Vee Persaud Certified NLP Life Coach

12/02/2025

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11/13/2025

Today's inspiration:💫

Our subconscious doesn’t care what WE say
—it only responds to what we repeat over and over.”

So if you keep telling yourself “I’m not ready,”
Your brain will build a fortress around “not ready.”

Try this today:
Instead of: “I’m not good enough.
” Say: “I’m learning how to show up as someone who already is.”

(Say it out loud. Feel the shift. That’s NLP anchoring in real time. Your mind is your most powerful coaching tool.

Love Vee ♥️♦️♥️

11/11/2025

I saw something today that inspired this short article for YOU!
Yes! YOU!

🌿 What do you avoid… to protect your mental health?

I used to ask myself that question…
Until I realized: maybe the real question isn’t what we avoid —
but what we keep feeding. You see avoiding things is not really dealing with it, processing it and making peace with it.
Its resistance to what is.

Dwelling on the past isn’t just remembering.
It’s watering old seeds —
the ones that whisper, “You weren’t enough,” “It’s your fault,” “This will never change.”
And over time?
Those whispers become walls that keeps us separated from the peace that is already within us.

But here’s the quiet truth you might not have heard yet:
You are not your thoughts.
Let me say that again.
You are not your thoughts.
You are the soil they grow in.
And you have the power — right now — to choose what you water.

NLP isn’t about denying pain or suffering..
It’s about gently rewiring the stories that keep us stuck…
so we can stop hurting ourself with our mind —
and start being served by it instead, and not letting old thought patters keep us stuck, in suffering and in mental agony.
I know all too well about this.

We don’t have to fix everything at once.
Just one thought.
Just one moment.
Just one breath where we choose to let go…
and let something new begin.

If this resonated… you’re not alone.
And you’re already on the path.

With gentle care,
Vee Persaud
— NLP Life Coaching for those ready to rewrite their inner story. 💛💛💛

11/08/2025

Story Time~

I remember the first time I sat across from my friend Zena at that little café downtown, sipping overpriced lattes and talking about everything and nothing. She was brilliant, funny, and had this quiet intensity that drew people in. But somewhere in our third conversation, she mentioned offhandedly, “I could never be with someone who doesn’t travel. It’s such a red flag.” I nodded, not thinking much of it. I don't travel much and I don't see myself ever doing it—not because I didn’t want to, but because I just hadn’t gotten around to it.

A few months later, Dean started dating Zena.

He didn’t say anything as he didn’t want to seem insecure or like he was trying to change. But inside, he started imagining a future where he was the kind of person who could travel—someone who could meet his girlfriend expectations. This dude, we’ll call him Dean, began reading travel blogs, saving money, planning trips he didn’t even want. He told himself it was for her. But really, Dean was planting a seed: the assumption that he wasn’t enough as he was. That he needed to become someone else to be loved.

And then, one rainy Tuesday, Zena looked at him and said, “You’ve changed. You’re not the same person I fell for.” Dean was stunned. He hadn’t changed—I’ve been trying to become what I thought you wanted he told her. The very thing he assumed was a deal-breaker? It had become the thing that drove them apart.

That’s when Zena realized how dangerous assumptions are.

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Lesson:
(sit with each paragraphs below until it makes total sense, I understand that not everyone has studied how the mind works ~

We don’t just assume things about others. We assume things about ourselves—about what we deserve, what we’re capable of, who we’re meant to be. And then we spend years watering those thoughts with fear, doubt, and silent worry. We think, “I’ll never find someone who understands me,” and suddenly, every connection feels like a failure. We think, “They’re going to leave,” and we pull away before they even get close. We judge someone as “not for us,” and then, against all logic, they show up in our life anyway.

It’s not magic. It’s not fate. It’s the mind. The mind doesn’t distinguish between what you fear and what you focus on. It doesn’t know the difference between a warning and a wish. It just grows what you feed it. (Imagine your mind is a garden and your thoughts are the seeds you planted. You water it and give it sunshine to grow each time you give the seed your attention. WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT YOU BRING ABOUT.

I used to think judgment was protective. “I’ll never date someone like that,” I’d say, as if I could control the future by labelling it. But the future doesn’t care about our labels. It only cares about your attention. And when we give our energy to fear—when we replay the worst-case scenario like a broken record—we’re not preparing for it. We are inviting it.

I’ve learned now to pause before I assume. To ask: Is this true? Or is this just a story I’ve told myself? Is this thought serving me—or is it just noise I’ve been feeding?

The next time you catch yourself thinking, “I’ll never…” or “They’re just like…” or “I hope this doesn’t happen…”—stop. Look at it. Don’t water it with more and more attention.

Because the seed you’re holding right now? It’s already taking root.

And what grows from it… will be yours to live.

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©TheOtherSideOfThis

10/31/2025

ACIM: Lesson 20
I am determined to see.

10/31/2025

..••°°°°••.. Lets sit with this together for a few minutes ..••°°°°••..
You're never alone!

10/31/2025

Welcome my friend ❀•°❀°•❀ I'm happy you are here.

You didn’t end up here by accident.
Maybe you were guided here.
Maybe someone sent you. Honestly?
It doesn’t matter.
All that matters is this:
You’re here now. And I’m so glad you are.

Let’s do this together—whatever “this” is for you right now.

That weight in your chest, that quiet ache in your mind,
It might be one heavy thing. Or maybe it’s a dozen.

Imagine this:
You’re walking down a crowded, noisy street—cars honking, people rushing, the world shouting in every direction. And you’re carrying it all: ❀•° your worries, ❀•°your grief, ❀•°your uncertainty.

Maybe it’s one big black garbage bag slung over your shoulder. Or maybe you’re dragging three, four, five of them behind you—each one stuffed with everything you’ve been trying to hold onto, all your emotional baggage's.

You’re exhausted. Emotionally drained. Physically spent.
And if you don’t stop soon ❀•° you’re going to drop.

So, please STOP!
Right here. Right now.

Find a quiet corner—just for a moment—and gently set those bags down.

Sit. Breathe.
Inhale ❀•°hold for three ❀•° and slowly exhale.
Do it again.❀•° And again.
Let your shoulders soften.
Let your mind quiet.

This is your invitation:
To pause.
To breathe.
To look at your life—not with judgment, but with kindness.

Lets plant a seed of grace in a noisy world—in the garden of your own mind. Chose curiosity over criticism.
Honor your truth, nuance, and human dignity— even when it was hard. And you did it with your whole heart.

I'm glad you’re here.
This is a soft place to land.
A space to rest, reflect, and remember:
You don’t have to carry it all alone.

We’ll take one gentle step at a time—together.

Welcome home 💛
Love Vee 💛

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