10/10/2026
🐴💜 WHO IS REALLY BUILDING YOUR CONFIDENCE? 💜
We spend so much time working on our confidence in the saddle, but have you ever stopped to think about how the people around you affect it?
💜 The people who build you up will........
🐴 Celebrate your wins no matter how big or small they are!
🐴 Encourage you without pushing you beyond your limits
🐴 Listen to your fears without judging you
🐴 Remind you how far you've come
🐴 Offer constructive advice while helping you believe in yourself
💔 The people who dont care about confidence will......
🚩 Compare you to other riders
🚩 Laugh at your fears or tell you to “just get on with it.”
🚩 Make you feel silly for taking things slowly
🚩 Focus on your mistakes but never celebrate your progress
🚩 Leave you feeling inadequate or questioning yourself
Remember, constructive criticism can help you grow, but it should never leave you feeling worthless!!
The right people will challenge you kindly, respect your boundaries and want to see you succeed!! 💓💓
💜 Pay attention to how you feel after spending time with someone!!
Do they lift you up or leave you doubting yourself?
You are allowed to walk away from negativity and surround yourself with people who understand and support your journey!!
Confidence isn't about being the bravest rider!
It's about progressing at your own pace, trusting yourself and celebrating every little win!!
🐴 At Confident Rider, we believe in lifting each other up, not comparing or competing!!
👇 Who has genuinely helped build your confidence, and what difference have they made???
Let's celebrate the people who make us believe in ourselves! 💜
For help with all aspects of building lost confidence, our book is a must have! Link below for "I Hope It Rains the confidence manual for the nervous rider " by HU Owen
https://amzn.eu/d/056QIqKl