16/09/2026
A brand new workshop but one I am very passionate about delivering... Holding It Together: Understanding After-School Restraint Collapse
“But they’re absolutely fine at school…”
Then they get home and everything seems to fall apart. As a parent you then start to question yourself..."What am I doing wrong??"
Meltdowns, shutdowns, tears, anger or struggling with the smallest of demands can sometimes be signs that a child has spent the whole day simply holding it together.
During the session we will explore:
- What After-School Restraint Collapse is and why it can happen
- The hidden effort involved in 'holding it together'
- Masking, sensory load, emotional regulation and accumulated demands
- Different presentations of overwhelm, including meltdowns and shutdowns
- Practical ways to create a more gentle transition from school to home
- Regulation and co-regulation strategies
- How home and school can work together to understand the whole child rather than viewing behaviour in isolation
This workshop is suitable for parents & carers, teachers, SENCOs, LSAs and other professionals working with children and young people. We will look beyond the behaviour we see and become curious about what may be happening underneath it.
I would love to see you there! Recording access is also available (please see the link!)
Bookings: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/holding-it-together-understanding-after-school-restraint-collapse-tickets-2000524580874