14/08/2025
Advice for parents on results day
As a parent, what’s the best way for you to approach a slightly (or even massively) disappointing exam results day? Well, there are several positive ways to get your child’s plans back on track.
The key to defeating the post-exam blues is reminding them of what their goals were, before those not-ideal results came in.
For example, a visit to a university that offers the courses they want to do can be very inspiring.
So can a meeting with an adult who’s doing whatever it is your child wants to do professionally.
You may even know someone – a vet, a doctor, a physiotherapist – who went through the whole exam retakes process and succeeded (and doesn’t mind talking about it!).
The key thing to remember is that there’s a LOT of help available.
Here are my top 3 relatively cheap resources to help turn around your Teens A levels:
1 - 'Why learning fails and what to do about it' by Alex Quigley. A short, jargon free book which does exactly what the title claims.
2 -'The student mindset - A 30 item toolkit for anyone learning anything'- by Steve Oakes and Martin Griffiths. Engaging, evidence based activities to get motivated, get organised, get learning and get back on the road to exam success.
3 - 'A parent's guide to the science of learning' - by Edward Watson and Bradley Busch. Jargon free, bite size snippets on how to turn around the doom train, divided into tips for memory, tips for mindset, resilience and motivation, tips for self regulation, tips for students, tips for parents, and tips for overcoming the wool students pull over their own eyes.
Hope this is useful.