The Authentic Man

The Authentic Man The Authentic Man, founded by David Chambers, empowers men to create authentic attraction, build dee

07/09/2026

Seeking freedom is a trap that many a men spends his whole life trying to get deeper into.

Friends, family and dancing.August was a beautiful moth spend on retreat, a festival and at home with great humans.
06/09/2026

Friends, family and dancing.

August was a beautiful moth spend on retreat, a festival and at home with great humans.

04/09/2026

It really is that simple.

Solve these and do it for a while and the s*x will flow back to your relationship, almost guaranteed.

Are you not tired of this cycle repeating?You know already that finding a new woman will not solve it, right?I’ve been w...
03/09/2026

Are you not tired of this cycle repeating?

You know already that finding a new woman will not solve it, right?

I’ve been where you have.

Hoping this next date will be “the one.”

Thinking that if you just find a women that isn’t emotional things will be fine.

Thinking, if I just do that one thing differently it will be ok.

Buts that’s a lie.

There are multiple ways that you destroy relationships.

❌ you don’t express what you feel, want and need and that creates distance
❌you are not really committed. YOu keep waiting for magic signs that she is the one
❌ you sabotage intimacy, instead of building it
❌instead emotions and conflict overwhelm you and you shut down
❌ you are scanning the relationship for what is wrong.

I know all of this because I did all these things. For years on end.

Until I said enough and i committed myself to changing it.

And here I am 7 year into the most healthy relationships.

And helping help into the healthiest relationship of their lives.

Helping them communicate even when they fear judgement and rejection.

Creating safety in their relationships.

Being able to lead the relationship.

And more than anything, be happy in the relationship.

That’s exactly what you want, to feel secure in yourself and create security in your relationship.

DM “RELATE” to find out how you can do it too.

28/08/2026

I feel things I needed to get off my chest

26/08/2026

36% of young men don’t believe anyone will ever fall in love with them.

That’s not a headline. That’s a crisis hiding in plain sight.

When men stop believing they’re loveable, they stop trying. They retreat into screens, synthetic relationships, and quiet resignation. And nobody talks about the skills gap that’s actually driving it.

Dr Madeleine Mason Roantree .madeleineroantree, chartered counselling psychologist and founder of the London Neurofeedback Clinic, joins me to get into all of it.

In this episode, Madeleine and I explore:

👉🏽 Why 36% of Gen Z men believe no one will ever fall in love with them
👉🏽 The real reason dating feels impossible right now (and why it’s not what you think)
👉🏽 The skills gap most men don’t know they have
👉🏽 Why detachment from outcome is the most powerful mindset shift you can make on a date
👉🏽 Why your looks matter far less than you’ve been led to believe

The fairy tale was always a lie. But giving up entirely? That’s the costliest story of all. You have value. The men who get this don’t just date better, they live differently.

If you’ve ever quietly wondered whether you’re just not the kind of man women fall for, this episode will challenge that belief at its root.

🎙To check out the full podcast, head over to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Just look for “The Authentic Man Podcast With David Chambers.”

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16/08/2026

They aren’t easy and they aren’t meant to be.

I feel like we are very quick to call a relationship toxic or abusive when really it’s just hard, uncomfortable and demanding new levels from us.

I’m not anti therapy.Im just anti getting stuck in the intellectual ma********on of it.I’m also anti people that diagnos...
10/08/2026

I’m not anti therapy.

Im just anti getting stuck in the intellectual ma********on of it.

I’m also anti people that diagnose their partners and then beat them with the position of grandiosity they therapy language give them.

✅ Men, DM “RELATE”

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