Elyssa Desai Coaching

We bought a house!!!

I still feel a little in disbelief that it's happened.

In December 2021 I created this poster with 3 things I wanted to achieve/welcome into my life in 2022.

I also added it to my beliefs list for 2022 and would repeat to myself over and over we're living in our dream house. This isn't just something I advise my clients to do, I do this myself as I know there is so much power in it.

When we'd looked at roughly 30 houses and had 2 offers fall through, it was hard to keep the faith but I kept thinking if it's meant to happen it will.

Then when our offer got accepted I panicked, what if I don't like it, what if it's not right, the fear started to come up and I just had to remind myself if it's meant to happen it will and well here we are.

It was the perfect reminder for me to be patient and always keep the faith.

There is still time for your 2022 goals to become your reality, this year isn't over yet!

E x

Ps. Want to get excited about your 2023 goals with me?? I'm hosting a virtual workshop this Sunday to help you do just that plus I will take you through a visualisation to help you let go of what is no longer supporting you plus a confidence & self belief focused hypnotherapy session. Book your place via the link in my bio 💗

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It is not always situations in life that impact you but actually how you interpret it and what you think it means.

This shapes who you are and what you believe you can have and do.

Your mind is creating a reality for you which may not be based on fact.

For example...

A parent was always telling you "I know you can do better at school" which made you feel that you weren't good enough. You carry this feeling of not being good enough throughout the rest of your life and attach it to other situations too making it feel even stronger. Assuming your parents wanted the best for you, it wasn't their intention to make you feel not good enough AND ultimately you are good enough no matter what.

Something I empower my clients with is the knowledgable that they can create their own reality. They can choose their own meanings and interpretations.

Start to become more aware of this difference and see if you can separate events with the interpretation/meaning you are creating.

Change always starts from awareness.

E x

Ps. If this resonates and you would like my support send me a dm and we can chat 💗

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When you’re learning something new it’s not always going to feel comfortable.

But that doesn’t mean you have to avoid it.

There are 4 stages in this journey which you will have been through many times in your life:

1. Unconscious Incompetence - not knowing what you don't know.

2. Conscious Incompetence - aware of what you don't know. This is where it can start to feel hard as it can feel like a big space between where you are now and where you want to be.

3. Conscious Competence - you know how to do the skill/task but you have to consciously think about it.

4. Unconscious Competence - you can perform the task easily and unconsciously.

I would encourage you soo much to try something new because the more you can get used to feeling uncomfortable doing new things, the easier it is going to get.

And this is the place you create the life you dream of because if it wasn't new you would be living it now.

E x

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Are you ready to feel more present and like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders?

Have more clarity and a clear sense of direction?

Feel more motivated and a strong feeling of self-belief?

Join me a month from today, Sunday 4th December at 10am on Zoom for my

REFLECT & REFOCUS WORKSHOP

I'm so excited to host this and get you feeling ready for 2023 before we even hit Jan.

And also there is nothing stopping you starting to work towards some of those exciting goals now!

It is £35 to join and if you can't make it live you will get the recording.

Link in bio to book your place.

Can't wait to see you then!

E x

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Is the person you have learnt to be really who you want to be?

Read that again - Is the person you have learnt to be really who you want to be?

It's so easy to become someone you think society wants you to be, what you think you "should" do, what your family and friends are influencing you to be and do.

Add onto that any protective mechanisms you have created to shield you and stop the world seeing the true you.

Imagine stripping all of that away and letting yourself be you.

Being free to show every part of yourself and having the confidence in yourself to do what you want to do.

How would your life look different?

How would you feel?

If you have 5 minutes today, take a moment to reflect on this or save this post for later when you have the time.

E x

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Such a pleasure to share my thoughts on fear of success with and a dream to be featured in one of my favourite publications. Head to the link in my bio to read the full article. Thank you so much for writing a brilliant piece!

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Hello! I wanted to re-introduce myself for any new faces here 🥰

I'm Elyssa, a certified Mindset Coach and Hypnotherapist.

I help women who feel lost and overwhelmed but know they want more in life, to understand their mindset blocks and the tools to overcome them, so they can confidently achieve anything.

The reason I am so incredibly passionate about this is because I was exactly at that point, feeling so stuck, seeing everyone else achieveing amazing things and I kept thinking what am I doing with my life.

I have come so far since then and am so proud to say I now do this full time since April.

I think this year has been my best year of life so far! And I'm so grateful to have this community on here. Every like, share and comment is always so appreciated so thank you!

I hope you find what I share helpful and if you ever have any questions please do pop me over a dm.

Lots of love, E x

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If I hadn't allowed myself to change I would probably still be working in HR and Recruitment, in a job which didn't really fulfill me, coasting through life, not feeling completely happy.

Yes it can feel scary to change but isn't not allowing yourself to change even scarier?

Instead of focusing on the fear, focus on how good it is going to feel when you shift that belief, you change a habit or you move into doing someting you love.

Trust me it is so worth it.

If you're ready for change and you would like my support, send me a dm and we can set up a discovery call to chat more.

E x

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Do you ever say "I can't do X" or "I'm not an X person"?

We so often say it, just a throw away comment we don't think means a lot.

But by saying it we keep ourselves in a box, rather than allowing ourselves to grow and change.

We limit ourselves to who we are right now rather than opening oursleves up to who we can be and what we can do.

This is such a small mindset shift but by saying "I'm choosing not to do X right now" or "X is not a priority for me at the moment", it's opening up so many more possibilities for you.

I used to say "I'm not a social media person" and how wrong I was! I put myself in a box based on how I felt at that time rather than how I wanted to feel and what I wanted to do. As soon as I started to say "I can be a social media person if I want to", I felt more free to explore that and well here I am.

JOURNAL PROMPT - How are you limiting yourself?

✨Know that you can achieve even more than you can even dream of.✨

E x

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It never feels good does it? When you get stuck comparing yourself, how well they’re doing compared to you, how happy they are compared to you, how successful they are compared to you.

If you’re falling into the comparison trap, I want you to think about how to shift the focus back to you!

Swipe for a few suggestions 💗

Save this for whenever you need a lil reminder.

E x

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