14/10/2026
Being in school doesn't always mean being included.
A child can walk through the school gates every morning and still struggle to access their education.
They might spend much of their day in a pastoral room. They might attend on a reduced timetable. Or they might sit quietly in lessons, overwhelmed, anxious and unable to engage with what's happening around them.
From the outside, it can look as though they're attending school. But are they actually learning?
This is something I speak about regularly through my work supporting families navigating school-related anxiety, SEND and barriers to education.
One message I keep coming back to is this: We shouldn't have to wait until a child stops attending school altogether before we recognise that something isn't working. Early intervention matters.
When a child begins showing signs of distress, we need to understand what's happening, listen to their experiences and work together to identify what support might help.
For some children, that could mean reasonable adjustments within mainstream education. For others, it might involve a more individualised approach.
What matters is that we don't confuse physical attendance with meaningful inclusion, because inclusion isn't simply about having a place in a classroom; it's about being able to participate, feel safe and access an education that meets your needs.
💬 I'd be interested to hear from parents: has your child ever been marked as attending school but struggled to access any meaningful learning?
If you're unsure what educational support or pathways might be available, my free North Somerset Parent Pathways Guide explores SEN Support, EHCPs, alternative provision and other options.
You can find the guide here: https://mrgillmantuition.com/north-somerset-parent-pathways-guide/