03/09/2024
A little over two years ago, in a tiny village out in the countryside of Portugal, I met someone who would change my life in the most profound ways.
I was living my best life as a digital nomad and decided to stay at Traditional Dream Factory for 3 months to get my nature battery filled up and live in community.
Then I saw her. She was hard to overlook. Brown skin, shaved head and a bright red coat with weird shapes on it.
๐พ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐?
Wellโฆ it didnโt take too long to find out because she has such an open heart that she offered that if I or some of the other people at TDF would ever be in Lisbon she would love to have us stay at her apartment (๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐๐ก ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐จ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ค๐ฒ๐๐ซ๐!!) for a night.
It didnโt take too long for me to take her up on that offer and we got to know each other more.
As a token of my appreciation, I gifted her a coaching session, which turned out to be very impactful. (๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ตโ๐ด ๐ธ๐ฉ๐บ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ง๐ช๐ญ๐ฆ.)
I learned that she came from the US with her former partner and their dog, during the pandemic, to move to Portugal and follow her dreams.
I found out she is working around 20h a week, earning way over 100k per year doing organizational development consulting work.
Oh and she used to play professional volleyball (which is one of my favorite sports too!)
๐พ๐ถ๐พ! ๐พ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐?
After weโd just spent a few more days together she asked me if I wanted to join a camp for a burner festival in Spain.
๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐? ๐บ๐๐๐๐
๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐!
But all that effort going to Spain for not even a week-long festival?
So I asked her if she wanted to rent an Airbnb somewhere close to the festival in the middle of nowhere to live and work together for 2 weeks.
She said yes and this is when we started to fall in love.
A few months later I was in Brazil. When I asked her, she didnโt hesitate and flew over to spend time with me.
We had this epic house right at the beach. And in this houseโฆ (continue in comments)โฌ๏ธ