High Road Relationships Company

Relationship Counselling, Support & Education Institute: Counselling, Workshops, Safety Plans Take the first step to be “better together"...you are worth it!

HiRR Co provides Counselling and Support for couples and individuals and services are designed for EVERYONE. All services available in-person or virtual from the comfort of your own home. Please indicate financial situation during registration and request subsidy if you need! Money back guarantee....if you aren't satisfied with the tools you receive a full refund will be provided upon request. Int

03/03/2026

When Dr. Gabor Maté, MD told me this, it stopped me in my tracks…

Siblings may grow up in the same house, but that doesn’t mean their childhoods were the same. Not even close.

Same parents? Nope.
Same family? Nope.
Same childhood? Absolutely not.

Parents show up differently for each child depending on the season of their life, their relationship, and even their financial situation.

It’s not about who is loved more.
It’s about how that love is expressed — and how each child experiences it.

If you’ve ever wondered why you and your siblings remember childhood so differently — this is why.
This clip is from my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on @themelrobbinspodcast 🎧 “Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal.”

You can learn more about this and so much more in his incredible book The Myth of Normal.

08/13/2025

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When Dr. Gabor Maté, MD told me this, it stopped me in my tracks… Siblings may grow up in the same house, but that doesn’t mean their childhoods were the same. Not even close. Same parents? Nope. Same family? Nope. Same childhood? Absolutely not. Parents show up differently for each child depending on the season of their life, their relationship, and even their financial situation. It’s not about who is loved more. It’s about how that love is expressed — and how each child experiences it. If you’ve ever wondered why you and your siblings remember childhood so differently — this is why. This clip is from my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on @themelrobbinspodcast 🎧 “Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal.” You can learn more about this and so much more in his incredible book The Myth of Normal.

01/27/2025

Love this word CONSIDERATION! Make this a 2025 resolution…be more considerate in relationships 🤍☮️ High Road Relationships Company

07/03/2024

DO YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS? The way people view you.
Sometimes I think about the different characters I play in everybody’s story.
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I’m a terrible person in some people’s narratives and a Godsend in others.
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And none of it has anything to do with the person I truly am.
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The lens that others view you through is coloured by their upbringing, beliefs, and individual experiences.
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Some people see your bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying.
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Some people think you’re weak and emotional and others feel safe to be themselves around you.
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Some people think you’re rude and selfish and others respect the way you stand up for yourself.
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Some people admire the way you take pride in the way you look and others think you’re conceited.
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And none of it has to do with who you truly are as a person.
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What you have to understand is that you have no authority over how people view you so never try to control the way others see you because the only thing that truly matters when the dust settles down at the end of the day is what you genuinely see in yourself. ~Unknown