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If you are a lion and the only food available is grass, eat it! Don’t say I am too high to eat grass. Remember, a living dog is better than a dead lion-Ecclesiastes 9:4. Eat grass until you find meat. When meat comes, clean your mouth as if you did not eat grass. Do not be too proud to approach your junior in school if he is now successful and in a position to help you. You will not die if your younger siblings help you with start up capital for your business. Swallow your pride so you can swallow good food!

STRONG MESSAGE FOR SINGLE LADIES.

Please learn your lesson and stop saying this,

He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him😭😭".

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing.

That you drank porridge with him, is because you yourself was broke if not, you would have prepared a better food.

That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that...

About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

The only reason why you feel hurt and left out is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up at night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it, you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammer. While he was investing in his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans.

A young guy is struggling to survive, struggling to make it but you will come in form of girlfriend to ask him money for saloon, shoes, this that and even pads thereby spending what he's supposed to be saving and at the end, you wailed on how he used you, on how you suffered with him..

How??
Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke"

what comes to my mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me". ( I know, my mind is crazy).

My point my dearest sisters is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success, then please don't play victim.

Times are changing, men are no longer the only ones Winning bread. Women are now bread winners too. So while you are performing wife duties to a single man, please think of your own entity.

S*x is not a love
Love is not s*x ..

©Fran Cis Nyamenya

HOW TO BE A WISE WOMAN...

1. A wise woman has secrets:
You can't be too naked with your love, social or spiritual life and expect dignity. Not everyone should know what you are going through. Be a self-contained lady.

2. A wise woman has surprises:
There is beauty in a surprise. Don't run around announcing things that are not yet..... It only destroys their beauty. And when they fail you will suffer unnecessary shame. Be a self-controlled lady.

3. A wise woman is unpredictable :
People should know there is both yes and no in your mouth. Your moves and words shouldn't be too obvious. Be a deep lady.

4. A wise woman has meaningful connections :
You can't be a friend to everyone and have focus. You can't be the organiser in every social activity and be a productive woman. Love all but a close friend of a few!

5. A wise woman does less of a girl talk :
You can't have too much talk and work at the same time. Cheap talks only lead to empty gossips! A gossiping woman is a shallow woman.

6. A wise woman has time for herself :
You can't understand yourself better until you create time for yourself.
Create time to see your weaknesses and work on them. Have time for self correction lady.

7. A wise woman interacts with God:
You cannot have the highest level of wisdom until you interact with its source. Rare breeds of women are found here.... at the feet of JESUS.

Give God time lady!!

God bless all the women
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S*X EDUCATION.
TO WOMEN.

S*x is not all about making children, you must be different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't allow your husband to ask for s*x. You must be a different woman to your husband every time.
There must be no timetable for s*x, give him what he want, loose influence over your husband. Be part of your husband plans. Don't have too many children, u wanna sell them?Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.
When a man is s*xually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying is s*x food? Yes it is food. Give them make dem chop.
As a wife try to invest on yourself so that you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his prayer warrior, so that you will not be force to pray at the end of your life.
Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not your working machine. Iron sharpen iron, try to reciprocate. You are mean to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally, through thick and thin. You are a home builder, women needs wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too out spoken, know when to talk, listen and to be quiet. Never tell him if not for the children, remember you have known him before the children. Pamper him, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back, don't be too holy to kiss in the public, he is your husband for crying out loud. Be romantic jooo, it is good for the heart.
Some people are not happy that you are in that marriage, prove them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you are holding him.
Don't look 50 when you are still 40, it drives men crazy.

TO MEN

Don't take your wife for granted. Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her, financially. Make her feel like your woman and always encourage her. Surprise her sometimes with gift and also pray for her.

God bless you and your marriage.

Remain bless
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So important
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Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:31-32

In life, people behave in ways that can offend us. Holding a grudge might feel natural, but God's word encourages us to forgive.
Forgiveness will help you rediscover a new state of mind. Though it doesn't remove your past but you may create a better future.
Our Lord Jesus gives us the perfect example of forgiveness. While in agony on the cross, He called out, Father forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing. Jesus asks us to model our forgiveness to others on the way God has forgiven us, forgiveness not by seven times, but seventy seven.
We may find it hard to forgive others, but God's word encourages us to show others the same grace our Heavenly Father has given us.

Prayer: Lord Jesus I repent and turn from my sin. Help me, and heal my heart to forgive those who wrong me. I ask you to come into my life and be my Lord and Saviour, Amen.

©Apostle OC Merciful