04/15/2026
Welcome,
The spring has rolled in and the roses are in full bloom! What a wonderful season.
Just to let you know, I am accepting new clients as of April 16 - June 1st. Have a look at my website and respond there, serious requests only, for relationship and intimacy healing. If I feel like it's a fit, I will respond soon.
Warm blessings,
Sophia
03/26/2026
*The Birds and the Bees: True Story*
My mother entered my bedroom. She sat at the edge of my bed and announced, “I would like to talk to you about . . . boys and girls, men and women . . . the birds and the bees, so to speak.”
“Why the birds and the bees?” I asked. I’d heard this term before, but it had no associated meaning for me.
“That’s what they call it.”
Curiously, I asked her to continue.
“I’ll start with the body parts of men and women,” she said. “I have a little book for you that you can look at on your own after.”
“A p***s,” she explained, “looks like a turkey’s head upside down, with those darker flappy parts.” At this, she cracked up and laughed so hard she doubled over. The image in my head looked pretty gross, with a long hairy thing and droopy flappy skin, but she was laughing so much that I started to laugh too.
“Now, a woman on the other hand, is like a beehive without the bees. It is enclosed but if you go through the entrance, it is warm, sticky and sweet. Farther up there is the Queen’s chamber, where all of life is created.”
I liked this story much better, although I doubted that I had one of those bee combs between my legs. There was, however, sometimes a buzzing, a zinging feeling, and a lot of energy moving around, even enough to be a distraction at times.
“Now,” she continues, “For how babies are made. The man puts his p***s “(turkey neck, the bird part) “into her vagina” (empty bees hive? Honeycomb?) “--- “
She didn’t get any further.
It dawned on me.
“You LET Daddy do that to you??? That’s terrible! That’s so gross!”
“Oh Sophia, “she said. “It feels good when you love each other.”
In the book, she gave me, I found an illustration of a v***a. It looked like a bee! It had an oval shape with a bees head at the top and wings around the sides. It even had stripes across the body and I tried to decide if these were lines for shading or actual patterning. I put a small mirror under me to see what was there, and I decided that I was not normal. Mine was pretty and looked nothing like a receptacle for pollination, or a pollenating insect. It was soft and pink, like the bud of a rose.
07/22/2025
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01/07/2025
Is this true for you? it doesn't have to be. I work with couples and individuals to make this change. Say goodbye to faking or**sm and performance anxiety. Say hello to a great match in the bedroom!
10/08/2024
This evening! Two seats left for women interested in exploring the connection between spirituality and sexuality: a unique and empowering perspective.
10/03/2024
Ta**ra & Sacred Sexuality for Women, Tuesday Oct.8! -
Ta**ra & Sacred S3xuality for Women, this Tuesday
This class offers a safe space for women to gather in community, share presence and empower each other. It will part teaching, part experiential exercises and part discussion. From a vast well of knowledge and love, this class is intuitively guided to best serve those that are present. Subje...
10/02/2024
Super excited to be teaching my class at The Oracle again soon!
https://oraclelove.ca/workshops/ **ra-and-sacred
In this workshop, tailored for women, you will delve into sexual expression as a means to connect to the spiritual realm. Sophia will point the way to making this important facet of human experience deeper and more enriching. She will assist you in understanding what it can really mean, its healing potential, and how powerful it becomes when approached in the right way. Connect to Spirit, deepen your relationship with current or potential partners, and experience a transformative effect that will have profound implications in your quality of life far beyond just the act itself.
Synopsis:
*Brief history of Ta**ra
*What is Neota**ra?
*Sacred sexuality: the connection between sexuality and spirituality
*How to tune into the above
*Chakra meditation and bringing in the circulation-of-life-force
energy
*In-class practical exercises
*Q&A*
About Sophia:
Sophia has been a practicing as a certified ta***ic educator and practitioner or the last twenty years. She is also a Relationship and Intimacy Coach through the Somatica institute, published author and registered art therapist. She works with individuals, couples and is a LGTBQ+ ally.
Testimonials:
Attending the this class with Sophia was a beautiful experience. I left feeling inspired and hopeful about the possibility of enjoying intimacy again, something I hadn't felt in a long time. - A.N
Thank you for such a special evening...it was a beautiful experience for me, being surrounded by so many women sharing in such an intimate and safe space. Count me in for any future classes or workshops you do. -G.N
This was a game-changer for me. I got an answer to a question I've held for a long time and know that I will be able to move forward now. -T.N
08/31/2024
Here’s a tip towards having a healthy relationship.