23/03/2018
Hey Hey Fellow Homeschoolers.
As we come to the end of term one and go into the school holiday period I wanted to post some thoughts as you go into the break.
First of all, PLEASE TAKE CARE ON OUR ROADS! This time of year is madness on our roads, and if you are around the South east QLD area, the Commonwealth games are going to make it worse. I can say with personal experience that these periods and the accidents that can occur don't only effect the people involved in the crash but the people around it. A simple lapse in judgement can be the difference between life and death, and you have so many lives in your hands when you drive!
The other thing I wanted to talk about is the effects of bullying and some of my personal thoughts. As a teen I was very tall and a very fit and active student. Today.... not so much lol. All those years ago, even with my height and physicality, I was bullied! Not often but it did happen. Back then it was comments about my girlfriend, or my height, basically just words with a little punch here and there.
Stark contrasts to the world of today where much of the bullying is online and spread to hundreds of people.
I recent read of a young girl who has been bullied and attacked for her difficulties. It is a disgusting and painful thing to have happen to you at the best of times, but I want to spread the thoughts about bullying outside of school.
Our sons, spend a great deal of time at our local Library and spend a couple of hours there on their own while we walk down the road for coffee. They are well behaved and respectful and always have great manners. Occasionally they will tell us about kids swearing or being nasty and even snatching game controllers or being physical with other kids. This is a problem that seems to be becoming more prevalent as life goes on.
Bullying is NOT only a school based issue and unfortunately for many homeschool students who have left schooling environment because of bullying, it is creeping its way into the homeschooling environment as well. We keep our kids away from the mainstream schooling to avoid these issues and for it to work its way into homeschooling is alarming.
I know that there are many varying reasons for bullying and many of them stem from family circumstances or environment. While this may be a reason it is not an excuse.
My fear for our children is that in those time when your homeschooler is on their own or with a friend, they are still at risk of bullying! So to the end, I would suggest that while on the holiday break, if you are in a situation where you can sit back and watch your children interacting with others from a distance, please take the time to watch how they react to other children. Make a few mental notes on things like how they react to stronger personalities or groups of "alpha" kids, how they interact with crowds etc. Then talk to them!
The only way that we as a society are ever going to tackle the bullying epidemic in our schooling system is educating our children with strong and solid methods to deal with it. Be it giving them the tools to defend themselves against physical attacks, or by giving them outlets to deal with online attacks, we must find ways for them to deal with whatever level of issue they have. By watching them with others, you may find the solutions, but at very least you need to keep talking to them and educating them against the scourge of bullying in society!
Most of all....... Love them, hug them and tell them every single day you love them and are ALWAYS there for them!
Happy Homeschooling!