02/07/2020
My client came to me through recommendation, an 18 year old girl who had literally given up. Her hair was tied back except for a fringe which she was doing her very best to hide behind.
I knew she needed my help, but who was I?
She didn't know me, so I asked questions, and just listened. she was reluctant at first, but as she began to talk a little and know she was being heard, we connected.
There was a deep unrest within her, wondering what her sense of purpose was, wondering why she had lost her motivation, and her mind was exhausting her. Moving from her bedroom to sit with her parents for dinner, felt like someone had asked her to climb Everest. And no matter what she did it she just couldn't get out of it.
She was frightened of studying, she was mentally exhausted and all her energy was being used to do everyday tasks, including trying to explain to her parents that she wasn't ignoring her work, infact her work was on her mind constantly but she just couldn't go near it. They didn't understand as her mother explained to me
" I don't know where she has gone, we're all pretty energetic people, there is no reason for her to behave like this, it's so frustrating"
But she knew her daughter needed help.
Working with her, creating an 'insight friendly space', allowing her time to discover how our experiences are created and then giving her an opportunity to explore what that meant in her world allowed these three simple steps to happen, insight, realisation and transformation.
I knew we were making great progress when her mum sent me a message, it simply said
"She's painting again! Thank you ๐ "
Our sessions have finished now, and she is off to University with her whole life ahead of her, she has Clarity and tools to deal with whatever comes her way.
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