Shelly-Anne Mckay

Shelly-Anne Mckay

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Mental Wellness and Performance Coach for High-Achieving Leaders, Executives and Top Talent | Coach Trainer | TV & Media Producer

Certified Balance & Performance Coach

Shelly-Anne is a compassionate, intuitive and powerful Balance & Performance Luxury Coach with more than three decades of experience in coaching, consulting and media. She has helped thousands discover and achieve their sense of purpose and fulfillment and mentored hundreds of coaches across the globe. She holds multiple international certifications and is hi

08/21/2026

What if the thing keeping you stuck is the thing you’re trying hardest to hold onto?

In my conversation with Dana Bosch, she talks about our desire to control our emotions, our circumstances and what happens next — and how learning to let go can create space for something different.

Change can be uncomfortable. Staying in the same place can be uncomfortable too.

Sometimes peace begins when we stop trying to control everything and become willing to take a different road.

Watch my full conversation with Dana on YouTube. Link in the comments.

08/17/2026

What if your mind doesn’t need another solution...it needs a break?

Roger Davidson knows what it feels like when anxiety takes over. One of the lessons he has learned over the years is to stop trying to solve everything at once.

Take a step back, go for a walk, get outside, do something different, and give your mind somewhere else to go.

Sometimes letting your mind relax is part of finding your way through.

Watch my full conversation with Roger on YouTube using the link in the comments

08/17/2026

Some musicians sing about survival.

Billy Strings has lived it.

I have enormous respect for the way Billy is speaking so openly about his road through addiction, trauma, loss, and recovery.

He grew up surrounded by substance use, experienced addiction himself, and has lost both of his biological parents to overdose. Today, he is filling arenas, creating extraordinary music, and talking openly about the work it has taken to build a different life.

One line from his recent interview stopped me:

“All this generational trauma has to stop with me.”

That is recovery.

Not pretending the past did not happen. Not hiding the scars. Deciding that what happened before you does not get to determine what happens after you.

Billy also describes music as his coping mechanism, survival strategy, and medicine. I understand that deeply. Music has been one of the ways I have healed, regulated, connected, and found my way back to myself too.

I especially respect artists who are willing to talk about recovery publicly. Nobody owes the world their private story, yet when someone with a platform has the courage to say, “This happened to me,” it makes it easier for someone else to believe change might be possible for them too.

This is also why I care so deeply about supporting musicians and other high-profile people privately. Success does not protect anyone from addiction, trauma, grief, burnout, or emotional pain. Sometimes it simply makes the struggle easier to hide.

Billy, thank you for being willing to tell the truth about where you came from and what it takes to keep moving forward.

Recovery does not erase our story.

It gives us the chance to write what happens next.

I’m sharing Billy’s “Turmoil & Tinfoil” here:
https://music.apple.com/ca/song/turmoil-tinfoil/1285698960

08/15/2026

Sometimes the hardest door to open is the one that leads to clarity.

Roger Davidson has lived through anxiety, uncertainty and some difficult seasons, and his message is simple: don’t give up.

Sometimes you have to change gears, choose a different path and trust that time really can change things.

Watch my full conversation with Roger on YouTube using the link in the comments.

08/13/2026

What a beautiful legacy to leave behind.

Fifteen years after the world lost Amy Winehouse, her name continues to represent hope for women rebuilding their lives.

Amy’s Place is celebrating 10 years of supporting young women in recovery by giving them something so many people need when life begins to unravel: a safe place to land, the right support, and the opportunity to rebuild.

Amy’s story is also a reminder that success, talent, and visibility do not protect someone from addiction, burnout, emotional distress, overperforming, or unhealthy coping. Sometimes the pressure to maintain an image and keep functioning makes it even harder to ask for help.

That is one of the reasons I care so deeply about the work I do with musicians and other high-performing, public-facing professionals. Success on the outside does not always mean someone is well underneath it.

Healing requires more than pushing through. It requires safety, trust, individualized support, and a path that honours the human being behind the performance.

Congratulations to the Amy Winehouse Foundation and everyone at Amy’s Place on 10 years of creating hope and possibility.

What began in tragedy has become a legacy that is still changing lives.

If you are high-performing on the outside while privately struggling underneath it all, you do not have to wait for everything to fall apart before reaching for support. Message me privately.

08/06/2026

Tomorrow it begins.

Level Up LIVE starts tomorrow. The coaching seats are full, but observer seats are still available.

If you've been thinking about joining, now is the time.

DM me 𝐋𝐔𝐋 for the details.

08/04/2026

If you’re sober, sober-curious, or choosing an alcohol-free life, I’d love to invite you to my next event.

Sun-Dipped Social—an elevated private poolside brunch designed to make meeting people and forming real connections feel easy.

The $50 ticket is an investment in more than an afternoon out. It is an investment in belonging, laughter, meaningful conversation, and a vibrant social life with alcohol nowhere near the centre.

Only 25 spots are available, so grab yours before they’re gone.
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Socializing without alcohol can feel surprisingly intimidating—especially when you are walking into a room alone. At Sober & Social Club, you do not have to figure it out by yourself.

**Sun-Dipped Social** is not simply a casual pool day. It is a private, elevated experience thoughtfully curated to feel vibrant, welcoming, and unforgettable—from the beautiful setting and playful summer details to social activations designed to make real connection feel natural.

Expect swimming, lounging, laughter, a potluck brunch, and a fun beach hat and sunglasses contest. Introverts and extroverts are equally supported, and guests arriving solo can request our complimentary Connection Concierge for extra support walking into the event.

This is a summer afternoon where alcohol is not the centre—joy, belonging, and meaningful connection are.

Only **25 tickets** are available. Grab yours through the event page linked in our bio before it is too late.

08/04/2026

Sometimes the thing that helps us heal is not another conversation.

Sometimes it is a guitar, a rhythm, a lyric, and the experience of creating something alongside other people.

Music is one of the most important ways I care for my own mental health, so I absolutely love the work being done through BandJAM (https://www.facebook.com/willyhuro) and Rock to Recovery.

BandJAM brings people together to write, record, and perform an original song in a single guided session. It grew from musician Wesley Geer's own recovery experience and his discovery that music could break through isolation, lift people’s spirits, and bring an entire room together.

The program now supports mental health, addiction recovery, and human connection—and it is expanding into South Florida.

This resonates deeply with me because healing is never one-size-fits-all. Music can give us somewhere to place what we cannot yet express. It can help us feel present, connected, and less alone.

I especially love that participants do not need to be musicians. They simply get to create, connect, and experience what becomes possible when music brings people together.

Huge respect to everyone at BandJAM and Rock to Recovery for continuing to expand this meaningful work.

What is one song that can lift your spirits almost every time, even on a difficult day?

The full story from WLRN Public Radio and Television is in the comments.

08/04/2026

Your coaching skills aren't gone; they're waiting to be reawakened. Just a few coaching seats remain. Unlimited observer seats are still available. DM "𝐋𝐔𝐋" before registration closes.

07/28/2026

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