04/21/2026
Last week, Jenny Tryansky, Professional Certified Coach (PCC), CPCC and I hosted “Designing Your Next Chapter” and one thing stood out:
Most people weren’t as “stuck” as they thought.
They just hadn’t paused long enough to see their own progress. There are often clues to one’s own progress and what else one might try.
We heard:
“I thought I wasn’t setting boundaries… but I actually do act on them.”
“I’m more ready for tough conversations than I realized.”
“I can picture the life I want… I’m just not sure I can create it.”
Some clear patterns emerged:
Overwhelm → wanting peace of mind
Feeling lost → wanting more connection to self
Uncertainty → wanting clarity
Feeling stuck → wanting direction and identity
And underneath it all: the tension between career ambition and the life (and parent) they want to be.
Two big takeaways:
1. Often your self-awareness is already there
2. Questioning assumptions changes everything. If you challenge your thinking to ponder “Do I know this to be true?” what happens?
3. What if we look at steps to change as puzzle pieces without having to know the answers or see the “big picture,” but know you’re moving forward in the right direction?
Also—this felt true for so many:
You can fear change and fear staying the same at the exact same time.
We reflected on the teachings of Stanford professors Bill Burnett and Dave Evans from the Designing Your Life course, and in this podcast interview Mel Robbins, they dig into steps to “design your life” more intentionally. We highly recommend having a listen. Link in bio
More to come in the coming months. Stay tuned.