16/03/2026
ā Top tips for helping children to develop healthy eating habits. (Part 2) ā
In the last post, we explored how role modelling, choice and familiarity help children to eat healthily.
So what else works, according to research...?
āļø Be neutral. Labelling some foods (generally high in salt, fat or sugar) ābadā or a ātreatā makes little brains crave it more, because they see it as āspecialā or of higher status. Messages should instead be about balance.
Using food as a punishment (āif you donāt eat all your meal, youāll get no pudding!ā) or reward (ābe good and youāll get a chocolateā) makes this even worse. In extreme circumstances, the emotional guilt and/or reward become wrapped up in food choices, and canĀ lead to disordered eating, later in life.
I donāt ban sweets and chocolate with my children because that would only make them want it more. Instead, I help them decide on a responsible amount, and I donāt let them eat sweet things after dinner because āthey give you lots of energy, and itāll soon beĀ time to sleepā. When we go to the supermarket together, I also let them choose something both from the snack aisle and the fruit aisle, giving them equal āspecialnessā.
š Make food fun. Some books say exploring food outside of mealtimes can build familiarity ā e.g. potato printing, āguess the vegetableā, carving pumpkins. Iāve also found that little games can help at the dinner table, like āwhich food makes the biggest crunchā.Ā My eldest only tried red pepper and celery because of this contest.
š³ Cook with them. Cooking, and growing, food is magic to children. Many studies have shown that children are more likely to try food that they have grown or prepared themselves.
I can vouch for this šÆ. They donāt always come back for more, but they always tryĀ something theyāve grown or made themselves. My 5-year-old's most varied meal is the homemade pizza we create together once a fortnight. Through trying tiny amounts of things, she now adds artichoke, capers, olives and even anchovies to hers! This is the same child who won't even lick a piece of broccoli...
N.B. I am not a dietitian. If you are worried about your childās eating, talk to your GP.