Roksana Hussein Transformation Coach

Roksana Hussein Transformation Coach Empowering you to live with confidence and self belief.

DM me GROUND WORK and I’ll send you the first step to ensure this is the last summer you compare your life to your frien...
07/08/2026

DM me GROUND WORK and I’ll send you the first step to ensure this is the last summer you compare your life to your friend’s.

DM me PATTERN and I’ll send you the three minute quiz
01/08/2026

DM me PATTERN and I’ll send you the three minute quiz

I used to think I just had a “moody” marriage.Then I started this work with women carrying a parent wound, and I saw the...
24/07/2026

I used to think I just had a “moody” marriage.

Then I started this work with women carrying a parent wound, and I saw the same thing in nearly all of them.

She holds it together for the children. And the person who chose her, the one who actually stayed, gets the raw version.

It’s not a rough patch. It’s a rehearsal. She’s running the only script she was ever taught about love, on the one relationship she picked for herself.

The good news, your parent doesn’t have to change a single thing for this to stop. Comment PATTERN and I’ll send you your first step.

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Hi, I’m Roksana 👋 Transformation coach. I blend coaching and therapeutic approaches because I know how it feels when your issue is overwhelming, you just want that ONE expert you feel safe with to take care of you holistically.

💙This is a community for women who have a challenging relationship with parent(s) and are seeking to be empowered, re-centred and healed so you can relate with self-compassion and reclaim your energy.

👉🏼 Let’s help you move from insight to integration and embodiment.

Keywords: parent wound, mother wound, father wound, marriage patterns, emotional intimacy.

The waiting cost me more than the wound ever did. Here’s what changed everything. I stopped making my healing conditiona...
22/07/2026

The waiting cost me more than the wound ever did.

Here’s what changed everything.

I stopped making my healing conditional on my parent.

The repair was never about getting them to change. It’s about you staying you, calm, whole, steady. Whether they change or not.

That’s not giving up on the relationship. It’s the only thing that gives it a real chance.

Comment PATTERN and I’ll send you your first step.

Keywords: parent wound, adult daughter, difficult mother relationship, father wound, reparenting, emotional healing.

When my daughter was born in 2011, something in me turned brave. I didn’t understand why yet. I just trusted the pull. I...
16/07/2026

When my daughter was born in 2011, something in me turned brave. I didn’t understand why yet. I just trusted the pull.

I had no map. So, I took one step, then another. I reparented myself while I learnt to parent her. And learning to love my baby, I finally learnt to love my inner child too. It still brings happy tears.

I’d talk to her, ask her what she needed. Sometimes I was met with silence. Often, a list. And slowly, she settled.

This is the work not toughening up. Coming home.

This is exactly where The Daughter Reset begins. A workshop with 3 gentle yet significant shifts.

DM DAUGHTER RESET to register

Hi, I’m Roksana 👋 Transformation coach. I blend coaching and therapeutic approaches because I know how it feels when your issue is overwhelming, you just want that ONE expert you feel safe with to take care of you holistically.

👉🏼I help women to gain clarity and context of their issue, implement effective tools to move through highly charged emotions and rewrite the patterns and imprints to pull them out of suffering mode without guilt or shame.

🔑I’m trained in Clinical Hypnotherapy, EFT(tapping), Breath work, EMDR and Coaching. Professional Liability Insured & Senior Fellow registered with ACCPH.

🫶🏽I’m a British South Asian, female, mum of two, married, ex-corporate and based in St Albans, UK

motherhoodintheraw

Keywords: reparenting, inner child work, coming home to yourself, parent wound healing

I was waiting. For an apology. For her to soften. For her to finally see me. I told myself I couldn’t move on until she ...
14/07/2026

I was waiting. For an apology. For her to soften. For her to finally see me. I told myself I couldn’t move on until she changed.

That belief kept me circling the same conversations, dimming my light, year after year.

Harriet Lerner gave us adult daughters a way out

“You can’t make the other person learn new steps, but you can change your own, the dance can’t continue in the same old pattern”

So I changed mine. And she never had to do a thing. She didn’t even know.

That’s the part I most want you to hold today.

This is the first shift I teach inside The Daughter Reset.

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Hi, I’m Roksana 👋 Transformation coach. I blend coaching and therapeutic approaches because I know how it feels when your issue is overwhelming, you just want that ONE expert you feel safe with to take care of you holistically.

💙This is a community for women who have a challenging relationship with parent(s) and are seeking to be empowered, re-centred and healed so you can relate with self-compassion and reclaim your energy.

👉🏼 Let’s help you move from insight to integration and embodiment.



Keywords: you don’t need them to change, Harriet Lerner the dance, detach with love

Citation note: Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Anger. Short quote only.

I could be genuinely happy for a friend and quietly in agony at the same time. Never about what they had. It was about t...
08/07/2026

I could be genuinely happy for a friend and quietly in agony at the same time.

Never about what they had. It was about the look between them and their parent. A softening. The easy nod of two people who trust each other.

I didn’t have a word for the ache for a long time so I made it mean something was wrong with me.

There was nothing wrong with me.

It was grief for an ease I was never given. And grief, once you let yourself call it that, stops running the show from the shadows.

Save this if you’ve had that ache and never had a name for it.

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Hi, I’m Roksana 👋 Transformation coach. I blend coaching and therapeutic approaches because I know how it feels when your issue is overwhelming, you just want that ONE expert you feel safe with to take care of you holistically.

💙This is a community for women who have a challenging relationship with parent(s) and are seeking to be empowered, re-centred and healed so you can relate with self-compassion and reclaim your energy.

👉🏼 Let’s help you move from insight to integration and embodiment.



Keywords: grieving, comparison, the easy bond, ambiguous loss

For years I tried to think my way before calls with my parent. It never worked, and I couldn’t understand why. This is w...
06/07/2026

For years I tried to think my way before calls with my parent. It never worked, and I couldn’t understand why.

This is why.

Our nervous system reads safe or unsafe BEFORE your thinking brain gets a word in. Stephen Porges named it neuroception.

Your mind says “it’s only a phone call”. Your body remembers every call that came before it.

So the bracing was never irrational. It’s our body doing its job, with info our mind kept trying to override.

Which is also why the work that finally helped me wasn’t more insight. It was Somatic. It reached the body, not just the head.

Save this for the next time your inner critic calls you dramatic.

Citation note: Stephen Porges, Polyvagal theory.



Keywords: neuroception, why I brace before my parent, nervous system safety,

The twenty minutes was NEVER the problem.It was the forty eight hours after. The thought loop. The missed calls I couldn...
03/07/2026

The twenty minutes was NEVER the problem.

It was the forty eight hours after. The thought loop. The missed calls I couldn’t answer. The fog I’d disappear into just to get a break from my own head.

For years I thought that made me weak.

It didn’t. A body braced that long doesn’t switch off the moment you hang up.

Send this to a friend who goes quiet for two days after she speaks to her parent. She’ll know.



Keywords: emotional hangover, guilt, replay

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Hi, I’m Roksana 👋 Transformation coach. I blend coaching and therapeutic approaches because I know how it feels when your issue is overwhelming, you just want that ONE expert you feel safe with to take care of you holistically.

💙This is a community for women who have a challenging relationship with parent(s) and are seeking to be empowered, re-centred and healed so you can relate with self-compassion and reclaim your energy.

👉🏼 Let’s help you move from insight to integration and embodiment.

For years I thought the problem was the conversation.It wasn’t. It was the choreography underneath it. A dance we’d both...
01/07/2026

For years I thought the problem was the conversation.

It wasn’t. It was the choreography underneath it. A dance we’d both been doing so long that neither of us could see it, let alone stop it.

She made her moves. I had mine. And I fell into them every single Sunday.

Naming it a pattern, rather than a failing, was the first thing that ever loosened its grip.

Save this if you recognised your own Sunday in it.

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