11/23/2014
Ha'nii Yeekw (Saturday )
November 22, 2014
Lesson: Gwile'l wil K'ep di Gandoo'lt (38)
The "talking stick" - it's purpose. Years ago, when it is your turn as a chief to speak, you are handed the talking stick, all of the chiefs and guests are quiet and will listen to what the speaker has to say. The room would be absolutely quiet, this is the respect that is shown to each speaker. Growing up, we were taught not to make fun of people (no matter how different they are, we believe that if we do make fun, the exact same thing will happen to us. An example, for us as children, we were not allowed to ride a wheel chair in fun. It is the same as making fun of those that need it in their daily lives. The same applied to all living things .)
As children our parents told us not to respond to people that are being nasty towards us, that they will get it in the end. (Karma).
Just as our Gitksan laws says, we are not to tell the history of other chiefs totem poles. We might make a mistake and cause a lot of trouble. Correcting a wrong is very expensive.
I am concerned about how our people treat each other's now. Words said to one another can be so hurtful. Even if it is said as a joke, followed by laughter. You were thinking it.
Respect: by the way you behave with each other.
Think about what you are going to say, make sure your words aren't hurting someone.
Don't involve yourself in gossip.
An elder said to me, "If you rip open a pillow full of feathers and let them fly, you would never be able to gather all of them again. Your words are like that, you will never be able to take then back once you've said them."
Ansipsiipinsxw is a word that the old people said all the time. These are people that are loved and held in the highest regardđź’–.
End of Lesson 38.