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Kate Chandan I Stuck? Let's talk. Taking mums from stuck to unstoppable

14/10/2026

Why do we find it so hard to invest in ourselves?
Do you have the mum blinkers on & put yourself to the bottom of the pile?

How I went from ironing someone else’s work shirts to leading a team of 200 people.I hated ironing…..so why the hell did...
12/10/2026

How I went from ironing someone else’s work shirts to leading a team of 200 people.

I hated ironing…..so why the hell did I think that ironing other people’s clothes for cash was the right thing for me?

I used to drive around collecting bags of washing & stood ironing on a Friday night ironing peoples shirts, then dropping them off over the weekend.

It was s**t.

But what else could I do?

I told myself that was all I was capable now I was a mum.
BK (Before Kids) I worked for a leading food brand but told myself I could only do crap ironing jobs.

Why?

Because I told myself I shouldn’t want more, that being a mum should be enough.

I felt guilty for wanting a career.

I thought it was about the money – it wasn’t.

My self worth was so attached to my career before I became a mum, I told myself without a career I was worthless.

I wanted more.

I wanted to do something for myself but I felt guilty.

Guilty for feeling like this because surely being a mum should be enough.

Of course I adored being mum but I was lost. I wanted to do something for me, that was mine alone.

Money was almost secondary.

I didn’t know what to do.

I was stuck.

I didn’t want to go back to my old job because I didn’t want to leave my babies, but I also wanted to do something.

I felt years in this limbo.

Then I discovered something that worked for me.

I joined Neal’s Yard (skincare brand).

I knew nothing about skincare but thought what did I have to lose!
In my first year I won Business Builder of the Year, and a few years later qualified for a trip to Jordan.

My little business was rocking.

I was back.

I’d found me again & it was just the beginning.

Need some help getting Unstuck?

DM me Unstuck & let’s chat.

Sunday the best day of the week….until the dread sets in.Everyone mum in the country feels like this right?Wrong.It’s no...
11/10/2026

Sunday the best day of the week….until the dread sets in.
Everyone mum in the country feels like this right?
Wrong.
It’s not tiredness.
It’s something deeper.
You’ve been giving yourself to everyone else for years.
You know this isn’t right but you haven’t given yourself time & space to think what you want.
You knew what you wanted before you became a mum. You were clear. You had time to think.
The early years of child raising took over and most of the time you were just surviving.
Not anymore.
Let’s work on you.
Let’s find out who you are now & what you want.
Let’s do the deep work and discover you now.
Start feeling stuck, finish feeling unstoppable with a clear plan of how to get exactly what you want.
DM me Unstuck & I’ll send you the link.
Don’t let Sundays be like this anymore.
Let’s create the life you want now.

I was stuck for years.I didn’t know what I wanted.I felt guilty.Guilty for wanting more.I should be happy - I had 3 heal...
09/10/2026

I was stuck for years.
I didn’t know what I wanted.
I felt guilty.
Guilty for wanting more.
I should be happy - I had 3 healthy children.
That should have been enough - shouldn’t it?
I wanted more, but I kept pushing those feelings down.
I thought it was about money & contributing.
So I ironed & made cakes for the local cafe.
The cash didn’t help those feelings.
For so long my self worth was attached to my career, I had no idea who I was, or what I wanted anymore.
So I worked with a coach - this was life changing.
I understood who I was now & what I wanted now.
I’d changed - I was discovering me again.
I had always had a passion & drive to succeed.
So I ran my own skincare business for 5 years - rise to the ranks of senior leadership & led a team of 200 consultants.
I then launched a recruitment business from nothing & did £100k in sales.
The change was incredible.
I found my groove & now I want to show you how to find yours again.
You can do anything.
But first we start with understanding who you are now & what you really want.
Unstuck is for mums just like you (and me).
I’ve been where you are & want to help.
DM Unstuck & I’ll send you the details.

07/10/2026

What the hell?
Then it started to click.
When I became a mum ‘what do I want’ got replaced by ‘what does everyone else want’.
I realised this was normal.
But I wanted to be me again.
Not me before I had kids - but finding out who I was now.
That’s when the work began.
I found out who I was now.
I did the work.
I now have absolute clarity on what I want & what I don’t.
Isn’t it time you tapped into you again?

You’re not behind on your business.You just let other things fill your time.Life is busy.It keeps getting in the way.You...
06/10/2026

You’re not behind on your business.
You just let other things fill your time.
Life is busy.
It keeps getting in the way.
You want to grow your business.
But you don’t have time.
Yes you do.
You just need some help working out what to do.
Being a mum is busy.
Being a mum and a business owner is also busy.
I work with mums who are in business and want support to grow, be more effective & keep them accountable.
Working for yourself is fantastic.
You can do what you want.
This is half the problem as we often avoid the hard stuff.
It’s the hard stuff that will get you to where you want to go.
Stop trying to do it all on your own.
I’m opening up 4 places for Unstoppable.
This is 6 months of 1:1 support to build the confidence, focus & accountability to grow your business.
Comment Unstoppable or DM me & I’ll send you the application form.

I used to think I just didn't have any ideas.I told myself I was useless as couldn't think of anything I wanted to do.Or...
02/10/2026

I used to think I just didn't have any ideas.

I told myself I was useless as couldn't think of anything I wanted to do.

Or what I was good at.

I felt like I had nothing left.

I told myself my brain had turned to mush as spent years back to back singing sleeping lions & the most high brow conversations I had were about how long your baby slept for & what you were having for tea.

I was existing.

Years of it — sitting there, people asking "so what do you actually want to do?" and nothing. Not even a bad idea. Just blank.

I just knew I wanted something.

I told myself that meant something about me. That I wasn't an ideas person. That maybe I just wasn't built for anything beyond getting through the day.

Looking back now, I can see exactly what was actually happening.

My head was never quiet. School shoes. Who needed picking up and when. What was (or wasn't) in the freezer for tea. The mental tally of everything everyone else needed, running constantly, underneath everything else.

There was just no room in my own head for me.

I accidentally became a business woman.

I hadn't planned on it.

I joined Neal's Yard and started flogging skincare.

I was pretty good at it. I loved it.

It gave me some of 'me' back & a fire had been lit.

I built a team of 200 people.

Then a business from nothing. Neither of those started with a brilliant idea arriving out of nowhere. They started with enough headspace to actually hear myself think for the first time in years.

So if you're sitting there right now convinced you've got no ideas, no direction, nothing — I know that's not true.

I know your head is just too full to hear what's already in there.

You are not out of ideas. You are just out of headspace.

01/10/2026

Choices.
You make choices everyday.
You think you don’t have any - but you do.
You choose to stay stuck.
Make a change now.
One choice could change the rest of your life.
Do it.
Choose your future now.

The mum jobs that are just expected.You are meant to hold it all together - and you do - but what about you.What about w...
28/09/2026

The mum jobs that are just expected.
You are meant to hold it all together - and you do - but what about you.
What about what you want?
You've literally no idea.
Which is why you've settled into your dull, boring job that you despise.
Just because you don't know what else to do.
You don't have time to think about what you really want because you have zero hours in the day between running from work, to pick up to swimming club (the worst - why is it always so hot in there).
When do you get time to think.
You don't.
You just go through the motions daily loading the washing machine for the tenth billion time this week thinking 'is this it?'.
You tell yourself it'll be easier when the kids are older.
It won't.
You'll still feel the same as nothing has changed for you.
You have a choice.
We all have a choice every day.
You can carry on until you die just existing.
Or.
You can start to work on you & uncover what you really want.
Motherhood has changed you no doubt & it's not about getting back to who you were before.
It's about learning who you are now.

26/09/2026

No wonder you don’t know what you want anymore.
You haven’t had to think about it for years as you’ve been busy mumming.
Kids are now at school.
You are back at work.
You don’t know what you want, but you know it’s not this.
You haven’t had to think about what you want for years.
And even when you try you just come up with a blank.
Then your head is filled with the daily juggle so you have no time to think.
Packed lunches, school trips, work, managing everyone’s diary.
The mental overload is real.
Throwing the fact that you’ve changed over the years is massive.
No wonder you don’t know what you want anymore.
You feel stuck.
Sound familiar?
Let’s talk.

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