03/09/2026
Quality interactions in practice ✨
I don’t record my children at nursery, so when people ask me what quality interactions look like in my classroom, I can’t always show them.
But the best way to learn what good interactions and meaningful talk look like is to see and hear them in practice.
When I was editing this video, I realised just how much talk was naturally happening.
Clara is 22 months old in this video, and you’ll notice that I’m not asking her endless questions or expecting her to constantly give me an answer.
Instead, I’m using some of the same skills I use within my nursery practice:
✨ Commenting on what she is doing
✨ Narrating her play
✨ Watching carefully and following her lead
✨ Giving her eye contact when she looks up at me
✨ Pausing and giving her time to respond
✨ Using her body language and facial expressions to understand what she knows and understands
Quality interactions don’t always mean asking lots of questions.
Sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is watch, listen, comment and respond.
Our children are communicating with us all of the time — we just need to make sure we’re paying attention. 🤍