Adularia Therapies and Consultancy

Adularia Therapies and Consultancy You will learn the importance of maintaining a balanced Well-being which encompasses the Mental, Emotional and Physical. We work in Care and the community.

You will gain understanding in behaviours that don’t serve you well and how to change that.

08/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE OR BOTH?

Perhaps the answer isn’t choosing whether you are internally or externally referenced.

Perhaps it is learning to recognise when each can be useful.

Your own experience, judgement and values matter. So does information that exists outside your own experience.

The skill is knowing how to bring those things together gathering information without surrendering your judgement, and trusting yourself without becoming closed to information you don’t yet have.

Looking outside yourself can expand your understanding.
Looking within can help you decide what that understanding means for you.

That is where informed choice becomes more than simply having information.

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INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE OR BOTH?Perhaps the answer isn’t choosing whether you are internally or externally refere...
08/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE OR BOTH?

Perhaps the answer isn’t choosing whether you are internally or externally referenced.

Perhaps it is learning to recognise when each can be useful.

Your own experience, judgement and values matter. So does information that exists outside your own experience.

The skill is knowing how to bring those things together gathering information without surrendering your judgement, and trusting yourself without becoming closed to information you don’t yet have.

Looking outside yourself can expand your understanding.
Looking within can help you decide what that understanding means for you.

That is where informed choice becomes more than simply having information.

SelfAwareness Perspective PersonalResponsibility ConsciousChoice CriticalThinking PersonalGrowth LifeChoices MindfulPractitioner ForwardFocusedChange TravelsWithPower BeverlyPower

07/10/2026

WHEN WE IMPACT ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE: You may never know your own impact!

We often measure achievement by what we can see, name or prove but some of our most meaningful achievements happen quietly, through the impact we have on other people.

A word, a moment of support, a difficult conversation, or simply being there can influence someone’s life in ways we may never fully know.

You may have already made a difference far greater than you realise.

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WHEN WE IMPACT ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE: You may never know your own impact!We often measure achievement by what we can see,...
07/10/2026

WHEN WE IMPACT ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE: You may never know your own impact!

We often measure achievement by what we can see, name or prove but some of our most meaningful achievements happen quietly, through the impact we have on other people.

A word, a moment of support, a difficult conversation, or simply being there can influence someone’s life in ways we may never fully know.

You may have already made a difference far greater than you realise.

PositiveImpact HelpingOthers LifeExperience ForwardFocusedChange MindfulPractitioner CoachingServices BeverlyPower TravelsWithPower

05/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS BECOME YOUR DECISIONS

Seeking information, advice and different perspectives can be an important part of making an informed choice.

But there is a difference between gathering information and handing over your judgement.

Our own experience remains valuable. New information needs to be understood, questioned and integrated with our circumstances, values and existing knowledge before it can genuinely contribute to an informed decision.

When we don’t do that, we can end up making someone else’s interpretation our decision and if the outcome isn’t what we hoped for, potentially feeling powerless or blaming the person whose advice we followed.

The goal isn’t to reject external advice.
It is to learn from it without giving away ownership of your choice.

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INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS BECOME YOUR DECISIONSSeeking information, advice and differ...
05/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS BECOME YOUR DECISIONS

Seeking information, advice and different perspectives can be an important part of making an informed choice.

But there is a difference between gathering information and handing over your judgement.

Our own experience remains valuable. New information needs to be understood, questioned and integrated with our circumstances, values and existing knowledge before it can genuinely contribute to an informed decision.

When we don’t do that, we can end up making someone else’s interpretation our decision and if the outcome isn’t what we hoped for, potentially feeling powerless or blaming the person whose advice we followed.

The goal isn’t to reject external advice.
It is to learn from it without giving away ownership of your choice.

PersonalResponsibility SelfAwareness LifeExperience Perspective CriticalThinking ConsciousChoice PersonalGrowth EmpoweredChoices HealthyBoundaries MindfulPractitioner ForwardFocusedChange TravelsWithPower BeverlyPower

04/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN YOU LOOK OUTSIDE YOURSELF

Looking beyond our own experience can expand what we see.

Information, perspectives and experience can help us understand more without taking away our ability to think, evaluate and decide for ourselves.

Look beyond.
Evaluate.
Return to yourself.

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INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN YOU LOOK OUTSIDE YOURSELFLooking beyond our own experience can expand what we see.I...
04/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN YOU LOOK OUTSIDE YOURSELF

Looking beyond our own experience can expand what we see.

Information, perspectives and experience can help us understand more without taking away our ability to think, evaluate and decide for ourselves.

Look beyond.
Evaluate.
Return to yourself.

DecisionMaking SelfAwareness PersonalGrowth ForwardFocusedChange TheMindfulPractitioner TravelsWithPower

03/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE:
WHEN YOU LOOK OUTSIDE YOURSELF

Sometimes we can become so familiar with our own perspective that we don’t notice what sits beyond it.

Looking outside ourselves can introduce information, experience, knowledge and perspectives that we may not have considered.

But external reference isn’t about handing our decisions to somebody else.

Other people’s experiences are not our experiences. Their opinions are not automatically facts. Good intentions don’t necessarily mean good guidance.

The value comes from being willing to look beyond ourselves, evaluate what we find, and then return to our own judgement.

External information can expand your perspective without replacing your choice.

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INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE BECOMES THE LIMITOur experience shapes how we see things, but ...
02/10/2026

INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL REFERENCE: WHEN YOUR OWN PERSPECTIVE BECOMES THE LIMIT

Our experience shapes how we see things, but relying only on what we already know can limit what we notice. Staying curious and considering other perspectives can expand our view without taking away our own judgement.

What might I be missing?

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