06/10/2018
So here it is - most of you have heard at some point in life the story about Rock, Pebbles, and Sand ( if not find it below)
But what is the main point of the story?
So, the story says that in order to be successful in life you have to be able to identify the important things ahead of time and set aside the time you need to work on them.
Yet, can the family be compared to the exam at university or project at work?
I think we should not compare those - instead, we should look at the rocks in our lives as on jars - in fact each day of our lives can represent such a jar.
What is really important is to always remember that each jar is a part of the bigger jar - just like a Matryoshka doll. 🔁
Our tip - have multiple jars and identify rocks in each of them.
The biggest jar - entire life - can have following rocks:
1) family
2) health
3) work
Then 'family jar' can have rocks as follow
1) parents
2) life partner
3) children
4) further family
Remember - rocks are not better or worse - they point areas with the same level of priority. Hence, some of us in life jar will have only 2 rocks - others even 5.
The smaller jar we look at the more concrete representations rocks will have as it is much easier to identify goals for a month than for a decade.
Let us know what do you think about it and how do you plan things - do you use calendars, lists, planners, mind-maps?
We will share with you some thoughts on that too 🔜
Have a good weekend meanwhile and take a look a the story of you haven't heard it before.
"A philosophy professor once stood up before his class with a large empty jar. He filled the jar to the top with large rocks and asked his students if the jar was full.
The students said that yes, the jar was indeed full.
He then added small pebbles to the jar, and gave the jar a bit of a shake so the pebbles could disperse themselves among the larger rocks. Then he asked again, “Is the jar full now?"
The students agreed that the jar was still full.
The professor then poured sand into the jar to fill up any remaining empty space. The students then agreed that the jar was completely full.
The professor went on to explain that the jar represents everything that is in one's life. The rocks are equivalent to the most important projects and things you have going on, such as spending time with your family and maintaining proper health. This means that if the pebbles and the sand were lost, the jar would still be full and your life would still have meaning.
The pebbles represent the things in your life that matter, but that you could live without. The pebbles are certainly things that give your life meaning (such as your job, house, hobbies, and friendships), but they are not critical for you to have a meaningful life. These things often come and go, and are not permanent or essential to your overall well-being.
Finally, the sand represents the remaining filler things in your life, and material possessions. This could be small things such as watching television or running errands. These things don't mean much to your life as a whole, and are likely only done to waste time or get small tasks accomplished.
Hence, if you start with putting sand into the jar, you will not have room for rocks or pebbles. This holds true with the things you let into your life. If you spend all of your time on the small and insignificant things, you will run out of room for the things that are actually important.
In order to have a more effective and efficient life, pay attention to the "rocks," because they are critical to your long-term well-being.
Pay close attention to your health
Spend time with your family
Exercise
Keep in touch with relatives that live far away
While you can always find time to work or do chores, it is important to manage the things that really matter first. The rocks are your priorities, while the other things in your life are represented by pebbles and sand."