06/10/2026
Tell me your favourite ways to turn power struggles into playful cooperation?! Inspire others đâ¤ď¸
Playful parenting / positive parenting / mom of two kids / mom of three kids
Helping you with sibling fights, tantrums and misbehaviour so you can enjoy parenting.
06/10/2026
Tell me your favourite ways to turn power struggles into playful cooperation?! Inspire others đâ¤ď¸
Playful parenting / positive parenting / mom of two kids / mom of three kids
Friends do this
If weâre not friends yet, you can go ahead and hit FOLLOW đđ
I had a client tell me last week that Chat GPT has given her some great scripts for what to say when her kids fight.
Thatâs great! Use what you got.
But the thing is: unless Chat GPT is trained on my frameworks, itâs not going to give you a full picture plan of what will actually reduce sibling fighting.
Because you need to understand WHY the fights are happening, WHY youâre always the referee when they fight, WHY your current plan is failing and WHY you should use certain scripts.
Otherwise itâs just more jumbled information in your brain that you canât use in the heat of the moment.
You can grab my free Sibling Fight Action plan to get started (and check out my Sibling programs for more)
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Mom of two kids / mom of three kids / sibling fights / sibling conflict / positive parenting
06/05/2026
Can we just simplify this?
Our kids behaviour seems complicated. And parents like to search for the one thing that will change THIS behaviour you are seeing in this moment of time.
A child who doesnât listen, who gets upset over every little thing, who pushes back, slams doors, says rude things, fights with a siblingâŚ
It doesnât matter what your childâs behaviour is, this is a universal truth: when we feel good, we can do good.
Put aside all of the things you are doing to fix, stop, control and change the behaviour, and focus on your relationship. Thatâs it.
Do that, and only that, for a month and report back đđ
Tell me in the comments if this concept seems to simple to work.
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Mom of two kids / mom of three kids / mom of toddlers / positive parenting / connected parenting / playful parenting
When âjust breathâ doesnât work!
I love to chat with my clients about anger. First of all, because I consider myself a recovering yelling mom.
Yes, this is my waterfall metaphor, and YES you should share it with your kids. It can really help them visualize the concept of âcatchingâ their anger before itâs too late.
Tell me if this idea is helpful for you.đ
If you want a great resource for calming ideas, games, tools and strategies for anger, grab my Anger Toolkit!
Itâs a 35 page downloadable booklet for your kids to understand, recognize and manage anger before it explodes.
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Kids anger / mom of two kids / mom of three kids / positive parenting
05/31/2026
Seeing your child hit their sibling is probably one of the hardest parenting moments.
You might feel angry, protective, resentful, hopeless, worried, frustrated and sad all at once.
Aggression between siblings can often be about more than just a lack of impulse control. It can be hurt feelings underneath that have nowhere to go.
The aggression continues when shame, resentment and jealousy build instead of skills. Your hitting child doesnât want to be bad, they are struggling too.
The Sibling Hitting Method is a lesson from inside my full sibling program, now available on its own. This method will walk you through my signature CRIES Framework to understand hitting in a brand new way and give you exact instructions on what to do.
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Mom of two / mom of three kids / sibling fights / sibling aggression