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Deanna j Temple Radiant Love Coach, 2210 Cornwall Ave Vancouver, Vancouver, BC (2026)

08/28/2025

She sat across from me with tears in her eyes, and the words tumbled out: “It feels like I’ve been pinned down my whole life. Like I can’t get out.”

At first, it looked like we were talking about weight gain. Or the sting of an ex suddenly marrying someone else. But when we slowed down and listened to her body, something much deeper emerged.

What she was really carrying was a lifetime of being told—directly and indirectly—that she wasn’t enough.

A childhood marked by inconsistency, lack of safety, invalidation, and never quite feeling safe to be fully loved.

So we went there. Into the memory. Into the scared little girl in her bedroom. And she looked at that child and told her: “You are loved. You never deserved this. You are powerful.”

The shift was undeniable. Her breath softened. Her shoulders released. And a radiant truth rose up:

✨ I deserve safe, secure, lasting love.
✨ I am powerful.
✨ I get to choose what I will no longer accept.

By the end of our session, she wasn’t just processing the past—she was writing her own manifesto for the future. A line in the sand: This is who I am, this is what I tolerate, and this is how I love myself first.

These are the moments I live for as a coach. Not the surface breakthroughs, but the soul-deep reclamations where a woman remembers her worth and steps into it fully. 💫

If this stirs something in you, let’s talk. You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of old wounds.

06/20/2025

🌸 What You Gained from the Masterclass 🌸

A sacred space to reflect
You stepped out of your daily roles and into a container where your inner world was deeply seen, honored, and explored.

Guided emotional connection
Through powerful visualizations and journaling, you dropped into your body, met your emotions with compassion, and reconnected with the version of you who’s worthy of extraordinary love.

Breakthrough insights into unconscious blocks
You uncovered beliefs like “I’m too much,” “Dating is exhausting,” “I might have to settle,” and “Maybe I’m just not lovable”—and learned that these stories are not your truth.

Radiant Love Archetype discovery
You identified your unique archetype (like The Giver, The Flame Chaser, The Romantic Burnout) and saw that your patterns aren’t flaws—they’re invitations to heal and receive love differently.

New context for your love life
With real-world stats and client stories, you discovered that what you’re facing isn’t personal failure—it’s a shared experience, and it can be transformed.

Hope grounded in truth
You saw real, fast transformations (like Jen meeting and marrying her partner during the program, or Michelle finding peace, self-trust, and joy after heartbreak) that reminded you: This is possible for you, too.

A reminder that YOU are the medicine
You don’t need to be fixed. You don’t need to wait. You simply need to say yes to yourself.

06/20/2025

✨ What if clarity didn’t come from “doing more”…
but from finally getting honest about what you really want?

Michele came to me at a crossroads. She wasn’t lost—she was ready.

Ready to feel empowered.

Ready to make decisions from alignment, not pressure.

Ready to reconnect to her True Radiance.

This is the kind of shift we create together.

And if you’re craving that too—join me for the Summer Love Masterclass, where we’ll explore the deeper work of becoming magnetic to the love, life, and connection you deserve. 💫

🎥 It’s free. It’s powerful. It’s happening now.
Link in bio to sign up and watch the replay 💕

01/30/2025

Are you a professional avoider?

Be honest: Are you doing everything you can to avoid feeling the hurt and discomfort?

One of my clients once jokingly called herself that, and we both had a good laugh. But behind that laughter, there was something real. She was throwing herself into dates, one after another, looking polished and put together on the outside. But I couldn’t help but get curious. What was the real reason behind all those plans? Was she simply ready to move forward, or was she avoiding something deeper?

The truth came out—she was avoiding. After 25 years of marriage and a recent divorce that blindsided her, she was still carrying immense pain. She didn’t want to sit with it. She didn’t want to feel the ache of betrayal or the sting of loneliness. Instead, she wanted to get dressed up, go out, and prove to herself and the world that she was okay.

And I get it. She didn’t want to be the woman who was still hurting. She wanted to be the woman who had it all together, living her best life. But underneath the glam and the social calendar, she was running—running from herself, running from her emotions.

When we dug deeper, the raw truth surfaced. She was hurt. Deeply hurt. Her husband’s affair had shattered her trust and sense of safety. She felt betrayed in a way that rocked her to her core. And while she was out having fun, she admitted that she wasn’t showing up with integrity. She wasn’t worried about whether she hurt the feelings of the men she dated because, in truth, she was still trying to patch over her own wounds.

Avoidance can feel like a temporary fix—a distraction, a reprieve. But the feelings we avoid don’t disappear; they wait. And when we’re not careful, they resurface at the most inconvenient moments. What happens when someone amazing comes along, and you find yourself unable to trust or fully open your heart because the old pain hasn’t been resolved?

Continued in comments

01/22/2025

What my client say 💞

01/17/2025

Is Anxiety Around Text Messages in Dating an Issue ?

Do you ever feel anxious when someone hasn’t texted you back?

If you’ve taken an attachment style quiz and discovered you identify as having an anxious attachment style, you might believe this is something you’re stuck with forever.
Here’s the truth: you can change your attachment style.
With the right support and an inside-out approach, you can absolutely shift from an anxious attachment style to feeling securely attached in your relationships.

Our attachment styles begin forming the moment we experience connection with our caregivers. For example, when a baby starts feeding, they look to their mother’s face for comfort and reassurance. If the mother is anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally distant—even if she loves her baby deeply—her expression can appear different to that baby.
Imagine if your mother was carrying the weight of supporting a family on her own, or was navigating stress and survival. Her emotional availability may have been impacted, and as a child, you could have internalized a feeling of disconnection.
But here’s the hopeful part: attachment styles aren’t fixed.

You can rewire how you associate with love by revisiting those early experiences with compassion and forgiveness. Self-compassion is one of the most powerful tools for creating safety within yourself, opening you up to receiving healthy, secure love.

If you identify as anxiously attached and desire to shift into a secure, trusting connection with yourself and others, let’s chat. I’d love to support you on this journey so that your nervous system can truly feel safe receiving the love you deserve.

If you found this article helpful, please share. If you’d like to explore working together in a 1:1 setting, I offer a complimentary consultation call, and a risk free 90 minute clarity session so we can come up with a clear roadmap and plan of our work together. You can book directly on my website www.radiantlovecoach.com

Anxiety, anxiousattachment, divorce, dating

01/15/2025

I’m in this profession because I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE!

12/13/2024

I read a post that 90% of relationships are trauma bonds and codependency.

Ouch.

That’s a high statistic.

Not sure that’s the best frame to hold if the goal is healthy relationships.

Here’s something to consider… Instead of framing 90% of relationships as trauma bonds, let’s recognize that as humans, we naturally seek homeostasis – a state of balance. Much of this happens unconsciously.

However, when we consciously focus on our essence and continue to “do the work” to reconnect with who we truly are, we can transform these relationship dynamics.

Relationships are our greatest teachers.

They shine a light on patterns and tendencies we might not even notice when we’re single because being single often feels safer, with less deep intimacy to challenge us.

That’s not to say single people don’t experience intimacy. What I mean is that in a committed, one-on-one relationship – especially when you’re living together – it’s harder to hide those patterns and parts of yourself. Your family dynamics, old tendencies, and unresolved wounds will inevitably surface.

And that’s the gift: relationships offer us the opportunity to address, heal, and grow.

Be gentle with yourself and remember optimism - the glass is half fill is always going to be encouraging!

Special thanks to my Joy Community for inspiring this post.

11/08/2024

To the women who dream of becoming mothers or finding lifelong love, don’t let fear cloud your path or pull you away from trusting your heart. Speaking as someone who, at 37, felt the pressure to control my future as a mother, I chose to undergo an IVF cycle—not from infertility, but from a need to feel secure. Society and the media had told me that after 35, fertility declines, that eggs become fewer and quality diminishes. This messaging planted seeds of doubt in my mind and body, subtly weakening my innate trust in the magic of creating life.

At the time, I believed I was making an “informed choice” based on expert advice. But without realizing it, I handed over my power. Rather than nurturing an open heart, ready to receive life’s miracles, I shrank my vision, imposing limits on what was possible. Unintentionally, I built walls around the very miracles I longed to welcome into my life.

This experience has taught me so much. If there’s something you desire, open yourself fully to it. Let go of control and step into a place of true openness—ready to receive without limits or expectations. It’s like standing on top of a mountain, feeling the vast unknown with all its infinite possibilities. This can be applied to any area of your life - your relationship with your children, your spouse, your desire to get married and have a family, to leave your current job and follow your passion, the list goes on and on.

I once heard a quote: We are either growing or shrinking; we never stay the same. Now, I see it as we are either fully trusting and opening, or we are closing. I am choosing to trust and open.

Which one will you choose?

Deanna j Temple Radiant Love Coach

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