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🚨 BIG NEWS COMING STRAIGHT FROM THE STATES! 🚨
There’s a major SHIFT happening right now… and it’s going to open a LOT of people’s eyes 👀💥

You’re going to want to hear me talk about it!
I’ll be live on Radio WM at 10am (or 10:15am) giving my expert perspective on exactly what this means and how I can help.

And yes — that means I’m on the radio TWICE today!
Don’t forget my own Better Boundaries show at 1pm on and with the absolutely incredible Shakti Sundari 💗 We’re diving deep into the manosphere, conscious relationships, and what men & women really want from love.
Double the real talk. Double the wisdom. One packed day you don’t want to miss!
🎧 Tune in & let’s make this the most engaged day yet!

Tell me in the comments: What shift do YOU think is coming? 👇
How to catch both:
• Radio WM → 10 / 10:15am
• Vibe25 at 1pm → www.Vibe25radio.com or just ask Alexa for “Vibe 25”
Let’s open some eyes together today! 💖✨

🌟 UK blew £531 MILLION on OnlyFans in 2025… and it’s NOT “empowerment.” It’s subscription p**n with a paywall.
According to OnlyGuider’s 2025 Wrapped report, Brits dropped £78k per 10,000 people — London alone hit £71.3M.
This isn’t fitness tips or “connection.” It’s paid intimacy that fuels addiction, loneliness, distorted expectations, and objectification.
For kids? Most see p**n by 12 — learning “s*x” from violent, non-consensual content before any healthy conversation.
At Better Boundaries Online we’re done with simulated screen s*x replacing real human connection. We teach consent, realistic expectations & genuine intimacy that actually fills you up.
The numbers are in. Real change is possible.
Parents & educators — what are YOU doing? Drop thoughts below or DM for support 💛
Full report 👉 https://onlyguider.com/blog/onlyfans-wrapped-2025/
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🌟 UK Fans Spent £531 Million on OnlyFans in 2025 And It’s Not “Empowerment.” It’s Subscription P**n With a Paywall.

This new data just dropped… and it’s a wake-up call for the UK.
According to OnlyGuider’s OnlyFans Wrapped 2025 report, British fans spent £531 million on the platform last year😳

That’s a national average of £78,478 spent for every 10,000 people.
London alone? £71.3 million.

Full report here 👉 https://onlyguider.com/blog/onlyfans-wrapped-2025/

OnlyFans is a UK company. This money is being spent right here, in our communities.
And here’s the part no one wants to say out loud: the vast majority of that revenue comes from s*xually explicit content. It’s not fitness tips or cooking classes. It’s subscription based p**nography dressed up as “personal connection.”😠

You don’t just watch. You message. You tip. You request custom content. It creates a paid illusion of intimacy and research shows that parasocial hook makes it far more addictive and damaging than traditional p**n!!!!

Decades of studies link p**nography use,to rising depression, anxiety, loneliness, erectile dysfunction, and shattered relationship satisfaction. It warps s*xual expectations, normalises objectification, and quietly erodes real empathy and consent.

For our young people? The TikTok “easy money” fantasy is everywhere ,but the truth is earnings are brutally concentrated in the top 1%. Most creators earn far less, and many former performers speak openly about the psychological trauma, coercion, and permanent digital footprint that follows them for life.

Most UK kids are exposed to p**n by age 12. By their teens, 75% of boys and 70% of girls have seen it often before one single healthy conversation about s*x. Millions are learning what “normal” intimacy looks like from violent, degrading, non-consensual content.
This isn’t shame. This is evidence.
At Better Boundaries Online we’re done watching simulated connection replace the real thing. We teach people how to choose s*x and relationships that actually fill them up not leave them lonelier and emptier after the subscription ends.
The numbers are in. The impact is clear. The choice is ours.
If you or someone you love is struggling with p**n use, unwanted subscriptions, or the fallout in your relationship real, research backed support exists. Change is possible. Healing is possible.
Let’s build a UK where real love, authentic connection, and true consent win.
Parents, educators , what are you guys doing about this?

Drop your thoughts below. Let’s talk solutions 👇or reach out for a conversation as to how I can help ☺️💛⭐️💫
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🤩It’s Thursday, which means it’s RADIO DAY! 🎙️ how exciting 😆

If you’re ready for some real talk vibes, tune into my show “Better Boundaries” today at 1pm On
Whether you’re juggling work calls or sneaking in a lunch break, you can listen right on your phone at www.Vibe25radio.com. Got an Alexa? Just say, “Alexa, play Vibe25 Radio” – easy peasy! 📻
Today, we’re diving into that oh-so-awkward (but super important) chat: How to talk to your children about s*x/relationships to keep them safe in a crazy world ! 😎

I’ll be sharing handy tips, script ideas to make it less cringy, busting common myths, and even opening up a “WhatsApp Your Questions” segment. Got a burning Q? Fire it my way during the show number is on the website I will also announce on air.

If you’re a parent navigating this wild world, this episode’s got your back. Let’s make those convos empowering, trauma informed and protective 💪👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 thank you to
See you on air! 🎙️ Who’s tuning in? Drop a 👍 below!

How safe are your children online ?

It’s Online safety day @ Better Boundaries Online, we’re dedicated to educating and protecting young people from the dangers of online s*xual content. Our founder, Larissa Astara Gray, has a clear mission: to make sure s*x is safe in every way, empowering young voices to foster safe, consensual, and respectful s*xual interactions.
We’re hugely delighted to share this article where Larissa is featured on LBC, amplifying our shared goal and mission to safeguard as many young lives as possible.

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When p**n becomes the teacher: Why we need to take the power out of p**nography | LBC “Young people are seeing it online and then acting it out themselves”

My vision is to Make Sure S*x is Safe in Everyway to protect and educate young people, parents and teachers to feel more comfortable, safe and empowered around teaching this vital subject. We are in a world where they are bombarded by toxic images/ videos/influencers online giving them seriously messed up and wrong messages it’s time to take our power back 👊listen in to S*x Unsilenced Thursdays at 1pm on

🌟 WOW 😮 What an incredible surprise! 🌟
I just had my live pilot “S*x unsilenced” on Vibe25 Radio – and I genuinely wasn’t expecting to go on air that day!
One minute I was preparing behind the scenes, and the next they said:
“You’re live in five minutes!”
With zero time to overthink, I jumped straight in, covered a lot of ground, and shared ideas that hopefully got people thinking. The energy was electric, it just flowed, and I had an absolute blast! Loved it 😻
I’m now really excited about the possibility of hosting my own weekly radio show, where I can dive much deeper into the topics I’m passionate about.
A huge thank you to the wonderful team at Vibe25 Radio for this amazing opportunity. The vibe there is exactly as the name suggests – warm, positive, and full of life. 🩷💚💛💙💜
Grateful doesn’t even begin to cover it. What a fun, memorable experience!
Have you ever been thrown in the deep end like that… and it turned out brilliantly? Drop your stories in the comments – I’d love to hear them! 👇
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Thank You for Participating in P**n Education Awareness Week!

Your support, engagement, and willingness to have important conversations make a real difference. Together, we’ve helped raise awareness, challenge harmful narratives, and prioritise young people’s safety online.

Missed PEA Week? Don't worry! Our five lesson plans and resource packages are available with the subscription at any point, so you can integrate the resources into your timetable.

https://betterboundaries.co.uk/p**n-education-awareness-week/

🎙️⭐️💫 Day Five of P**n Education Awareness Week The Ethical Side and the Hidden Human Crimes

For our final day , I’m honored to speak to Jewell Baraka a survivor who was trafficked into hardcore p**n at just 14. Her story is heartbreaking, but it’s a stark reality we must expose. Through her advocacy, she brings it back to humanity—reminding us that there are real people, real humans, just like our mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters, being harmed every day.

This episode challenges us all : do we want to consume if this is what we could be engaging in?
Listen now and join the conversation on ethical awareness.
Her book Link is in the comments
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For the final day of P**n Education Awareness Week, we’re addressing the ethical dilemmas and hidden crimes linked to p**nography.

From non-consensual content and image abuse, to trafficking and exploitation. Our final lesson builds on the learning of the darker side to p**nography, and the ethics of viewing.

We'll be interviewing Jewell Baraka, the author of 'Coming of Age on a P**n Set' to discuss the code of ethics on many p**n sets and how they impact performers.

Subscribe to Better Boundaries Online for guidance on safeguarding, consent, and ethical awareness — empowering young people to protect themselves and others in the digital world.

👉 https://betterboundaries.co.uk/p**n-education-awareness-week/

For Day 4 of P**n Education Awareness Week, we’re examining how social media platforms increase exposure to p**nographic and s*xualised content.

Through algorithms, private messaging, and accidental exposure, young people are encountering explicit material earlier and more frequently than ever before.

We'll be speaking with Rachel McGillion-Fee, a social media specialist who's worked with over 1000 students, empowering them around safe social media and phone use . We talk about algorithms, s*xtortion prevention and the regrets of OnlyFans’ creators.

Subscribe to Better Boundaries Online to take part in lessons that support digital boundaries, media literacy, and safer online habits — helping young people navigate social platforms with confidence and awareness.

👉 https://betterboundaries.co.uk/p**n-education-awareness-week/

🎙️ Day 4 of P**n Education Awareness Week- Social Media’s Roll algorithms, grooming and s*xtortion prevention and fake promises/ regrets of only fans

Spotlighting Rachael McGillion-Fee, a Digital Educator from Digitally Sound. Through her work with the charity Positive Social, she’s spoken to thousands of students. Her work with Digitally Sound empowers families, educators, and young people to navigate digital spaces safely—covering algorithms, risks, and prevention strategies and so much more.

Tune in to our podcast for her insights on empowering the next gen!
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