11/05/2026
There’s a narrative in sport that obsession is the price of greatness.
That the more consumed you are by performance, the more committed you must be.
But some of the athletes who struggle most are not the ones who care too little.
They’re the ones who have nowhere to go mentally when performance isn’t going well.
This week’s article explores the hidden cost of tying identity completely to sport, and why sustainable performance is built on something more stable than obsession alone.
Link in bio, I'd love to know what you think 🫶
07/05/2026
Most athletes don’t realise that self-talk is doing far more than affecting confidence.
It is shaping attention.
And under pressure, where your attention goes often determines what happens next.
After mistakes, a lot of athletes drift toward frustration, judgement, replaying the past, or trying to control the outcome.
But performance does not live there.
The athletes who handle pressure best are not the ones who never think negatively.
They are the ones who redirect their attention fastest.
This carousel explores why self-talk matters far beyond “being positive,” and how it shapes performance in pressure moments.
To learn even more, head to this week's article, link in bio 🫶
28/04/2026
Most athletes think self-talk is about trying to feel more confident.
Say the right things.
Be more positive.
Override the doubt.
But that’s not what self-talk is actually doing.
Your self-talk is shaping where your attention goes in pressure moments.
And where attention goes, behaviour follows.
Where behaviour goes, performance follows.
So when mistakes happen and your internal voice shifts to judgement, frustration, or replaying the past,
performance often starts to drift with it.
The goal of self-talk is not to make you feel better. It is to direct your attention back to what matters now.
I unpack this further in this week’s article. Read it via the link in bio 🫶
23/04/2026
I used to think confidence was something you needed before you performed. That if you didn’t feel it, something was off.
But confidence isn’t stable. It shifts. It drops. It’s shaped in the moment.
And when it does, most athletes fall into the same patterns of looking outward for it, or waiting for it to come back before they act.
That’s where performance starts to slip.
The athletes who sustain performance aren’t the ones who always feel confident.
They’ve just learned what to rely on when they don’t.
When confidence isn’t there, what are you relying on?
Read more about this in this week's article, link in bio 🫶
13/04/2026
I used to think confidence would come with reaching the highest level. That once you got there, you’d feel ready. Certain. Finally sure of yourself.
But that’s not how it works.
Confidence still shifts. It still drops. It still gets shaped by what’s happening in the moment.
So if performance depends on it, you’re always chasing something that isn’t stable.
You need something more reliable to fall back on.
That’s what I explore in this week’s article. Link in bio. 🫶