had a consistent gardener who refuses to give up on it so use your hand,hoe and wisdom build into future whom and who you choose, because forever is too long to be unhappy.....

Note: This post is not suggesting that every built up man is the same, it means tread cautiously when confronted by an already made man and be careful not to lust after already made men, most of them belong to every girl you see on the streets.

Think twice after reading before taking decisions......

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RELATIONSHIP NUGGETS..

1. No man wants a woman who is accessible to every man.

2. Just because a person keeps you around doesn't mean they love you; remember, people, buy cats just to get rid of rats.

3. If you have to beg someone to do the bare minimum for you and if you have to be telling them how you deserved to be treated better then for goodness sake. LEAVE. It's not worth your peace.

4. In life, you need to learn to stop opening doors for toxic people and giving them room in your mind, and calling it "seeking closure!" You're delaying your healing process.

5. You will reach the age where you can easily tell that the relationship is not going to work just by the conversation.

6. If S*X is all you are about in a relationship, then it means you are actually empty. A healthy relationship is about purpose! Sharing vision and values together.

7. Don't ignore the red flags you see at the beginning. The red flags you ignore trying to see the good in person WILL cost you later.

8. As a woman, understand that men will say and do anything to sleep with you. Look at the actions, don't be blinded by words. Anyone can talk a good game, but it takes a real ball prayer to play.

9. Avoid the damaged, the unhappy, and the unlucky.

Class dismissed.....
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Be blessed.
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