04/10/2026
I genuinely thought I had to get my baby to sleep in his cot.
I spent SO much time attempting transfers.
Rocking.
Feeding.
Waiting until he was deeply asleep.
Holding my breath as I lowered him down…
Only for him to wake up 20 minutes later. 😩
And because I had a highly sensitive, low sleep needs, very “VELCRO” baby, I eventually realised that trying harder wasn’t the answer.
He wanted closeness.
So we started working WITH that instead of constantly fighting it.
We explored safer bedsharing.
We used contact naps.
I babywore him.
We used movement for naps.
We explored different sleep setups.
And eventually…
we sold the cot. 😂
And honestly? It was such a relief.
Because I finally stopped treating the cot as the destination I had to reach.
Here’s what I wish I’d known sooner:
Your baby doesn’t have to sleep in a cot for you to be doing sleep “right”.
A cot is one option.
It’s not the gold standard.
And if your baby absolutely hates being put down, you don’t necessarily need to spend your days trying to convince them otherwise.
Sometimes the biggest change comes from taking the pressure off and asking:
“Where does my baby sleep best, and how can we make that work safely?”
If you’re currently nap-trapped, babywearing or wondering why your baby seems to have a personal vendetta against their cot…
I see you. 🫶🏼
There are options.
And you don’t have to force your baby into one particular way of sleeping.
🐭🌙