The Fairy BirthMother

The Fairy BirthMother Hi, I’m Vicky, a mummy of 3 and founder of The Fairy BirthMother. I provide holistic antenatal and postnatal support for bump, birth, baby, and beyond.

Antenatal | Postnatal | Hypnobirthing🤰🏻
Breastfeeding🤱
Holistic Support Pregnancy & Baby Classes
Continuity of Care🌟
Accredited📍
Woking/Guildford/surrounding areas
Online My mission is to empower and support families through their journey with personalized care, guidance, and love. Let’s nurture your pregnancy and parenting journey together! 🌿✨

22/08/2026

What feeding questions are you still wondering about? 👀

Maybe you’re pregnant and wondering what to expect with breastfeeding, struggling with bottle feeding, considering combination feeding, wondering about pumping and expressing breast milk, or struggling with weaning and toddler feeding.

No question too small. No question too silly. No question too big.

So ask me. 🤍

Pop your feeding question in the comments and I’ll be using your questions to create helpful, evidence-based feeding content when I’m back in September.

👇 What would you like me to talk about?

03/08/2026

Hope you’re all having a lovely summer. I have signed off to spend the holidays with my 3 littles. My inbox is still open for any questions, I just might be a little slower to reply.

Be back to all things b***s and babies in September

Xx

24/06/2026

TOP TIP for cooling your rooms…

I’ve done this for the last few years and it works like a charm! Doesn’t look pretty, but keeps the house a good few degrees cooler!

19/06/2026

Planning to breastfeed? Here are 5 things to do before your baby arrives.

1. Get educated
Take an antenatal course and learn how your body is built to feed your baby. Understanding realistic expectations and newborn biological norms means you will know what is normal, what is not, and how to navigate hurdles when they come up.

2. Write a list of names and numbers
A breastfeeding consultant, local groups, new mum meet-ups. Write these down before baby arrives. They will be a genuine lifeline in those early weeks.

3. Hold off on pumps and bottles
I cannot tell you how many families have spent a small fortune on equipment they never touched. Hospitals have pumps to borrow and Amazon does next-day delivery. Save that money and put it towards a breastfeeding antenatal course instead.

4. Collect colostrum antenatally
From 36 weeks, with your midwife’s go-ahead, start hand expressing to collect colostrum. Liquid gold for your baby. The amount you manage to collect means nothing about how your feeding journey will go, so do not let it discourage you.

5. Protect your baby bubble
Get everyone around you on the same page before baby arrives. Share your feeding goals and be clear about what support you need. Cleaning, cooking, older children - there are so many ways loved ones can help you.

If you want to cover all of this and so much more, my Preparing to Breastfeed course is completely personalised to you, your wishes, and your goals. Drop me a message or head to the link in my bio.

Vicky x
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Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk
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18/06/2026

Breastfeeding and bottles can absolutely go hand in hand. Whether you want to give expressed milk, formula, or just have the option to step away sometimes, it does not have to be all or nothing.

There is no magic age you have to wait until before introducing a bottle. That said, if your baby is under around six weeks, it is worth doing it mindfully and with a bit of a plan, because your supply is still finding its feet. Any time a baby has a bottle feed, adding in a pump is a good idea to keep things ticking along. Remember = supply and demand!

Overnight feeding is still one of the most important things for your supply, especially in those early weeks, so if giving a bottle at night to get a longer stretch of sleep is the goal, it just needs a little thought behind it. It is absolutely doable. You can get a decent chunk of sleep and protect your supply. It just takes knowing when to do it, how to do it, and having a plan. I can help you here.

If your baby is already refusing a bottle, that is where I come in. My bottle refusal course walks you through getting a bottle-refusing baby to actually take one. No matter if they used to take one perfectly fine and then stopped, or they have never had one and you want to start.

And, if you just want to talk through the logistics of when and how to introduce a bottle so you can get more sleep, I offer phone call support for £45. No full consultation needed, just practical advice you can use straight away down the end of the phone.

Link in bio to find both or pop me a DM

Vicky x
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Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk

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17/06/2026

I would say this is in my top 5 breastfeeding myths that I have mums come to me with. I completely understand why. Nobody prepares you for how much a newborn actually feeds, so when it happens it is easy to assume something must be wrong.

But feeding every hour is not a red flag. It is often just a baby doing exactly what a baby is supposed to do.

Babies don’t feed just for food. They feed for comfort, for warmth, for connection, to regulate their temperature and nervous system, because your breast is the safest and most familiar place they know. Milk is only part of the story.

And sometimes babies cluster feed, which is when feeds bunch together, sometimes for hours at a time and often late afternoon / evening and night. There are a few reasons this happens, but one of the big ones is that your baby is essentially sending a message to your milk making factory. They are about to grow, they are going to need more milk in the coming days, and cluster feeding is how they tell your breasts to ramp up production. It is clever, albeit exhausting.

As long as your baby has plenty of wet and dirty nappies, is growing well, is feeding comfortably and has moments of being settled and content, feeding every hour is fine. Tiring? Yes. A sign of low supply? No.

Perceived low milk supply is one of the biggest reasons mums stop breastfeeding before they wanted to, or introduce formula when that wasn’t the plan. And so often, there was nothing wrong with their supply at all, but then doing these things actually does impact their supply. This is exactly why we cover all of this in my preparing to breastfeed course, so you go in with realistic expectations and the knowledge to trust your body, even on the hard days.

The link to find out more is in my bio.
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Vicky x

Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk

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15/06/2026

Are you stood looking at the formula on the shelves at the supermarket and bamboozled by the choice and wondering which is the best one for your baby?

Is it the one with the £££££ price? The one that promises to fix all your ‘colic’ problems?

I’m here to tell you that absolutely EVERY SINGLE formula sold on British shelves is 100% nutritionally equal! There is no one formula better nutritionally than another. By LAW they all have to contain the same nutritional qualities and quantities.

Any added extras that claim to support your baby in other ways eg. ‘Hungry baby’ formula (urgh god I hate this one!) or ‘colic’ are not backed by science or research at all. If there were found to be beneficial then ALL formula would have to include it by law.

So save your £££ and get the Aldi formula and a cheeky chocolate bar or bottle of wine for you, with all that money you will be saving 😜

Vicky x
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Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk
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12/06/2026

Some feeds are lovely. Some feeds happen when you’ve had an hour’s sleep, you’ve got somewhere to be, and it’s approximately the 1,000th one that day.

And without even realising it, you sit down completely tense. Shoulders up, jaw tight, just waiting for it to be over.

These little reminders are for those feeds.

Drop your shoulders. Unclench your jaw. Sit back. Breathe. Let this one be a bit easier.

You’re doing something incredible, even on the hard days. Especially on the hard days. Be kind to yourself.

Vicky x
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Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk
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12/06/2026
11/06/2026

My top tips for increasing your milk supply:

1. 12+ feeds in 24hrs - aim for at least 12 feeds in 24 hours. If in doubt, b**b out! Every time baby latches and removes milk, even a tiny amount, your body gets the signal to make more.

2. Night feeds - you produce the most prolactin (the milk making hormone) overnight, which makes these feeds vital for building and maintaining your supply.

3. Skin-to-skin - this releases oxytocin, which supports let-down and can keep baby at the breast longer while helping them feel calm and regulated.

4. Breast compressions - after your initial let-down, using breast compressions helps baby remove even more milk, sending a stronger signal to your body to increase production.

5. Hand expressing after a feed - supply and demand. Remove more, make more.

6. My 48hr hunker down - this is my top tip for anyone worried about supply. No clothes, skin-to-skin, unlimited access to the breast for 48 hours. Baby feeds and sleeps at the breast while you eat, rest, and binge that Netflix series.

If you’re worried about your supply, I’d love to help. I offer phone calls and video calls to talk things through, or if you’re local to Woking, Guildford or Surrey, I can come to you for a home visit.

Vicky x
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Breastfeeding Consultant, Hypnobirthing, Antenatal Course

WOKING | GUILDFORD | SURREY | ONLINE

www.thefairybirthmother.co.uk
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