Malleable Mind

01/27/2023

This year I want to help as many people as possible who are going through separation or divorce, have peace of mind, be able to sleep at night, get over the pain, stress and overwhelm of their current situation and their process.

I’m sharing my story so that you can get evidence that it is possible to experience the process in a better way than the nasty stories and pictures the statistics (and pretty much everyone) say separation or divorce is...

And to let you know, no matter how you feel today and where you are, emotionally and mentally, things WILL get BETTER! You will see the light at the end of the tunnel, and you will thrive!! So, hang on in there!

Let's start 2023 with a positive outlook and with the right energy and focus to feel like ourselves again, or perhaps even better!!

I’ll be going live everyday at 12:45 ET / 9:45 PT for about 10 mins to share tips and actionable hacks and techniques to help you navigate your separation or divorce, to help you manage your emotional state, your mindset and to improve the chances of having a collaborative, smooth and inexpensive process with your ex, as well as to be Hope-FULL again.

You can add in the comments any specific challenge you may be experiencing or question, and I will do my best to provide a solution, tip or a hack to help out.

In the meantime,

What are you looking forward to?
What’s on the horizon for you, today?

No matter how you feel today, HOPE is always a choice.

If you want to be a part of a community that is experiencing the same things you are, and who is there to support you in a positive way and help you move forward, then, join my FB group: https://fb.me/g/p_6BxwzkTJNtgBhy3M/DOFRZvHC

Looking forward to seeing you there.

Be amazing!
Fede

01/03/2023

Happy New Year!! May 2023 be a year full of blessings, health, happiness and success!!

Let's focus on how making this year better than 2022, because we CAN!! Stay Awesome!!

11/09/2022

Today's message is a simple, yet powerful one. As Tony Robbins says, "How is the worst thing that ever happened to you, the best thing that ever happened to you?" It's all about perspective.

Is the decision you are making today, of who you are after separation or divorce, keeping you a victim of your circumstances or empowering you to become your next great version?

Reconnect. Health. Thrive.

11/08/2022

Hanging on to resentment, anger, hate or disappointment against your ex? Think you have moved on, but keep talking to others about it? Watch this?

We usually don’t think about it, but not letting go of those feelings is one of the most damaging things we can do. It only hurt us while our ex is living his or her life without even thinking about us or knowing how much we’re suffering.

To reduce our suffering and increase our levels of happiness, hopefulness, optimism and peace of mind (as shown by many research studies), we must forgive our ex.

As I mentioned in my previous post about forgiveness, learning to forgive is a skill that starts with a choice and needs practice.

Keep in mind that there’s no need to reconcile when you forgive.

Forgiveness and reconciliation are two distinct things. Forgiveness is internal, and the process does not hinge on the offender offering an apology, repayment or reconciling afterward.

Forgiveness is vitally important for the mental health of those who have been victimized. It propels people forward rather than keeping them emotionally engaged in an injustice or trauma.

Forgiving is hard work. It takes time, and involves pain, but the rewards are immense!

If you practice and develop this skill in life and every conversation and interaction, you might be shocked at how it impacts your life for the better.

Forgive. Heal. Thrive.

11/07/2022

Do you feel guilty of your separation or divorce? Are you being too hard on yourself?

To survive your separation or divorce, you need to be able to let go of the past. To let go of the past one of the first things we need to do is to acknowledge we did our best. A great way to do that is to develop the skill of FORGIVENESS. Yes, forgiveness is a skill. No one is born with it. It's a choice, and even though it may be a hard choice, the benefits it gives us are immeasurable!!

I hope you find this useful and it helps you feel better and to start moving forward during your separation or divorce, with inner peace.

Re-Connect. Heal. Thrive.

11/03/2022

Feeling like a train wreck during your separation or divorce? Like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel? Watch this. You are Amazing! Stay strong!! 💪🏻🔥

10/21/2022

What if my ex takes away everything I worked so hard to achieve?

Ever found yourself asking this?

Most entrepreneurs and business professionals grind all day and night to build their dream lifestyle.

But when their relationships start failing, the non-stop fighting, the yelling contests, and then the lawyers and lengthy court battles - everything! Just leaves their mental and emotional state in shambles.

And because of that, their passion for their work, their relationships with their colleagues and clients, their purpose in life - it all starts to suffer.

Hi, my name is Federico (Fede) Palacios and I had faced all this during my divorce.

But I was able to turn it around by using a few unknown techniques for mindset & emotional control, and communication & persuasion, that led to a collaborative divorce for me and my ex without the emotional rollercoaster.

We had managed to turn it around so well, that we could be in the same room together, see each other eye-to-eye without feeling awkward at all! (We celebrated our son’s birthday together just a few weeks back, haha!)

If you are someone going through separation or divorce, I have created the Thrive Through Divorce Masterclass so you can take control of it and get over the pain and overwhelm in just 7 days.

What you will Learn in the course of these 7 days:

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Learn to AVOID EMOTIONAL TRAPS and manage your pain, stress and overwhelm, so you can start feeling like yourself again.

𝐃𝐀𝐘 𝟮
Destroy your limiting beliefs and generate a New Identity to become your best version using tools like the “MIND RESET TOOLKIT”

𝐃𝐀𝐘 𝟑
Discover the power of NEUTRAL THINKING and use it to make it your new superpower to assess problems and analyze crises, and to remove your ex’s power to push your buttons.

𝐃𝐀𝐘 4
Building rapport with your Ex, earning their trust and increase your influence with techniques to exercise control over conversations, ETHICALLY, and being able to calm them when they lose it!

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Learn the use of the secret sauce of PERSUASION and PARAPHRASING to facilitate the negotiations of your separation or divorce for a fair and just outcome, and to protect everything you have been working so hard to achieve.

𝐃𝐀𝐘 6
Learn how to connect better with your ex by using the POWER OF QUESTIONS, and asking CALIBRATED QUESTIONS to obtain win-win outcomes.

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Learn how to THRIVE through your separation or divorce and build yourself a new and better future, while also developing your resilience to bounce back from any setbacks stronger than before.

The next masterclass starts on Oct 24. Hurry up and register here: www.divorce-hacker.com/masterclass-order

10/20/2022

Always remember: we can't give what we don't have. To love others and be able to accept their love, we first need to love ourselves. No matter how you feel today, you CAN do it. It's like any other "skill"... yes, you read right... it's a skill that starts with making the choice to love yourself. Then, all it takes is practice. Give it a try ❤️😉🙌

-Hacker

09/29/2022

Adversity is part of life's plan. Learning how to navigate life's events is the key to being in a constant beautiful state and thrive no matter what is happening right now. Work on applying neutral thinking and you will be able reduce or eliminate the pain, panic, stress & overwhelm during your separation or divorce. Works every time!

If you want to learn how, check out
www.divorce-hacker.com

Get my proven framework to have a collaborative and fair divorce and be EXCITED about the next phase in your life!

09/01/2022

3 things that will allow you to turn your separation or divorce process from conflict to collaboration:

(Remember: EAR)
1. The EMPATHY you can show your ex�

2. Your ability to pay ATTENTION to your ex when interacting�

3. The choice you make to show your ex the RESPECT they deserve, not because of what they may or may not have done, but because as human beings we all deserve respect�

Remember: Be the partner you wish you had during your separation or divorce.

If you found this valuable, follow me. I will be posting separation or divorce hacks to help you have a collaborative process and thrive through divorce.

If you think this can help someone going through separation or divorce, share it now, this may be the one message that could make a difference in how their experience goes.

08/30/2022

Do this if you want your communication with your ex to improve. You may increase collaboration and will have one less thing to stress about during your separation or divorce.

Remember: Be the [ex]partner you wish you had during your separation or divorce.