04/10/2025
Let’s talk about hard things
We really need to be able to talk about Hard things.
👉 Things like climate change, social justice, war, racism, money, politics (although everything is politics).
The BIG stuff! 😬
It’s been a hard time — both on home soil and around the world. Full of hard feelings that can be overwhelming, having to make hard decisions in order to stay aligned with your values. Having to bite your tongue again because it’s never the right time to discuss it.
It’s at challenging times like this that we often shy away from hard conversations for fear of falling out with loved ones, losing our jobs, receiving a backlash online.
And yet, it is often by leaning into these tender conversations about our most devisive and triggering collective themes that help us move through them, and feel less overwhelmed overall.
I’m not talking about active conflicts.
👥 I’m talking about raising conversations with that friend who often says subtly racist things,
👥 your dad who can be surprisingly misogynistic on the down-low,
👥 the mate who takes more flights than a flight attendant,
👥 or the colleague investing in new deep sea oil drilling.
Yes - Societal change is achieved by campaigning and policy change.
Change is also achieved by having all the seemingly inconsequential conversation in everyday life. 👂🏽Conversations that help us better understand why we think what we each think. 🫂Conversations that lead to generative and connected dialogue - that actually connects us rather than separates us further.
I truly believe that we all need this skill now more than ever!
If you want to be able to talk about our most tender and important collective themes then come join me to learn how ⤵️⤵️⤵️
THE SHIFT Salons : > Monthly conversation club for people who give a sh*t.
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Let’s get really good at talking about hard things - together!
Help me spread the word far and wide. Let’s make this a conversation we don’t want to miss. A place to practice together.