30/08/2024
“So, what if, instead of thinking about solving your whole life, you just think about adding additional good things. One at a time. Just let your pile of good things grow.”
This quote really sums up what I’ve been exploring with my clients over the past few weeks—how to feel better, happier, and more in control of their lives.
Read till the end for a coaching exercise that will help you start adding those good things today.
I know, the self-development world often tells us to make big moves, take risks, or completely reinvent ourselves to find true happiness. But what if that mindset is exactly why you’re feeling overwhelmed and stuck?
Believe me, the best way to start enjoying your life isn’t about quitting your job, moving to a new city, or finding the perfect relationship.
It’s about adding good things to your life, one at a time.
Imagine your life is like a glass of water that’s a bit too muddy. Instead of dumping it out and starting over, you can slowly add fresh, clean water. With each new drop, the muddiness starts to clear. Little by little, the good things you add will make everything feel clearer and lighter. Refreshing, isn’t it?
Ready to grow your pile of good things and feel better and happier?
Grab a pen and paper, and write down a list of 10 small good things you’re going to add to your life between now and next week. It can be as simple as calling a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while, giving a compliment just to see someone smile, trying a new class at the gym for fun, or adding 10 minutes of mindfulness to your day.
I gave this coaching exercise to one of my clients, and she was amazed at how these seemingly insignificant actions added up to her happiness! Will you try it?
By the way, I’m launching soon ‘10 Days to Be More Present and Enjoy Your Life’. Drop a comment with ‘PRESENT’ or send me a DM to be the first to know all the details!