13/12/2022
Most parents will tell you that one of their greatest frustrations is that their kids don’t listen. Inevitably at these times, parents feel disrespected. And what happens next is that frustration kicks in, and so in order to solicit some kind of action, we raise our voices, maybe even shout, repeat ourselves over and over again, until everybody is tense and angry.
Needless to say, this kind of parenting strategy rarely works out well.
In fact, all that seems to happen, as a result, is that we end up raising kids who shout when things don’t go their way. Because that’s the behaviour we’ve modelled ourselves.
Children are wonderful mirrors.
The vitality and happiness of our relationships come from the way we interact with each other … and this starts with the way we communicate.
None of us is ‘taught’ to be parents – sure we read books, we talk to other parents, we sometimes go to classes and we even search the internet for solutions! But there are some tricks of the trade, according to nannies in finding non-argumentative ways to resolve conflict and to get your children to listen.
A nanny’s role includes being an educator, playmate and occasional disciplinarian. They are usually qualified. This means they learn some child psychology and of course, ongoing experience working with children exposes them to all sorts of situations!
According to nannies and childcare workers, there are solutions that don’t involve getting annoyed, threatening and shouting.
And so here are some phrases that you can use with kids of all ages, to smooth out those moments when you feel like they’re tuning you out.
Fore tips on how to handle this situation, read our blog:https://www.babyandchild.care/when-your-kids-dont-listen/