10/09/2026
Su***de Prevention Week.
We need to have an uncomfortable conversation about su***de in our Romany community.
Aunties. Uncles. Elders. Families.
We have a responsibility for the words we use and the judgement we place on our young people.
“What will people say?”
“Think about the family.”
“You’re bringing shame.”
“Why are you behaving like that?”
And now there is another way people can be hurt — social media.
A comment. A post. A screenshot. Public humiliation. Gossip. Piling on. Using social media to shame, expose or hurt someone can cause real damage.
We cannot keep calling it “just words” when someone is already struggling.
Our young people are watching us.
They need guidance, but they also need compassion. They need to know they can come to us when they are struggling without being judged, shamed or made to feel like a disappointment.
Our elders have a responsibility to protect the next generation — not add another weight to what they are already carrying.
We can be proud of who we are, proud of our culture and still have the courage to challenge behaviour within our own community that is hurting our young people.
We need to look after our own.
Not when it’s too late.
While they are still here. ❤️
***dePreventionWeek